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Michelin star restaurants don't have The Food Network playing on a TV to prepare their guests for the meal.

Back to the topic of porn during non monogamous sex... I was with a hotwife one time, and the hubby left us alone to get better acquainted before the actual play began, and left a porn video on. My first response to her was, "I don't think we really need that..." She agreed. I was more into getting to know her before progressing to the next level. That next level is never a guarantee. Always play your cards wisely no matter how good things are looking. (and things were looking very good at that point)

I have been called a Cum Slut in derogatory ways which I take as a badge. Some men ask, some men withdraw, I rather they just let it go. The least messy if I’m sucking is let me swallow. I always wonder why a man wants to pull out and use his hand just to cum on my face or body.

That always turned us off too. Particularly when it was a single guy contacting us to use Mary as a hotwife. Nope, never gonna happen . . .

Well a picture is worth 1000 words. Also very telling, for us at least, is when their home is a total mess. When you can see junk scattered on the floor, on tabletops etc that is all my wife sees - regardless of the people in the shot.

Simple answer? No! ;-D

I try to get off in the 15 minute range, if I go too much longer I go aerobic and my erection flaggs. I've heard that most girls don't want to be banged for hours, kinda ruins them for the whole week.

Just like size the duration by the men posting are extraordinary. I most likely have the least experience so I can only comment on the men I had sex with. I am guessing the men last under 10 minutes. Now I had to Google what science says, 5-7 minutes and that sounds right. Thinking about the 10 inch guys who go over a half hour I say I’m happy I haven’t met you. With foreplay I can cum from oral before penetration and again during sex, sometimes more than once. With toys I orgasm quickly depending on what I’m doing. I’ve only had multiple partners a few times.

I asked and was told she loves in her pussy, on her pussy, on her tits or in her mouth, not really into facials, but said in a hot moment she likes that too. She said that the best is too have multiple loads and being eaten after

Mostly in her pussy, no condom, that's why we're in a closed group of couples.

To me, this is very selfish and would be a deal-breaker. He is immature, greedy, and controlling. The most important part of being in a relationship and in the lifestyle is taking pleasure and satisfaction in your loved one's sexual play and fun. He's doing the exact opposite. My advice? Dump him and use the contacts you've made in the lifestyle to keep looking for someone who is generous. There is a guy who will appreciate you and be a good partner for your sexual and life journey.

That's for sure.

Yes, men should, in addition to being open minded about women who are "sluts," is if the relationship is getting serious (or even if you’re already married) is to allow and encourage your lady to play around while remaining monogamous yourself. Show her your generosity and the fun side of sex. Men, keep in mind that a woman, your woman, unlike a man is capable of having sex with someone else then performing and giving you perfect satisfaction. And it is wonderful.

Did you hear about the doctor who collected the foreskins from circumcisions? When asked why, he said he planned to sew them together to make a wallet. When asked what good would that be, he said, "when I rub it, it will become a briefcase".

We like nice people. We don’t care about their race, color, nationality or religion.

My opinion is that uncut men look much bigger than cut guys. Just my observation from the locker room. Also more to play with. Lol

I will say at the outset that genitalia pictures do not turn me on. But a couple on an online site opened their adult pictures for us. The woman clearly has a dermatological “feature” on her pubic pad. It could be a pimple, a wart, a few other things, some of which are communicable. Is it me?