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I have been called a Cum Slut in derogatory ways which I take as a badge. Some men ask, some men withdraw, I rather they just let it go. The least messy if I’m sucking is let me swallow. I always wonder why a man wants to pull out and use his hand just to cum on my face or body.

In our closed group of seven married couples, we feel confident that our circle is closed for several reasons. We are very serious and all agree that if someone went outside the group, the consequences would be harsh, even illegally harsh. If you want to play outside the group that's ok, but you need to say so and leave the group. Coming back would be the same as joining, testing, testing and monogamy for a while. Second, we believe that cheating on the group is less likely to occur that a vanilla couple cheating because everyone is getting all the sex and sexual variety that they can handle.

Just like size the duration by the men posting are extraordinary. I most likely have the least experience so I can only comment on the men I had sex with. I am guessing the men last under 10 minutes. Now I had to Google what science says, 5-7 minutes and that sounds right. Thinking about the 10 inch guys who go over a half hour I say I’m happy I haven’t met you. With foreplay I can cum from oral before penetration and again during sex, sometimes more than once. With toys I orgasm quickly depending on what I’m doing. I’ve only had multiple partners a few times.

Hi guys, My wife and I have a regular couple that we meet up with and over the past six months we have started not to use condom in our play sessions. We are comfortable with the fact that they are our only full swap partners and vice versa. I do enjoying cumming inside both Heather my wife and Marie as do they enjoy the feeling of taking mine or Jan's load. I also enjoy fucking them when Jan has already cum inside as the warm and wetness make it even more pleasurable. I have on occasions eaten the girls out after I have cum in them and last weekend during a session I went down on Maria after Jan had filled her. I am little confused by this as I enjoyed it immensely, something I didn't think I would. I would be interested to hear others views.

Swinging with condoms verses without feel almost like entirely different sports. We much prefer establishing friendships and closeness with other couples and moving towards bare. Ideally, sex with condoms is just for the 'getting to know you' phase with LS friends. The intimacy, excitement and connection are just so much more intense without that barrier!

Mostly in her pussy, no condom, that's why we're in a closed group of couples.

Mine averages around 10 to 15 minutes.

It's pretty safe to ditch condoms if you are only playing with very few (like 2 to 3) partners in a closed circle. My circle consists only of 2 widows in their 60s and an elderly couple, all of whom I play with separately. As the other man has lost much of his libido and has erection problems, he doesn't always enter his wife in every encounter and whenever he does so, his thrusting is shallow and he doesn't last long and seldom cum. So I am basically the guy who does the bulk of the penetrations, thrusting and cumming. The thing about women who have passed their fertile age is that they tend to prefer bareback sex and creampies. I guess this is the norm for them when they have sex with their husbands, so they just continue doing so in their later years.

People at all ages (men as well as women) experience significantly diminished libido. And while some folks retire from the game of sex in later middle age there are plenty of post-menopausal women who maintain a keen interest in sex and who perform very well. For some women I think (and men like you) taking the possibility of pregnancy off the table is disinhibiting. (Pregnancy was not an issue for my wife, but the quality of her orgasms, which was good when she was quite young, got better and better through her late 60s. Now in her mid 70s, she reports that the quality of her orgasms remains high.)

I wouldn't over think it, men don't hide their impending orgasm very well. So I will have you where I want you to cum, or I'll give you specific instructions on where I want you to cum.

thanks again to all who have responded. Heather and I are very grateful for the support. We have only just driven Jan and Marie to the airport after they have been over since Thursday. Needless to say it was an amazing weekend and not a condom in sight.

Sex is better bare, but many people have HSV and/or HPV and they either do not know it or will not tell you about it. Condoms are not totally effective against these viruses, but they improve your chances. All due respect to others' preferences and practices, but we are yet to see one of these little critters in our vetting process, but we know people who have encountered them. A large percentage of the population have these viruses, probably higher among swingers. We just like to be realistic.

We use condoms religiously (I love using that word in regard to our hobby) if we play at Trapeze. Otherwise, our vetting process has proven better than the governments and we go bareback with select friends. Our condom use has decreased as we've refined our selection process over the years. Also, we are past reproductive age as are most couples we meet so, other than fear of disease, there is no real reason to require their use. Sex with friends is better bare.

It was actually Marie our dutch friend. We had, the 4 of us talked about our previous sex partners and that we had a good clean history. Then during a play session Marie said that if i wanted and Heather was okay with it i could fuck her without the condom. I didn't cum in her though at that point (In heather mouth if i remember:blush: ) The next again time we where fucking though, she ask me to cum in her. I looked over at Heather, who was getting eaten out by Jan and by the way she started to respond i realised it would also be a turn on for her. So that was it. After Marie and i had finished Jan and Heather were still at it. Her sucking on his cock. She looked over to me and said that she wanted to ride him. I realised she meant bareback and i just smiled and reach over and Kissed her. Then she lowered herself on his cock and started to ride him like hell. It wasn't long before they both started to cum and i could see that Jan was loving the fact he was going to shoot inside my wife and also that Heather was eager for it. It was a wonderful night as we fucked again, me Marie and Jan my wife knowing that we now had no restrictions. The first time i entered my wife after Jan had cum in her was a while later but was also amazing experience.

My husband enjoys the same thing and I don't think there's anything wrong with it. I've known plenty of other men who also like it. It's playful, erotic, and intimate. We all have our kinks, and as long as you enjoy it and get pleasure from it, I say stop worrying and happy eating!

To me it sounds like you 4 have reached a new level of intimacy. At first, playing without condoms was probably a little taboo and added excitement. Congratulations on getting to that point. Enjoying something like what you wrote can come as a shock as it is associated with 'gay'. I'm sure the thought "If I like eating cum, am I gay?" has been in your head. Nope, just enjoying a sexual and emotional relationship with close friends that you are very comfortable with. Stop worrying and enjoy this time! Embrace the change and new open mind.

I started watching the clock during sex. I had read that 5-7 minutes was normal and I felt like we were going at it for at least 45 minutes. Turns out it's only 11-15 minutes. In a group, almost never. We were having drinks this weekend with a guy who had been a previous lover. our first meeting a couple years ago he was fully straight. Now he was wanting to explore some bisexual stuff. Sucking dick and eating a cream pie were the only things on his list. We banged him on the back lawn but as usual, I didn't come. Lotta pressure now lol. Anyway, I think I just wanted to brag that I played this weekend.

Ten years ago, I suffered something similar. Now I'm happy when it happens at all. I no longer, in fact, consider ejaculation a necessary for having fun.

Sometimes the excitement of a new lover has me explode early. Hate when that happens; tough to control!