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Experience has taught me the same! But when you're young and possessive pride can get in the way of a good thing. If your woman likes to fuck that makes you a lucky man! Give her the freedom to explore and you will be repaid countless times over!

Most guys get social pressure not to get serious about a woman who is a slut. Believe me, from personal experience and talking with other middle aged guys, you'd rather have a wife who likes sex too much, more than you can provide and needs to step out once in a while, than a wife who has little or no interest in sex.

I know, still looking

I am usually a slow cummer because as someone said above, I enjoy it too much and don't want to end. If I feel myself getting close to orgasm/ejaculation, I instinctively back off. So I usually go 30 to 45 minutes. If it's just my wife and me, she'll cum twice or thrice in that time, but if we're in a real hurry I can do it in 5 minutes. In a swinging situation I will go as long as my partner wants, maybe 15 minutes, an orgasm, then stop, eat her out if she likes, then move on to another woman for another 15 minutes or so and cum in her. There was one time, however, I kept going and didn't cum until I finished with the 4th woman.

When my husband and I first got started in the LS together (we had both dabbled in it with previous relationships) I was more than turned off by the idea of him sucking dick. The very thought disgusted me. However, one night, after a hot wife experience in which I sucked another man, we were talking about it. I was expressing to my husband how much I had enjoyed him watching me swallow another's man's cum, and the thought hit me: I love almost everything about sex. I thoroughly enjoy giving and receiving oral to both men and women. I love anal and vaginal sex. If it's okay for me to enjoy giving blow jobs, and eating pussy, why should or would it be different for him. The more I thought about it, the more the thought intrigued me. I knew he had done It in the past and enjoyed it. I made arrangements for a mmf threesome and asked my husband to help me suck the other guy off l though still just a little apprehensive. From the moment my husband took the other guy's duck into his mouth, I was mesmerized. I give a damn good blow job, but alas, my husband does it even better. I couldn't look away. Now, though it's difficult to find, my favorite threesomes are when my husband and I share a cock to start out. Now, my next fantasy that i want to bring to life, is to watch my husband suck dick, and get a facial, so I can luck the cum off his face. Yummy!

Find a like-minded woman. As you can tell from these posts, we're out there. Find her, treat her right, give her and let her have the sexual thrills and adventures she wants, then marry her for the journey.

Having my Lesbian side, I understand as well the thrill men get from woman's breasts and butts.

We all (David, Lora, Red, Clair, and I) are still playing fairly frequently with Joe and Shannon. At first they mostly stayed in a hotel near us for foursomes, up to all seven of us together for sex. (It took two babysitters to watch all our kids.) Now, those from our family visit them one or two at a time for threesomes or separate room MF or FF overnight play. So yes, you are correct. An occasional fuckfest has it's place, but alone for a night is special. Including that moment of the first morning kiss with my husband after we both spent the night being with another.

Being alone with one lover. We started swapping spouses in separate cabins on a cruise and to this I prefer swapping to partying. My favorite is still my first who lives far enough away that it’s not an obsession. Since that first we have attended parties with group sex where I feel I am not myself, a little inhibited. If we are swinging give me one partner for the night alone in a private room. I’m not one who enjoys being passed around or looking for multiple partners just for a sex act.

My recurring thought is either of our guys with his dick in my pussy (doggy or missionary) and my lips and tongue on either Clair's or Lora's freshly sloppy pussy from the other guy. Fortunately, it happens often.