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When we first started, we only had a few chance encounters with random people, so definitely condoms were a must. We're now in a group with just another couple, and an occasional single woman, and we all agreed to go without condoms. The single woman aspect is tricky since she is not with us all the time, but we feel she's been honest about her sex life, and she tests frequently. We've only recently started experimenting with the husbands and cum. Personally I love being cum on, and especially love it when my husband is still going after the other hubby cums on me. But sloppy seconds is a newfound joy! And my husband, who was very, very shy about touching any fluids in the beginning, has loved the sloppy 2nds, and also enjoyed eating creampies or off my boobs. Of course I don't judge him for that, in fact it's a huge turn on for me that he has dropped his inhibitions, and will try anything that he thinks turns me on. Great viscous circle! He does lose his desire to eat/play with cum after he has cum, which is understandable, although a bit of a double standard. There are many times when I'm "done" but continue to play, for the fun of it for me, and also for everyone involved. To each their own, and it's been my experience that our tastes and desires change the more experiences we have in the lifestyle.

Hi guys, My wife and I have a regular couple that we meet up with and over the past six months we have started not to use condom in our play sessions. We are comfortable with the fact that they are our only full swap partners and vice versa. I do enjoying cumming inside both Heather my wife and Marie as do they enjoy the feeling of taking mine or Jan's load. I also enjoy fucking them when Jan has already cum inside as the warm and wetness make it even more pleasurable. I have on occasions eaten the girls out after I have cum in them and last weekend during a session I went down on Maria after Jan had filled her. I am little confused by this as I enjoyed it immensely, something I didn't think I would. I would be interested to hear others views.

It's a lot cheaper than getting a sperm donor and IVF. However, as AdamGunn noted, there's very...VERY...significant legal issues involved. Take with a lawyer first. Even if the couple signs off on everything, and it appears your not legally obligated to the child, there's a very high chance that the courts will rule you responsible for child support. Be careful.

I think a lot of heterosexual men would try receiving or giving oral sex to a man. The problem is that if they list as bi or bi-curious, they will turn off vigorously straight men. So you have to sort it out in person. I think gay anal sex is a higher level of commitment. Probably less participants.

I certainly don't judge you on M/M contact (bi-oral myself) but this statement is confusing to me... You are not sexually interested in men, but took turns fucking one another in the ass so that your wives could laugh and make fun of you??? What am I missing?

Talk about taking one for the team...

Not only because women can more easily get a man for sex, but also because women want it just as much if not more, and can easily take on multiple men without performance issues and have multiple orgasms. Plus, homosexual "action" between women is common.

Laws vary significantly among states and countries. For example, paternity can depend on whether the woman is married, which in some jurisdictions makes the child the husband’s for all purposes. In some jurisdictions, a sperm donor avoids child support obligations not by agreement between the parties, but by going through an approved sperm bank, even if the woman chooses "direct deposit." Also, a few places will enforce surrogacy agreements, forcing a woman who gestates and births a child not genetically her own to give it up; many will not. And there's the whole egg donation thing. Some places allow payment beyond costs to the donor, some do not. Payments encourage good looking, athletic women with Ph.D.s to donate.

Ah, I don't know. There's lots of ways to do swinging, and if a couple or person wants to use condoms for either pregnancy avoidance or to protect themselves from STDs, I feel they are doing it properly.

I'd talk with a lawyer first, about paternity issues. But if they were fine with the idea, and you're fine with the idea, sure, why not?

It's pretty safe to ditch condoms if you are only playing with very few (like 2 to 3) partners in a closed circle. My circle consists only of 2 widows in their 60s and an elderly couple, all of whom I play with separately. As the other man has lost much of his libido and has erection problems, he doesn't always enter his wife in every encounter and whenever he does so, his thrusting is shallow and he doesn't last long and seldom cum. So I am basically the guy who does the bulk of the penetrations, thrusting and cumming. The thing about women who have passed their fertile age is that they tend to prefer bareback sex and creampies. I guess this is the norm for them when they have sex with their husbands, so they just continue doing so in their later years.

Yeah, I would, the salty sweet taste of kissing my wife after she gives a blowjob is a major turn on for me.

thanks again to all who have responded. Heather and I are very grateful for the support. We have only just driven Jan and Marie to the airport after they have been over since Thursday. Needless to say it was an amazing weekend and not a condom in sight.

We use condoms religiously (I love using that word in regard to our hobby) if we play at Trapeze. Otherwise, our vetting process has proven better than the governments and we go bareback with select friends. Our condom use has decreased as we've refined our selection process over the years. Also, we are past reproductive age as are most couples we meet so, other than fear of disease, there is no real reason to require their use. Sex with friends is better bare.

It was actually Marie our dutch friend. We had, the 4 of us talked about our previous sex partners and that we had a good clean history. Then during a play session Marie said that if i wanted and Heather was okay with it i could fuck her without the condom. I didn't cum in her though at that point (In heather mouth if i remember:blush: ) The next again time we where fucking though, she ask me to cum in her. I looked over at Heather, who was getting eaten out by Jan and by the way she started to respond i realised it would also be a turn on for her. So that was it. After Marie and i had finished Jan and Heather were still at it. Her sucking on his cock. She looked over to me and said that she wanted to ride him. I realised she meant bareback and i just smiled and reach over and Kissed her. Then she lowered herself on his cock and started to ride him like hell. It wasn't long before they both started to cum and i could see that Jan was loving the fact he was going to shoot inside my wife and also that Heather was eager for it. It was a wonderful night as we fucked again, me Marie and Jan my wife knowing that we now had no restrictions. The first time i entered my wife after Jan had cum in her was a while later but was also amazing experience.

My husband enjoys the same thing and I don't think there's anything wrong with it. I've known plenty of other men who also like it. It's playful, erotic, and intimate. We all have our kinks, and as long as you enjoy it and get pleasure from it, I say stop worrying and happy eating!

To me it sounds like you 4 have reached a new level of intimacy. At first, playing without condoms was probably a little taboo and added excitement. Congratulations on getting to that point. Enjoying something like what you wrote can come as a shock as it is associated with 'gay'. I'm sure the thought "If I like eating cum, am I gay?" has been in your head. Nope, just enjoying a sexual and emotional relationship with close friends that you are very comfortable with. Stop worrying and enjoy this time! Embrace the change and new open mind.

I tried it twice, with two different men on several occasions, both oral and anal, both receiving and giving to orgasm/ejaculation. Not because I wanted to, I wasn't interested at all, but because my wife and the other guys' wives pushed it and we wanted to make them happy. They did enjoy it in a non-sexual way, smirking and laughing at us. Never again.