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One of my good friends in high school was a very nice, good looking gal who only had one leg. She had lost one leg as a child. We dated the summer after high school, and while we had some nice make-out sessions we did not have sex. In the fall we went in separate directions to college. I went into the military after college and never returned to my home town except for short visits to my parents. Also, I got married right after graduate school and did not mess around. I decided to go to my 30th high school reunion and we got reacquainted during the party. When we slow danced she made sure that she got her good leg between mine, rubbing my cock and getting it hard. Then she whispered in my ear, "I never knew it was that big back in high school or we might have fooled around more then. Two weeks later I returned and we met at a restaurant in a near by town for lunch before gong to the hotel I was staying at. She was so hot, so sexy, and so good in bed. She would take off her artificial leg and hope around to the bathroom and back to bed on her good leg with the help of a crutch or me. She loved my going down on her, telling me that she had not been eaten since she was in college. When we fucked she would spread her stub leg out to the side so I could get every inch in, and she came often. She had a hysterectomy years earlier so we did not have to worry about her getting pregnant. We both loved fucking with sloppy seconds, and by the time she had to leave and go home. she was so full of my cum that it would run down her good leg and puddle on the floor. After the time together, she would bring a panty liner and put it in her panty to catch the cum as she drove home. We continued to get together about once a month for fantastic sex sessions for about 10 years. Her husband got sick and we decided to stop our affair. But, years later we still chat from time to time, using little clue words to let each other know that we have fond memories of the times together.

@couplers Thank you for your reply. You are right, I should have channeled my feelings in to a hot erotic experience, and I fully plan on doing this if/when the feelings arise again. We have to remember that these feelings are normal feelings but how one handles them makes all the difference in the in relationship. One thing I have to remember is that while I am a sex coach, I am also in the lifestyle as well and sometimes my brain knows what to do but my automatic responses are not always on point. Thankfully he loves me! Stephanie

I was never jealous of my wife and she was not jealous about me. We shared our sexual adventures and we found it a real thrill

I always figured that my wife doing something with another partner and/or the way she's doing it is just what she wants from him or her at the time and not from me. It is, in part, a reason why we swing, to get the experience we want from the person who we desire at the time. Particularly when we go out for alone play, one of us wants someone else more than our spouse at that particular time. It's hot for us to talk about afterwards and usually have reclaiming sex. We are happy to give the other that gift.

Just Sabrina and my opinion, not only should gay marriage be legal, but plural marriage as well. We have talked about actually taking the plunge with a girlfriend we have. This woman lives about 500 miles from us and has worked for a large retailer for a long time. She can't afford to give up her job due to her health insurance coverage. We could put her on ours if they would legalize plural marriage. Sabrina and her are best friends and the sex is incredible.

Interesting question may be, is other wife not in to the LS, or is the other wife not into the two of you? Or as FL suggests, sometimes we are just not "in the mood" and will occasionally try to placate our partner by giving in. Is this what happened here? We tend to be over communicators; we won't hesitate to simply ask people "may I have your help please. we really are trying to understand where this is going tonight; is there anything you would like to share?"

Oh my god how funny your story was. But let me explain, not funny with respect to how you felt, very funny based on us having experienced similar situations. My wife and I read the entire story and we just wanted to say great ending to it. I guess no question was needed. Your story made it pretty clear she was not in any way shape or form interested in anything that was going on. Obviously the interest and desire and efforts were all coming from him. We unfortunately have experience situations such as that. We couldn’t help but laugh especially at the part where you received an email the next day saying how great it was to meet you and how much “they” would love to see you both again. incredibly comical. So tell us, when’s your next planned date with them?. Just kidding, just couldn’t resist asking that. LMAO

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Jealousy is my drug. For two years I had a husband and a boyfriend who were both monogamous with me. (I worked hard to keep them satisfied emotionally and physically.) I was jealous anytime a woman looked at my husband or even complimented him to me. (He is in shape and good looking.) One day when with a friend, she said to me that it must be great to be in bed with him. It still is burned into my mind how jealous I was, and out of my mouth came, "It can be arranged." At that point I realized 1) there was not going back, I am a woman of my word (plus I knew hubby would a) find her attractive and b) have sex with her if I told him to), and 2) how much I wanted it, to feel what it was I was afraid of. (Me choosing the woman for him to do this with did give me a sense of control.) Long story short, they fucked numerous times over several months and I looked forward to it each time with a knot of excitement in my stomach. Longer story short, we made it a game of dating women together with the ultimate goal of hubby having sex with her and me watching (I wanted to see it!)/participating. Women were willing to screw hubby, and they did, but most didn't want me there. Those that did opened me up to my Lesbian side, and one woman, Clair, joined us to make the now four of us a family rather than just a wife with a guy on the side. Even now, I get jealous and it makes me excited.

Excellent observations. Nice analogies.

My wife and i have been talking about me watching her with another guy for quite sometime now, we came close one time but she got cold feet at the last minute. Recently though she cant seem to stoo talking about it everytime we fuck, she always tell me "can you imagine me sucking somebody's cock whike you watch ?" Every damm day,lol. My wife is a small asian girl 4'11 105lbs super sexy. I do notice that everytime we fuck and talk about it, she gets sooo wet and horny. Cant wait to actually do it and see her enjoy herself as much as i know i will.

You have, I believe, made the correct decision. I know that a blog is just a place where you like to tell people what's going on in your lives and it is not the place where you seek advice. But I will make this comment. A couple of my wife's man-friends live one- or two- hour drive away. They don't mind "going the distance" to visit her. But then again, we are on rather an impersonal basis with the people who live around us and nobody much cares that different (strange) cars are in the driveway on different days. I suppose in a small town that would be noticed.

The really odd part is that 'she' asked you to dance with her husband. I'm sort of thinking that they have a secret little game they play. Be alert for it next time..., if it is their game, it might be fun to be a participant.

Nice story, loved reading it. Wouldn't it be great to read this story from her perspective? I think your question is "How do I handle the next meeting with them that will result in no hateful or embarrassing feelings". And to that, I say good luck. Maybe Pet could pull her aside for a drink alone for a few minutes and get her to open up a bit. Who knows?

There was a book I read, "Speaker for the Dead" which had something I really liked as a kid and still do now. The "Speaker for the Dead" would basically do an investigation of the life of someone who died and then tell their whole story at the memorial. The good the bad the shocking. I wouldn't mind my swinging activities coming out after my death, but obviously I wouldn't want my wife to have to field those stares from the uninitiated either, so I'd have to go second

I know that Mrs. CXXC looks forward to the day when the 4 of us are together. That is going to be a truly wonderful adventure! To all the readers, I bid you patience! You will certainly have somehting to read that day!

It really did just fall into place unexpectedly. Everything just worked out. And yes... we can't wait to meet Mrs. CXXC when we get so lucky!

I think it would be very difficult for me to enter a situation like that without a mountain of fantastic expectations.

Nice article and good advice! Nothing like a good fantasy without pressure to heighten the pleasurre !