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There is house music before bands come on to the stage. Nice restaurants serve an Amuse-Bouche to amuse the mouth before serving the real meal.

Both those things are real, not a video. More interesting are real couples having real sex on display to amuse the mind before getting down to it yourself.

We go yuck and move on. There is a difference between nude and up close.

That always turned us off too. Particularly when it was a single guy contacting us to use Mary as a hotwife. Nope, never gonna happen . . .

I love being on either side of that. In a three-woman, two-man poly family, however, mostly with only one load, but that's fine. I like doing the eating while getting it doggy.

Michelin star restaurants don't have The Food Network playing on a TV to prepare their guests for the meal.

Just like size the duration by the men posting are extraordinary. I most likely have the least experience so I can only comment on the men I had sex with. I am guessing the men last under 10 minutes. Now I had to Google what science says, 5-7 minutes and that sounds right. Thinking about the 10 inch guys who go over a half hour I say I’m happy I haven’t met you. With foreplay I can cum from oral before penetration and again during sex, sometimes more than once. With toys I orgasm quickly depending on what I’m doing. I’ve only had multiple partners a few times.

Swinging with condoms verses without feel almost like entirely different sports. We much prefer establishing friendships and closeness with other couples and moving towards bare. Ideally, sex with condoms is just for the 'getting to know you' phase with LS friends. The intimacy, excitement and connection are just so much more intense without that barrier!

Long... sometimes too long. If condoms are involved, sometimes I don't get there at all. Exceeding an hour on penetrative sex isn't unusual. While it's fun in a party setting and with multiple partners, I only have a few female friends who keep up with me there which is less fun.

I have been called a Cum Slut in derogatory ways which I take as a badge. Some men ask, some men withdraw, I rather they just let it go. The least messy if I’m sucking is let me swallow. I always wonder why a man wants to pull out and use his hand just to cum on my face or body.

When Sandra Day O'Connor retired from the Supreme Court, the primary reason was that her husband was suffering from mental decline and was in a care facility - where he had struck up a sexual relationship with another resident who was also suffering from senility, for lack of a better word. An article I read around that time, in Slate I believe, said that such a thing was not all that uncommon among institutionalized old people. The article went through all the moral, legal, and ethical issues of such people who do not recognize their decades-long spouses, but are having a torrid affair with new acquaintance. Some try to stop it, some say let them live their last years having this fun. Overall, though it was sad, it reinforced how strong our sexual needs are. I commend Justice O'Connor for responding with love instead of anger or drama. I don't look forward to getting old, but I do look forward to continuing to having sex, straight and Lesbian.

You will be monogamous in love, just not in sex. The best of both worlds. Sounds perfect to me.

Welcome. Your wife is lovely but she might needs nose job. Also has a nice clitoris. I bet her friend Roses Palm is fun too.

We only have condomless sex with our very closest friends, these are 2 regular couples, people that we trust for years. On one occasion I had condomless sex with a coworker which I worked for about 3 years he is a man with family and very serious and responsible,I discussed it with my husband and we felt no need for condoms with him. Almost 10 years since we started swinging and I have only had 4 men penetrated me without a condom that is including my husband. We feel pretty safe compared to many single people living "regular sexual lives"

yeah when you see over flowing ashtrays it's a red flag.

I am with a therapist weekly that has helped me greatly. Coming to the truth that I was being abused and willing say no is the first step to recovery. I thought I loved someone and denied it was the feeling of being wanted that I loved. I had to accept what one calls a kink can eventually turn into abuse slowly. I had to look deep inside myself of why I became a swinger, why I was having sex with so many others. Is that a kink? Each man is different in how he enjoys sex, something I enjoyed sharing. I will try to share what opened my eyes to abuse, it took time for me. This post is difficult for me, I will try. Those who know me know how difficult my divorce was and my reasons for divorce. How my next relationship grew is still a question even to me. I met my abuser in a very innocent way. A friendly man who listened to me in a fatherly way. He is an older gentleman, I use gentleman very loosely. I still question how I allowed myself to be talked into a bed with him. He called himself a Shmoozer, I was shmoozed. Our first time we were together was nice, he was caring, didn’t rush me and kept praising me. The only thing that was wrong was he is older which didn’t show itself sexually. I should not have told him my sexual past. I’m sure that gave him carte blanch to do things he only dreamed of. He looked at me as a young girl and started treating me as a school girl. Fun at first it was a little uncomfortable. Little by little he bought me school girl stuff, the first abuse was a spanking. He found more and more reasons to spank me. Right now I can finish this answer. I’m working and it goes much much further. I’ll try to answer later.