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I was never jealous of my wife and she was not jealous about me. We shared our sexual adventures and we found it a real thrill

I always figured that my wife doing something with another partner and/or the way she's doing it is just what she wants from him or her at the time and not from me. It is, in part, a reason why we swing, to get the experience we want from the person who we desire at the time. Particularly when we go out for alone play, one of us wants someone else more than our spouse at that particular time. It's hot for us to talk about afterwards and usually have reclaiming sex. We are happy to give the other that gift.

@couplers Thank you for your reply. You are right, I should have channeled my feelings in to a hot erotic experience, and I fully plan on doing this if/when the feelings arise again. We have to remember that these feelings are normal feelings but how one handles them makes all the difference in the in relationship. One thing I have to remember is that while I am a sex coach, I am also in the lifestyle as well and sometimes my brain knows what to do but my automatic responses are not always on point. Thankfully he loves me! Stephanie

Jealousy is my drug. For two years I had a husband and a boyfriend who were both monogamous with me. (I worked hard to keep them satisfied emotionally and physically.) I was jealous anytime a woman looked at my husband or even complimented him to me. (He is in shape and good looking.) One day when with a friend, she said to me that it must be great to be in bed with him. It still is burned into my mind how jealous I was, and out of my mouth came, "It can be arranged." At that point I realized 1) there was not going back, I am a woman of my word (plus I knew hubby would a) find her attractive and b) have sex with her if I told him to), and 2) how much I wanted it, to feel what it was I was afraid of. (Me choosing the woman for him to do this with did give me a sense of control.) Long story short, they fucked numerous times over several months and I looked forward to it each time with a knot of excitement in my stomach. Longer story short, we made it a game of dating women together with the ultimate goal of hubby having sex with her and me watching (I wanted to see it!)/participating. Women were willing to screw hubby, and they did, but most didn't want me there. Those that did opened me up to my Lesbian side, and one woman, Clair, joined us to make the now four of us a family rather than just a wife with a guy on the side. Even now, I get jealous and it makes me excited.