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It seems to me you may be at a cusp in the LifeStyle. Assuming your husband would like to play with her, he is being careful about your feelings. And he is to be commended for that. Now, assuming you really don't mind if he plays with her without you participating, you may choose to encourage him. This will open up your relationship to soloing, which is simply another flavor. If you have that talk, and he decides to have fun without you, then when/if you decide you'd like to play without him present, he should be willing to allow you this boon. On the other hand, if this is a step either he or you don't wish to take, then you'll still be having fun in foursomes or the other flavors you're already participating in, right?

My husband and I have been in the lifestyle for many years. Our thing is usually just to swap with one or more couples. I am not really into women but will occasionally play if the situation is right. We met another couple that we see pretty regularly at a swing club. He is much older than she is and he likes to watch her with other men. We have played with them but clearly the man prefers to watch her play with my husband (I don't take any offense, don't think it has much to do with me). He would like for my husband and I to entertain her for an evening in our home while he is away on business. Would like to FaceTime or see a video of the 3 of us playing. Here's the question: My husband told me about the request and asked me what i thought. I immediately said I was not interested but he was free to play. I then asked him what he wanted and he said, "Nevermind, I'll give them an excuse". Thoughts? I know he is interested...

At a club, spot a couple that you like in the playroom. Play with your spouse next to them. Ask them if they want to play.

That's very true. She had experiences when she was younger where she was teased about certain aspects of her body, and even after we were married she was very shy and embarrassed about it - which ironically led to exhibitionism, which then led to swinging. Crazy journey when I think about it.

That was loving, kind, and generous. Did it also feel liberating for you?

One couple my wife and I enjoy swinging with was a Christian couple we met several years back, and still swinging with to this day. They were in their late 30s, and were consistent churchgoers. Long story short, we actually met them a swingers club. Whenever they invite us over for sex, they would usually ask us to come over for "bible study", of course my wife and I knew what that meant. Now they have kids, just like us, so they obviously had to drop them off at one of their relatives or friends place, before we do the "bible study". Yes, we did read and study some parts of the bible at their place, but it wasn't very long. What we liked about it was that we were always nude when studying with them. After studying, we finally get to having sex with them. Personally, I found it sexy when the Christian wife was praying quietly in my ear while I was penetrating her. If it was a Saturday, we spend the night with them, and they invite us to go to church with them the next morning.

Although my internet research has been brief and shallow, I was disappointed when looking for female cuckolding porn. I believe once more women have been ignored. My desire is to see a wife watching her husband screwing another woman, then the wife getting "sloppy seconds" from her husband - sucking her vaginal juices off his dick, getting him up and off again, and taking whatever remaining ejaculate he can produce, and displaying it in her pussy. All the better if she orally recovers his initial deposit from the other woman's pussy. Trying to sort out the terms cuckoldess, cuckquean, cuckcake is also a challenge.

My wife Amy has nice full breasts. It's so exciting when she tells me or her lover "squeeze my boobs". Two of my swinginging partners have little boobs but it's exciting seeing their nipples getting hard as they get close to having an orgasm.

I appreciate the thoughts, they are all valid! Adam you are on the money because that's exactly what he said when we revisited the prior discussion. Neither of us has any interest in taking that step and he texted back that we only play as a couple and would be happy to see them both soon. Thank you to everyone!

I believe I’ve posted this elsewhere, but the absolute hottest sex I’ve ever experienced was to impregnate my (three, but sequentially 😉) wives. No exotic positions, just straight on missionary fucking. At one point I asked a close friend, who was then a veterinary medical school professor of large animal reproduction what was the most effective strategy for getting my wife pregnant. (Hey, from that perspective humans are just another large mammal…) "Cover her as often as you possibly can." YES! 😊 Given that we both had jobs with long hours and long commutes it was amazing how much fucking we did till she conceived.

If either of you says No then it’s No for both.

Years ago in college I spent a night with a new girl I just met. She was really hot if I remember doing everything I dreamed up and every position she thought up. With her on top I was watching her face and then she started calling Jesus, then Oh Jesus, the screaming Fucking Jesus as we both came. Afterwards we were cuddling in afterglow I laughed and asked her, Aren’t you Jewish? I’ve told this story many times in my life each time I picture her face as she was screaming.

I see nothing incompatible between Christianity and the lifestyle. It is consensual and brings happiness using our bodies in the way they were designed and intended.