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We usually use condom unless it is a safe period. Here is an audio session we recorded a while ago. Our friend cum inside first and then I took over. My wife didn't wipe it out before I started. We knew each other very well so we are comfortable on this. If it is someone who we barely know, we won't. https://drive.google.com/file/d/1c6ACN22c6Voj77IMPkKaVT-st9kGjfvM/view?usp=sharing

Bareback is the epitome of swinging. When we began swinging we played with just one couple. Both the girls used contraception. My wife Amy has IUD and Lesley my partner took the pill. Amy has stuck to one playmate since she detests condoms. I can tolerate using acondom but look forward to bareback sex wih my playmates once we have become familiar. Amy and i don't go to swinger clubs or participate in orgies. We both look dforward to seconds.

A pretty good listen for those considering or already involved in an open marriage: https://www.theguardian.com/news/audio/2024/dec/13/revisited-have-open-marriages-gone-mainstream It centers on Molly Roden Winter's book More and includes an interview with a couples counselor who says many forms of non-monogamy are indeed on the rise.

Interesting, but not surprising. The couples counselor made one good point - there is only one way to have a monogamous marriage/relationship, but many ways to have an open one. That makes it more difficult to get both partners aligned.

I tried it twice, with two different men on several occasions, both oral and anal, both receiving and giving to orgasm/ejaculation. Not because I wanted to, I wasn't interested at all, but because my wife and the other guys' wives pushed it and we wanted to make them happy. They did enjoy it in a non-sexual way, smirking and laughing at us. Never again.

I think a lot of heterosexual men would try receiving or giving oral sex to a man. The problem is that if they list as bi or bi-curious, they will turn off vigorously straight men. So you have to sort it out in person. I think gay anal sex is a higher level of commitment. Probably less participants.

It was luck and driving a hard bargain, if he wasn't willing and capable of licking/finger fucking me to orgasm, I stopped sucking him off. In retrospect what would have been better is if I had discovered my Lesbian side at this point in my life and played in that world. What I got nothing in return for was the several guys I let into my bum hole. Other than a mess and pestering to do it again. Only one of them went down on me good and got to return. The nice thing about getting on bc and p-in-v sex is the mutuality of the orgasms and satisfaction.

Das ist Richtig, mein Herr!

The first time I had another man's balls up on my face was a few years back. My wife and I met with couple we met online, and agreed to meet up with them. We decided to treat them out to dinner first, and then head over to a hotel. We'll just call them Mr.Davis and Mrs.Davis. They were both in their early 40s when we first met them. After we finished dinner and headed over to the hotel, all four of us made ourselves at home, and popped open a few drinks. After about a few minutes of drinking and more chatting, we finally got more physical. I helped Mrs.Davis get out of her clothes, and she helped me get out of mine. My wife helps strip Mr.Davis, and he helped her get nude. From there, Mrs.Davis and I started kissing, hugging, caressing each other, and complimenting each other, while my wife and Mr.Davis did the same thing to each other. Of course the fun part, I was having sex with Mrs.Davis, and my wife was having sex with Mr.Davis. Now after about 20 minutes into having sex with the Davis couple, my wife and I got into 69 position. My wife began sucking my cock, and I of course was eating her pussy. Mrs.Davis decided to help suck my cock as well, sharing it with my wife, and I enjoyed it a lot. As for Mr.Davis, he went behind my wife, and started fucking my wife in doggystyle position. The thing was, Mr.Davis' balls hung low, so every time he thrusted, his balls would swing back and forth. At one point, his balls started rubbing my face, while I was eating my wife's pussy. His balls were pretty sweaty too, or at least I think they were, but it could have been my wife's juices. I couldn't help it, but decided to give Mr.Davis' balls sniff, which didn't smell bad. I also did give his balls a couple of licks, which I would describe the taste as meaty. In the end, all four of us had a lot of fun, bringing out orgasm after orgasm, and cumming a lot. It's a shame they decided to stop swinging, but we had fun with them while it lasted.

Michael and I have been lying low as far as picking strangers up, being selective in our swinging lifestyle. The other night we were in NYC to watch the inflation of the Thanksgiving Day parade balloons and to have dinner. The inflation of the balloons has become a major event with thousands of people showing up, this year on a cold night. It’s not an event where anything sexual comes to mind it’s a party atmosphere with plenty of families and tourists. I like to say we are all like kids watching the balloons come to life. I don’t know how many people asked us to take pictures of their families in front of Snoopy. I don’t how we ended up talking to two men who were joking about blowing up balloons when Michael joked I was a very good blower. It started a very interesting conversation more innuendo, a little sexual. Being cold we invited them to go for coffee or something to warm up. We found out they were in NY for a family dinner on Thanksgiving and not natives. Michael being the way he is started up the blowing again and joked about my prowess. He said too bad we live in NJ and didn’t have a hotel room to show them. We also figured they were gay because one of them said the other was pretty good too. One offered to show Michael but we told them Michael is straight but enjoys watching me. That’s when they invited us to their hotel in Greenwich Village if he wanted to watch. My instincts took over from there. In their room it was just fun when I said who’s first. After the first I was ready for the second but instead the first started blowing his friend. In all the years and all the men this was first for us.

In our closed group of seven married couples, we feel confident that our circle is closed for several reasons. We are very serious and all agree that if someone went outside the group, the consequences would be harsh, even illegally harsh. If you want to play outside the group that's ok, but you need to say so and leave the group. Coming back would be the same as joining, testing, testing and monogamy for a while. Second, we believe that cheating on the group is less likely to occur that a vanilla couple cheating because everyone is getting all the sex and sexual variety that they can handle.