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Today makes 30 years for us being Married!

For my wife, like couplers she could vary the amount of time. The usual minimum was around ten minutes of either oral sex or intercourse. Yes, she was able to orgasm when a guy went down on her, in fact she almost always had her first orgasm of the session that way. I've sometime seen her have as many as six to ten orgasms in one go round with one guy. She could easily bring herself off by using her fingers and certainly with a dildo. But . . . . it didn't come naturally. She told me that when she was in college, even before she lost her virginity, she learned to masturbate. It took her a lot of time, a couple of years, until she got her masters in the subject. She said she practiced three or four times a week, and talked about it with a couple of her girlfriends and a professor's wife she made friends with - they gave her all kinds of invaluable tips. By the time I met her twelve years after that, she could make herself come by masturbation in just a couple of minutes. She told me once that the reason she usually didn't come as quickly with a guy is that she could concentrate only on herself when masturbating. But with a guy - particularly a new guy - she had to find a rhythm and connection with him, as well as being distracted by her surroundings. She also told me in her fifties that the orgasms weren't the objective but shared pleasure with the guy (especially including me) was what she was aiming for. The only times (very few of them) she didn't orgasm was when she was either feeling physical discomfort, or the guy wasn't willing to spend time pleasuring her.

Some women, like me in the beginning, have no interest in sex with another woman. What turned me on to my Lesbian side was actually watching my husband have sex with another woman then wanting to get my cum back. Out of her vagina. With my mouth. I'm strange I guess.

I told him if this is the life he wants, I love him enough to let him go so he can find someone to do this with. He says he doesn't want anyone else. He believes I will love it once I try it and I might...but I have to take it slow. Thank you all so much for your replies. I will think about all of them.

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@blueeyedbeauty I’m on the same page as @AdamGunn2. I know you say swinging is something you want to do, but the overall sense I get from everything you’ve written in your posts here is that, while you find the fantasy os swinging exciting, what you want is to please your husband. And you think you need to have sex with others to satisfy his needs. I want to phrase the following remark carefully. The only view any of us here have of your husband is what you have told us. If I were a fly on the wall of your marriage I might well see him as a fine fellow. But what comes across to me from your posts and comments is that your husband is a narcissistic dick, focused on getting you to fulfill his fantasies and desires. As AdamGunn2 noted, "swinging isn’t for everyone." Indeed, by my observation, swinging turns out to be a lasting positive aspect of the lives of a very small portion of the public. But if you truly believe you want to pursue this, again as AdamGunn2 said, make this a major topic of your couples therapy. And if you also are in individual therapy, I recommend you make this subject a major topic. I wish you and your husband a successful navigation of this challenging aspect of your life together.

My wife Amy just told me that I have cum inside six, I forgot the first one Vicky, even before I cum inside Amy. Of alley swinging partners I have only had two protected partners.

There's a reason. Don't waste it, get busy. In our house with three women and only two guys, and us now into our thirties, we don't waste a surprise boner.

Not particularly difficult in our experience. With the caveat that you should disclose that on any online profiles. There are a whole lot of couples with bi males out there that list themselves as straight. Until they contact your openly bi profile. Basically you have to make the first move. In a swingers club in a threesome wife will ask a guy if he enjoys two mouths on his cock to see if he’s at least heteroflexible to be receptive. With another couple we’ll ask how open minded they are or she will ask the other woman while making out with her. Some clubs have explicitly lgbt friendly nights too where there would be less risk of rejection, for that reason. Our local example: https://velvetropepdx.com/event/pan-demonium-3/

Notice to "Sluts": For every man who disdains you, there are five guys who want to eat your pussy.

Gn Bbn kmMy wife wants me to set it up so she can take three. And maybe we'll try triple penetration. Two in one and one in the other and three in one.

Enjoy it while you are young. Leave nothing to the imagination, because the older you get, imagination is all you have left.