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It seems to me to be one of those things that seems fun and playful, until some puts an 'eye' out. It strikes me as an odd bit of role playing taking rings off. Yet, if oyu want to feel 'single' again, know yourself out. If everyone agrees and is on on the joke, to each their own. For us, we'll stay for breakfast of our free will. Morning sex, can be, literally and figuratively, on the table. Which I have done (just once) complete with the 'powdered sugar' treatment. Katrina

That is the number one reason that for us oral is mostly a post-play rather than a foreplay thing. Oral on a guy is great for getting him to a second, or sometimes third, erection after p-in-v sex. Just cumming in my mouth and swallowing seems like a waste. The other reason why oral is usually done after fucking is that we women like being eaten and eating pussy, sloppy pussy. It's part of my reclaiming ritual. (I consider myself a rational person, scientific even. But I love how sex and my sexual expression is so irrational, driven by instinct, but perverted instinct. There's nothing to explain or justify, only doing things that I feel driven to do.)

Yes he takes it anally and his orgasms are as massive and multi as my own vaginal. I love that he can experience something similar to mine. We see enormous the difference between that and merely ejaculating. He is much more satisfied as I am when having the big long ones. Everyone hears as well as sees it. He can do likewise with fingers and toys, occasionally orally, but the real deal after a lot of foreplay is the best when done by guys who know what they are doing. The main difference for us both is that a real one cums and feels so much better than even a fake cock that cums. We both do love the realistics toys, they feel amazing but alas, are unable to cum.

I absolutely love my husband taking cock, both orally and anally. I fantasized about it since my college days. Eventually it happened as we opened our marriage, one step at a time and then one day OH MY W........!!! One of the hottest 5 things EVER! Yes we both play anally with toys, fingers, and orally (super duper clean). Orally is how we both get available to do more, much much more. We do it ourselves for each other and do it top each other, often. He has had a couple dozen guys orally as well as anally. Now we have 14 guys we do it with on a regular basis and 10 ladies - all couples. As NerdsAreFun stated, my husband and I both love it when he is eating me out after a few of the guys have cum in me and he is taking one anally. He can eat me for hours taking cock after cock one he gets to this point and I can let him!

Like NWAtl, we would stay home to take care of our spouse. Even though both would say, go, have fun. On the other hand, we had a foursome planned with a regular couple once and the wife had to go out of town - a sudden family thing. We invited the husband over for an MFM and had a great amount of fun. Bottom line, you do you, just make sure there's no hurt feelings.

We're a both bi couple and find it hot if the same cock has been inside both of us. It's a relatively rare event but has happened including both top and bottom. Love eating out my wife while being fucked. She loves to watch/encourage and suck me while it happens too.

Thank you for your expanded comments, Numex. Like texting, sometimes it is hard to get the full context from the brief comments that everyone writes here. Kudos to you for breaking new ground. You qualify as a “try-sexual.” It actually reads as a hot scene.

@Numex good for you and the ladies for having an open-minded experimental mindset. Very often, the best swinging experiences are when boundaries are being pushed. As long as feelings don't get hurt it's all good!

Did you ever give it another try? If so, same woman? How did it turn out?

I’ve told this story in another thread. I was in the vagina of a frequent playmate, pumping away while at a house party. Another gentleman asked if he could try DVP with us. The idea was so exciting to me that I came immediately and my partner and the other guy laughed. It was funny.

While I do have a strong faith, a woman praying in my ear as we copulate might throw me off my game.

Hindsight is 20/20. But when you're that young and you get cheated on it can be hard for some people to even forgive, especially if you thought you were in love. If it were me, I probably would have tried to turn it into a positive like you suggested. But most are not wired that way.

Sheryl wouldn't have it any other way.