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2 pointsThere is a wealth of useful perspective here. We'll add a bit. 1. The only thing that really matter is that the two members of the couple are on life's journey together. That sounds hokey, perhaps, but we claim experience of being together for a half century and married for 42+. Neither of us is the person we met/married--we have grown together--and neither of us knew--or knows--precisely where our journeys will take us. All we know is that we committed to journey together and grow together. Neither of us imagined that we would be involved in alternative lifestyles at the outset. 2. What lies at the foundation of our relationship--and we would hazard to say the foundation of happy LS couples' relationships generally--are a set of shared values. Values like honor and honesty. Monogamy and swinging are not values--the are behaviors that emerge from values. The behavior of being flexible on how your partner has fun emerges from a set of shared values. We'll also mention that provided your behaviors and choices do not injure or adversely affect others, the only people your choices matter to is...you. There is a truism that women run the LS. This is founded on the behavior of honoring the other's choices; it is typically the lady who is more reticent. That is not a judgement; it is an observation. 3. No one should ever be pressed into "taking one for the team" or otherwise doing something they find unpleasant, distasteful etc. Neither of us is fond of kale, or oysters for that matter. Or anal. We simply pass as a couple. Mrs. FL like bourbon-based cocktails. Mr. FL doesn't like bourbon. It's choice.
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2 pointsIt's a long ride on your way to your first threesome. No matter if you are driving 2 hours or 2 minutes, it seems like you are forever getting there. You don't know if the thoughts in your mind or the blood in your cock will explode first. You have nothing to go on but a few grainy photos; usually one, maybe two if you are lucky. And the eyes... the eyes are always blotted out in those photos. No one wants to be recognized by friends or family. They never realize that friends or family would have to be swinging to see those grainy photos in the swinger magazines. Those "dirty" magazines hidden in the back of the combination book store/record shop. Yes, you were nervous going to the checkout with those swinger mags, purchasing some mediocre cd or magazine to hide from the other patrons the depravity of the sex acts dominating your thoughts. The relief you feel when you are sitting in your car with your treasure. The thrill of looking through the candidates, sifting through the obese or obnoxious looking couples to find that perfect gem, the one couple that displays "couple or single male wanted." You don't focus on the husbands, just the wives to see if they are hot. Hell, they don't have to be hot, just the average to middling females who aren't looking for 10 inch cocks. They nearly all ask for 10 inch cocks for a 7 inch cock holster. You curse your parents for the mediocrity of your birth right. You find a few candidates. You mail to the reference number on the photo c/o the magazine forwarding service, enclose your Polaroids....and wait. You buy an answering machine...and wait. You check your messages for two weeks...and wait. You wait and you masturbate to the thoughts of what you want to happen. The answer doesn't come by phone, but by mail. The couple writes and expresses interest. Apparently your cock pick wasn't all that mediocre, or it's your young flesh she desires more than the cervix pounding from the other bullish candidates. They send photos. Colored ones. Kodachrome. They give you a phone number. A city two hours away. They are a better than average couple. No heavy weights. He is bi, she is straight. Your are 24. They are 33 and 35. You haven't tried bisexuality before, but your heart is racing now, anticipating something new, something erotic...your first threesome. You call the number. The wife answers and you give them the phony last name that you made up on the letter, and they give you the phony last name that they made up. It's part of the game. You banter nervously. They ask questions. You ask questions. "What do you enjoy?" "Do you like anal?" "Do you like cum in your mouth?" It doesn't matter. If they said that they were going to cut your throat afterward, you would still go. You are hooked. You set up a weekend meet at a motel at their location. King-size bed. Hard to explain to the motel clerk why you are asking for a king-size bed. They don't ask. They've seen it all. The husband picks you up at the motel. Nice guy. Personable. Not his first rodeo. He drives you to their place, which is a surprise, but you are so nervous that you don't remember the address or how to get there. You go in. You meet the wife and son. She doesn't disappoint. She is a looker. The teenage son is off to a friend's place and you are just someone going to a party with his parents. He doesn't know that you will be soon fucking his mother. After the son leaves, they show you photos of their past swinging adventures. If you had doubts, then now you are sure that this isn't their first rodeo. Your cock or your mind. Both are about to explode. They follow you back to the hotel room that you rented. Locked door, "Do not Disturb" sign. She kisses her husband and it starts. The disrobing. You are nervous. What to do first. Follow their lead and try not to appear overbearing or demanding. She's on the bed, and he dives into a mouthful of vaginal bliss. You nervously start kissing her, massaging her breast, kissing her nipples. Then you get on your knees and present your mediocre cock for her to devour. She doesn't hesitate. She has your cock buried down her throat while the husband buries his tongue in her bush. The husband comes up for air, and moves to her breast, teasing. You move to the holy of holies. You lick, suck, and drink in the juices, probing with deep tongue thrusts, tasting the walls of her vaginal cavity while she is licking the husband's cock. Your member is not much different than his. You are relieved. The position changes. She lays on her side. He enters her vagina from the rear, leaving her clitoris exposed. She discussed this with you on the phone. Licking her while her husband fucks. You go down and start to lick that clitoris, less than a inch from the pounding cock. You remember that he is bi. He wants this. You hesitantly reach up, and start to cradle his jewels, all the time her juices mingles with the fleshy taste of cock. You can't bring yourself to put his cock in your mouth, so you go on licking the clit and fondling the balls until he grunts and fills her with cum. He withdraws. You switch position. His cum lubricates her vagina. There is nothing sloppy about these seconds. You pound her while he licks and returns the favor of cradling your balls. He doesn't suck you off, not sure if you will be offended. It doesn't matter he says. They just love fucking. You release your semen into her, and you all relax, sitting and talking while a double load of cum streams from her pussy. You regret what the hotel maids will have to clean up. She pees. Returns. The ritual starts again. This time the cunnilingus is mixed with unfamiliar flavors. His cum. Your cum. You don't give a fuck. The thrill of the three-way has over ridden any social mores that you were raised with. More sex. More bi touching. This time you pull out and shoot your cum over her. With that baptism, the holy rites have been completed. There are photos and kisses given. Promises of future sex. This was your first threesome.
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1 pointRena Malik, MD and practicing Board Certified Urologist interviews John Mulhall, MD, Urologist at Sloan Kettering Cancer. They talk about erections in the first minutes, then prostatectomy and wrap up with orgasm without ejactulation. Dr Malik does a weekly YouTube and Podcast, periodically intercourse related. They don't discuss Peyronie Disease in this YouTube, but in another she talked about possible protection with Tadalafil(Cialis).
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1 pointMr Swinger has nailed this before. The tone and words you are using make this appear to be a horrendous idea. As PeterJ said, you write like your husband isn't the nicest person. He sounds like he is aggressively pushing this and if you do it...he'll ask for more and more. I would think that pandora's box being opened would lead to you either going along with whatever he wants or giving up and letting him go solo. We don't know anything more than that. If there is even a little truth to the tone and language in your posts, swinging is not for you...and keep going to marriage counseling.
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1 pointYou use the term "trauma" in your first post and and are in therapy and marriage counseling because of it. That's very extreme based on the explanation you not about the planned dinner you had. In your last post you state that you are "sickened" by the thought of watching him. You say you have a fear of being judged for you "imperfections". There are so many red flags here that I highly suggest you not try swinging. Your husband wants to see you with another woman. You don't want to. Your husband is the one pushing you into adding people to your bedroom. You are sickened by the thought of him with another woman. You feel trauma and need counseling because of a dinner that was canceled because your husband basically demanded you play on the first meeting. So, so many issues here. Once you do the first swap, there will be a severe push for more. "We did it once, what's the big deal?" "Why are you depriving me of this after doing it once? That was such a tease". I know you have only posted a few times here but the words you use, the tone in your posts make it seem like your husband is pushy. Going along with this will be the end of your marriage. I've suggested this before on another thread where the husband was asking similar questions and that couple split up. Not trying to be funny here but if you really are considering this, I would do a consult (without him knowing) with a couple divorce attorneys just to get a feel for what you may be looking at. The tension in the house that will exist if you try swinging and decide it isn't right for you while he wants more will be massive. The guilt he'll lay on you after dipping your toe in and determining the water is too cold will be enormous. As others have said, the woman usually lead. Your husband doesn't seem to want to let you drive the bus. Lastly, since you mentioned it in your last post, I'll address it....many women post out here that they have insecurities about their bodies. Sagging boobs, extra pounds, small boobs, scars, big butt, etc...they've all been written here. Guys have written similar issues (penis is small, pot belly, etc). Your profile has no photos so there can't be any realistic comments. Ignoring all the issues I noted above, when two couples (three, whatever) who are into having a good time get naked, no one (NO ONE!) is critiquing anything. It's all about having fun. You may encounter people in the lifestyle who are snobby about the physical appearance but you'll be able to weed them out via conversations well before you get naked. With that said...I stand by my comment about the lifestyle being the nuclear bomb for your marriage based on what you wrote.
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1 pointEnjoy it while you are young. Leave nothing to the imagination, because the older you get, imagination is all you have left.
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1 pointApparently the tongue works magic on those anal nerves just like it does on the vagina. Softer than a finger, smaller than a dick.
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1 pointI'm going to present a different opinion from the ones above. It's not that they're not reasonable, but they seem to come at it from the standpoint of how to get you into swinging comfortably. If that's truly what you want, listen to their advice. But I seem to feel you're being pushed into it, and you're resisting. You've pointed out a few reasons, one being you don't trust your husband to honor your feelings and emotions. And you're in therapy, AND marriage counseling. I'd bring up swinging in these venues, talk to your therapists. I would imagine their opinion would be not to engage in swinging at this time. I'd listen to them. Swinging isn't for everyone, even if it sounds like fun. It takes a tremendous amount of trust and self confidence.
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1 pointIn swinging, the women make the rules. They are given final say. This is just the way it is. If he isn't getting his way bc you prefer things a different way then he just needs to man up and deal with it.
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1 pointAlso I'm not bisexual. Bi-curious would be a better word for it. I have no desire to go down on a woman but would have no problem kissing or touching another woman and I wouldn't mind her going down on me but I'm not sure if the husbands sitting back and watching is an option but I did hear about this option on a podcast. He'd LOVE to see me with another woman. I'm just not into women like he would like...but then again I've never tried it before. I want to be more open. I'm just struggling to get past some things and I'm pretty sure I can if we do things slowly. But this fear of being inadequate although we have an amazing sex life...hangs into me like a leech I can't remove. I want these feelings to subside.
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1 point"Ladies" sounds too old, formal, and inhibited. Otherwise, I can be anything from my love, honey, wife, darling, bitch, slut, cunt... I like all those when said the right way. I've done most things, but won't go there. Not me. That's where Clair, Lora, and I can satisfy one another. I like a man ejaculating in my vagina too much. BTW, besides having one of our guys going between us "ladies" in our bums, I once had two guys take turns cumming in my bum hole. It gave me diaherra.
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1 pointThere is a compelling logic to moving on. One might hazard a guess that conversation between the members of that couple has either stalled or reached an impasse. Better to let them resolve their own issues on their timeline and not yours.
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1 pointI didn't. We've been playing with these couples for about a year and nobody wears condoms anymore. I doubt it would make a difference though since showering afterwards didn't.
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1 pointAnal doesn't do much for me, but DP is good. I need my pussy stimulated to orgasm.
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1 pointI'm not that into it but I did it in our little playgroup last Friday night bc one of the wives really wanted DP. I much prefer vaginas but it was a dirty job and somebody had to do it.
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1 pointYou make some very good points, I appreciate your post. But after thinking about it, the OP said, "... we have been talking about trying for years ... ... I asked my husband if he liked her and he said yes she is a very attractive woman..." She had a responsibility to discuss the plan and ask some questions. She is not, however, a guarantor of his pleasure. Sex does not turn out equally; even when it's hubby and me screwing, one of us may have a much better time than the other. Further, who had more fun doesn't seem to be the issue, her husband didn't want to see someone fucking his wife. He should have said so. Let us know how you see things.
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1 pointMy wife, Beth, and I had been talking about doing something “crazy” sexually. We are both middle-class people with a family. My wife is a sexy brunette with a great body and very sexy long legs. We talked about going to swing clubs and watching other couples play, so that we could see if we would have the courage to join in the fun. Our biggest fantasy so far, is to have a threesome with my wife, myself, and another man. We questioned if a swing club would be the best place to find an interesting and attractive male to help fulfill our fantasy. We placed an ad on a swingers site and expressed our interest in finding someone who was in a similar situation, in their early 30’s, in half decent shape, and most importantly, new to the swingers scene. We were not interested in someone who had been in a lot of threesomes. My wife and I wanted to be in control and having someone with “experience” was scary to us. Needless to say the entire idea was kind of scary. After sorting through a bunch of ads we found a guy that my wife thought was cute. Matt was 31, in good shape, with short brown hair and very friendly in our messenger chats we had with him. He too had a fantasy of experiencing a threesome. The idea of a woman having 2 men as her play things seems to excite more men, than are willing to admit it. For me, the idea of sharing my wife brought out a lot of fears, but the excitement of the idea of watching her fuck another guy, was too much to not at least explore the possibilities. We came up with a plan and set up some rules that we covered with Matt before we agreed to meet him. The first rule was that if my wife or I became uncomfortable with the situation, we would stop immediately. Second, Matt needed to wear a condom before his cock went inside Beth. And lastly, when the experience was over, Matt had to leave. In other words, Matt would not be spending the night with us. We booked a room and one of those erotic hotels, with a large bed, a hot tub, fireplace, and a large shower. Beth and I got there early and got settled. There were plenty of fresh towels and we made sure we brought the other items we would need to enjoy our night. We agreed to meet Matt at a local bar so that we could chat a bit and get comfortable with each other first. We also decided that we were not going to make a big deal out of this and dress in a way that we would not normally dress. Part of being comfortable for us was not going too over board. We were already nervous as hell, so we didn’t want to make it worse. We agreed that jeans would be fine and Beth wore sexy, black, see though boy shorts and a see though bra, under her nicely fitted sweater. We took one last look around the room and reassured each other about the rules. If one of us was not cool with things, we would stop. We drove a mile or so to the bar. We sat in a booth and ordered some drinks. Matt arrived a few minutes later. He was also dressed casual and you could see the nervousness on his face. He sat across from us and got a drink. We spent the next 20mins chatting and a laughing about the nerves we were feeling. We did not want to have too much to drink because we did not want to let the booze make us do something we would regret later. Beth and I had a code for whether or not we were going to take the next step. I would ask her if she wanted another drink and if she said yes, we were not ready to leave. If she said no, she was ok, then we would get ready to head out. After about an hour of drinks and snacks Beth was ready to head back to the hotel. My stomach was in knots. I was feeling so many emotions, but I couldn’t let go of the idea that I was going to do something that would be so pleasurable for my wife. Matt followed us back to the hotel. We entered the room and started a fire in the fireplace. We had brought some drinks with us so we sat around the table and had another drink. You could tell that each of us was very nervous. I thought of a good way to break the ice. We agreed that we would play cards for clothes. We would play blackjack and Beth would be the dealer. If Matt or I lost to the dealer, we would lose one article of clothing. If Beth lost she would take something off. We said that once you were down to your under ware, you were out of the game. It was exciting as we all starting shedding our clothes. It was funny to see the look on Matt’s face when Beth lost her shirt and then again when she took off her bra. I could see that his cock was starting to swell. Most of the nerves had pasted by the time we were all in our undies. Beth looked so hot in her see though panties. Her nipples were hard and I could tell she was now looking forward to being with 2 men. I too was excited, thinking about the fact that my wife was going to have a night she would never forget. Not long after we lost our clothes, we thought it might be nice to use the big shower. I suggested that Matt and I head in and Beth could join us when she was ready. Matt agreed and we headed for the shower. The large shower had two heads, so it was sort of like a locker room situation. Matt had an average sized cock and was trimmed neatly. He told me how hot he thought Beth was. I thanked him and said, “Just remember this night is about her.” He agreed. After a few minutes Beth joined us. She gave a shy “hello” and pressed her body up against mine, facing Matt. She looked over his body and I could tell that she was getting very excited. She offered to wash each of us. So Matt moved closer and Beth soaped up the “poof”. She started by washing his chest and then brush by his cock and moved to his legs. As she brushed it, his cock became fully erect. Seeing this made Beth very hot. She dropped the wash cloth and began washing Matt’s hard cock with her hands. She was slowly stroking his cock with one hand a gently caressing his balls with the other. I grabbed the wash cloth and began to wash her back and her ass. As I slid down to wash the back of her legs I could feel the heat coming from her wet pussy. She turned her attention to me, and began washing my cock with her hands. I felt like would cum right away. Matt was rubbing her shoulders and started to explore her body with his hands. His cock was brushing against Beth’s ass as he moved his hands up and down her body. She turned around and bent at the waist and took Matt’s cock in her mouth. I watched as his head lean back as he felt her warm mouth slide up and down his cock. I positioned myself behind her, so I could see him cock moving in and out of her mouth. I then crotched down behind Beth and began licking her very wet pussy, slowly licking her up and down, and rubbing the inside of her thighs. She opened her legs enough to give me access to her moist pussy. I love tasting my wife. It was exciting to hear the noises from her sucking Matt’s cock and his moans of pleasure. Matt told Beth how wonderful it felt to have her sucking him. I continued to lick her wetness. Matt could not hold out any longer and told Beth he was going to cum. Beth pulled his swollen cock out of her mouth and finished him with her hand, his cum spraying all over her chest. She moaned “oh yes” as his cock let out a long flow of hot semen. After rinsing Matt’s juices from her we switched positions. Beth turned her attention to my throbbing cock and Matt began eating her pussy. As I look down I could see that she was locked into the moment. One hard cock in her mouth and a warm tongue licking and sucking her pussy, it was almost too much for her to focus on sucking me off. After a few minutes I began to feel my orgasm building. I told her I was going to cum, and she gave me the same treatment as Matt, stroking my cock until it exploded all over her chest. She stood up and smiled taking both of our cocks in her hand, “wash me, now”, she said. Matt washed her back and I washed her front. She looked at me but did not want to speak, I know she was completely ready now, and I was excited to be giving her this special treat. We finished rinsing off and turned off the shower. After drying off, we thought in would be nice to give Beth a “4 hands” massage to thank her for the incredible blow jobs we had just received. She laid a towel down on the bed and lay on her stomach. Matt and I each took a side with Beth between us. We use some of the moisturizing cream we had brought to act as the lotion. Slowly we moved our hands up and down her body. She was quiet and still as we slowly caressed her body. As we moved down to her legs, she slightly opened them so that I could brush my finger against her pussy. Slowly I moved my finger inside her pussy as Matt rubbed her ass and lower back. We told her to flip over and we each told one breast in our hands. Massaging them and rubbing her hard nipples between our fingers. She would open her eyes for a moment and then close them again, wanting to fade away into the bliss she was experiencing, 4 hands touching her and slowly working her to an orgasm. Beth brought her legs up and Matt moved down to lick her steaming pussy. I know it would not be long before Matt was getting to taste Beth’s wetness as she came. I moved both my hands to her breasts and began squeezing her nipples. Her hands were buried in Matt’s hair pulling his tongue deeper into her pussy. She shook as the first orgasm rushed though her. I lower my mouth to her tits and began sucking them. She was almost breathless when she finished cumming. “Oh my god, that was so hot”, she exclaimed as she dropped her head down on to the pillows to catch her breath. Matt and I lay on either side of Beth as she recovered from her orgasm. We were all quiet and Matt and I slowly rubbed Beth’s chest and tummy. Her hands moved down to our cocks which were begging to be touched. She moved her hands up and down a made sure we were both good and hard. She sat up and grabbed a condom from the night stand and slid it over Matt’s cock. Then she climbed on top of him and pushed his cock inside her. Placing both hands on his shoulders, she ground her pussy against him. His cock was completely buried inside her sweet pussy. Matt grabbed her hips and braced himself as Beth rode him. I used my hand to rub her ass cheeks as she fucked Matt. She was moaning with pleasure as his hard dick moved in and out of her. She told me she wanted to suck me as she fucked Matt. So, I stood up so she could take me in her mouth. The feeling was incredible as she moaned in pleasure with my cock slipping in and out of her mouth. Matt was enjoying looking up to see Beth sucking me, as his cock plunged deeper and deeper. I told her to turn around and sit on Matt’s cock but with her back to him. Matt slid up a bit on the bed so that Beth could lean back against him. I got out her vibrator and placed it on her clit as Matt continued to fuck her. She came again with a loud cry and bucked harder on Matt’s swollen cock. He grabbed her tits and squeezed them as she came. Beth moved to the edge of the bed to allow me a chance to experience her now dripping wet pussy. I guided my cock inside and began moving in and out, slowly teasing her sensitive clit. Matt moved next to her and began stroking his cock inches from her chest. She was so excited, getting fucked and watching a guy stroke his hard cock for her. She came again as I slowly lowered the vibrator and pressed it against her clit. Seeing her cum had a reaction on Matt and he sent another hot load across her chest. The site of his cock wetting her chest made Beth’s orgasm even more intense. I could feel my orgasm rising and could not long hold out. I exploded inside her. I pushed deep so that she could feel every drop of my cum, as it filled her pussy. Exhausted, once again, we collapsed onto the bed in a heap of flesh, sex, and lust. After a few moments Matt went to the bathroom and got a warm wash cloth for Beth. He washed her chest and tummy leaving no trace of the juices she had coaxed from his cock with her orgasm. I got up and brought over some bottles of water. We were all spent, and needed to take a few moments to gather ourselves and clean up a bit. “That was so hot, you guys”, Beth said. I knew that Matt and I were just as sexually satisfied as Beth. “I knew this would be a real thrill for the 3 of us”, I said. Matt nodded in agreement as he took a drink of his water, “You guys are a dream come true”, he exclaimed. After a half hour or so, during which Matt and I continued to caress Beth’s warm skin. Her hands moved back to our cocks. She told us to sit at the edge of the bed and we quickly obeyed. She knelt down before us and starting sucking Matt’s cock, while stroking mine with her free hand. After a few moments, she switched and took my manhood into her mouth and stroked Matt. She switched back and forth until both cocks were swollen and ready to please her. She got another condom and placed in on Matt’s cock and then, to my surprise, place one on my cock as well. After she had both cocks wrapped in protection, she exclaimed, I want you both inside me. Matt lay back with his feet over the side of the bed and Beth climbed on top of him and buried his cock inside her. I took my place behind her and began slowly teasing her ass with my finger. She moaned as I slid my finger into her ass, just deep enough to allow her to adjust to the feeling of it. Beth was fucking Matt really hard as my finger pushed deeper into her ass. She pushed her body down so that her chest was pressed against Matt’s and I could tell she was ready to feel two hard cocks ravishing her body. I pressed my lubricated cock against her opening and slowly fit in it. Beth was paralyzed, she was unable to move now that her pussy and her ass were both filled with hard men. Slowly, Matt and I found a rhythm and began fucking Beth together. She could hardly make noise other than short “Oh’s” as our cocks brought her to an orgasm. We both kept pace and continued to move in and out of her and she cried out in pleasure. She came a second time as soon as her first orgasm ended. The fact that Matt and I had Beth pinned between us made for a sensation she could not control. After the second orgasm, she begged us to stop fucking her and slowly we allowed her to straighten up and lay down on the bed. It seemed that 2 orgasms in as many minutes was just the kind of pleasure Beth was hoping for in this first time experience. After taking a moment to recouped, Beth realized that she now had two very hard cocks that needed attention. She went to bathroom and rewet the wash cloths. Matt and I removed the condoms and sat on the edge of the bed. Beth stroked both of our cocks as she massaged then with the warm cloths. “Cum for me guys” she whispered, I want to watch you stroke your cocks.” With that she climbed up onto the bed and lay back. We each took a position next to her and she used each of her hands to play with our balls and inner thighs. Matt reached down to touch her breasts but she stopped him and told him, “I just want to watch”. Matt start to lean his head back and I could tell he was going to cum. I was surprised he had any left in him after the 2 orgasms before, but he cried out as he jetted his cum onto Beth’s tummy. I could see the pleasure on her face as the warmth splashed across her. “Your turn” she said to me as she caressed my ball and thighs. “Oh Beth, oh baby, yes”, I moaned as I came with the same force as Matt just had, leaving a trail of wetness across Beth’s beautiful breasts. Matt had reached for a towel and covered Beth’s body with it. We again, sat exhausted on the bed. It was now three hours after we arrived at the room. Matt asked if we wanted to take a group shower again, but Beth said she wanted to relax for a bit. I chimed in by saying maybe it was time to get some sleep. Matt headed for the shower to clean up for his ride home. I sat on the bed with Beth and asked her how she enjoyed her night. She just smiled and said “I love you”. I knew that what had happened was all about sex and pleasure, the love part of the night would only be shared between Beth and I. Matt came in dressed to leave. Beth, now in her robe, got up to hug him and said she had a wonderful time. We agreed that we would do this again sometime. Matt headed out the door and Beth headed for the shower. I filled the hot tub with warm water and got in. It felt so good on my body. Beth joined me and we sat holding hands. We keep giggling about what we had just done. We relaxed for an hour in the tub, then dried off and pulled the comforter off the bed, to expose the clean crisp sheets below. We climb in and quickly fell asleep. The next morning we awoke and I headed for the shower. Beth followed shortly after and began washing me. She paid special attention to my cock that had now grown hard from her touch. Rinsing me off, she knelt down and began sucking me. Moving her hand up my shaft and sucking the head of my cock. I felt myself beginning to cum and I let her know that. She didn’t move and kept sucking as I came into her mouth. The feeling was incredible, the warm water on my back and the shock waves pouring over my body as she sucked me though my orgasm. It was almost too much to handle. She looked up at me as my orgasm finish, so she could see the pleasure on my face. She rose and hugged me tightly. I whispered to her, “What was that for”, she answered, “thanks for last night”…
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1 pointThere's plenty of other factors involved in whether or not anal sex hurts or not. My wife had two bad experiences with anal sex before we met. Both were bad, one quite painful. Painful enough that she insisted she would never try it again. Now, I'm thicker than either of the two men who tried with her. Eventually, she decided she wanted to try again. I have some experience with anal sex, so I had half a clue what to do. I also read up on the Internet some helpful information about how to do it right. We've done it about half a dozen times now. Never has she experienced a lot of pain, just some, and a couple of times she began to enjoy it. There's more to anal sex than just poking the slam monkey into the hole.
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1 pointI am not suprised by the ambivelence of a lot of people toward anal play. Even when people get past the "Ick" factor it can have, it is one of those things for the uninitiated that is so easy to get wrong -even if you are trying to do it right! It's one of those things where really being checked in and in tune with your partner is super important for best effect. Also, because it adds a layer of distraction in terms of making sure that health risks are minimized, it is not the easiest thing to incorporate into swinging situations. It can be a very intimate thing, that can rub across the grain of the swinging ethos. We kept most anal play to ourselves, but there were a few partners we trusted enough to play that way. Having said all that, I agree it can be really hot, and I get very intense full body orgasms from it, and I know women that do too. Ms Sunswept and I use to love anal play doing 69, sucking and licking with our fingers in each others ass. lol! I see mention of prostrate massage, and for any male that has not experienced that, it is worth a try. One note on that: It takes a 'touch' and learning just the right strokes and pressures to use for each particular partner. I can me made to cum from an exqusitely well done prostrate massage with no other stimulation at all. LOL! Ms Sunswept was just like this! My preference for fucking is an excited, supple, hot pussy, but Ms Sunswept would often get too wet and want it in the ass for that "really getting fucked" feeling. That happened when she was hyper aroused, which is the best time to try this if you have not done anal before. She would get shattering long lived orgasms from a good ass fucking! With a good DP, she would go into a completely different dimension, being filled up like that really increased the intensity. I feel patience, working up to things slowly, lots of lubrication, high arousal AND REALLYING TUNING IN to your partner and your partner giving you good feedback are the main secrets. Some people are just not into anal at all, and that is OK too. I know people that really made a good try at it, and it just did not work for them. So I think it is one of those things that is highly individual.
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1 pointYou guys all crack me up! It's a little difficult to concentrate on exactly what I want to share while sitting here watching Nickelodeon with my 3 year old practically in my lap... I've read that some say HELL NO to this subject some say could take it or leave it, it's too painful, etc. All of these things are nothing new to me. I'm a 38 yo mother of 2 (girls 3 & 5) and have felt/thought all of these things. Mrxxxboxy and I have been married 15+ years and early in our sex play he shared with me that it was a turn-on for him so naturally I was willing to try. He started out very slow and gentle with a thumb while doing it doggie style and because that position was really hot for me, I really enjoyed it. Over the years, we've done more and more, one finger while being licked, two fingers (OMG the orgasms are incredible) and the occasional "fuck my ass" cuz I'm so hot! Now mrxxxboxy is average length and above average girth (yum) so needless to say anal had to be a gradual thing. I had to learn to relax which isn't so easy with that orafice, but if you can get past the first inch it's easier. After a while of consistently increased anal activity it has become something I CRAVE. The orgasms I've had while being anally stimulated are incredible. One night recently, I came home from work and told him to fuck my ass in the kitchen while I was doing dishes. It didn't take much effort and we ended up in bed doing nothing but that and me diddling my clit (we had to move the action upstairs as I couldn't stand any longer). There are times when my vagina is so wet that I really didn't feel much. At that point I ask for anal penetration (well begging is asking with emotion). I can feel every inch and it feels so hot. Sometimes I use a dildo or fingers to stimulate my clit and vagina and sometimes I just want it in the ass! I don't think I'm far from a DP, I can imagine the sensation will be incredible. So far sex with others hasn't included anal (we've really only had one play date) but for the time being we are just reserving that for us. I can however see trying it with someone I trust to be gentle and possibly be willing to do a DP with the Mr. Now as far as giving, we just recently discovered that mrxxxboxy LOVES a finger or two massaging his prostate while I suck his cock. Infact I love it so much I have nearly orgasmed while doing this to him When it comes right down to it anal sex/anal play can be FABULOUS! Just relax and take it slow and gentle. It can really add a new spice to your sex play!
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0 pointsOne of the things I dislike about anal in swinging situations is that afterwards your dick is verboten and off limits as far as the other ladies are concerned. Last week I did it bc one of the wives really wanted DP. Somebody had to take her ass and so it was me. She did cum from DP, so afterwards I jumped in the shower to wash my dick. Still, when I rejoined nobody wanted to even touch my dick, so I had to watch the other two hubbies continue to have fun while I was basically relegated to the sidelines ☹️ One of the other hubbies has to take that job next time!
