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My wife, our lover and I have rarely had anal sex, and never have it anymore. It's just not appealing to any of us. I am fond of saying, why fuck an asshole when you've got an orifice custom-made for fucking three inches away? From reading this forum, I think we must be the only three people in the world that don't enjoy anal?

One of the things I dislike about anal in swinging situations is that afterwards your dick is verboten and off limits as far as the other ladies are concerned. Last week I did it bc one of the wives really wanted DP. Somebody had to take her ass and so it was me. She did cum from DP, so afterwards I jumped in the shower to wash my dick. Still, when I rejoined nobody wanted to even touch my dick, so I had to watch the other two hubbies continue to have fun while I was basically relegated to the sidelines ☹️ One of the other hubbies has to take that job next time!

Anal doesn't do much for me, but DP is good. I need my pussy stimulated to orgasm.

As you two know, we're the same way. Just don't have the amount of free time as we'd like to go out often so we take advantage when we actually can arrange a night out. To the OP, if the vibe wasn't right on the first meet, why do you think it would be different the second time? If you have the opportunity to meet up again, it wouldn't hurt. For us it isn't worth the time and money to go out with a couple if the vibe wasn't right. The way you wrote about it, I don't understand how you think it would be better on a second meet. And we've found the 4-way match is very difficult to get. Our approach is 'are they attractive?'...'are they relatively fun to be around?'...let's get naked. I don't want to hear about their lousy job. I don't want to hear about their politics. I don't want to hear how the woman doesn't like her thighs/boobs/whatever. I want some laughs during dinner. I want general flirting, smiling...just fun. If they're uptight, the naked time will likely be awkward. Again, we want to have fun. Naked fun.

We take a different approach to the lifestyle. We'll find potential matches via the website. We'll exchange texts/chat, emails, maybe talk on the phone. If we seem like a match, we meet up for a lite dinner/hors d'oeuvre with the expectation of playing. Due to work, family, etc we don't have the opportunity to get out for multiple meet-ups. If we did the whole first meet, second meet....we'd end up 6 months out without doing anything. And we'd be out multiple dinners, multiple nights with babysitters, etc. That approach doesn't work for us.

I'm not that into it but I did it in our little playgroup last Friday night bc one of the wives really wanted DP. I much prefer vaginas but it was a dirty job and somebody had to do it.

...and how many got screwed by men while their significant other watched 😁

I have been shaving my cock and balls for years, like the neater look, and have gotten many compliments from women.

I can't stand hairy women and I'm sure they don't pubic hair in their teeth. There is a "feel" that is fantasic with pure flesh against flesh. We were with a couple a few weeks ago and before the evening was done, Ms. S had them both on the bathroom floor waving a razor. (Got the film to prove it) They both got off on it. Next week-end at a private social, the same couple was enlisting Ms. S to shear a few other friends. Bald is beautiful and feels good too!

I have kept kept myself smooth for nearly 3 years. Wife has loved it from day one. Of the few FFM 3somes we have been involved in, the other lady has always been very impressed with the sight it creates. I am otherwise a VERY furry individual, and the wife says having that area shaved smooth draws attention to it so very well...

I have to fully agree. There is nothing more disruptive than halting all activity to pick out a hair from your teeth or the back of your throat. I have a weak gag reflex and it definitely spoils the mood. Lori

My husband has shaved for me. I like it much better. If he doesn't shave, he trims the hair. It's a major turnoff for me to have to pick pubic hairs out of my mouth and teeth when I'm giving him a blowjob. I stay shaved for him so he doesn't have to do the same when he eats my pussy. It's all a matter of what one likes.