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Life has many paths with some roads leading back to the starting line. Eight years ago I spent a night with a college friend and her boyfriend after a snowstorm at a football game. Plenty has happened to me since that night, engagement, learning some friends were swingers, getting married, an open marriage, a pregnancy that was terminated, a divorce, an abusive relationship and lots and lots of therapy. My life returned to what some call normal, dating men and occasional women. That original friend married, not the boyfriend I knew, had disappeared from my life and now reemerged. Not the scene of the crime she called and asked if I wanted to join her and her husband to the football game at our school. Reluctant to be “used” and anxious to feel free, I agreed. I found out another sorority sister my ex and I had played with had also married, a guy I never met, were also going to the game. The hardest part was reliving my last few years, I only gave an abbreviated retelling. With that all told both of the husbands couldn’t have been sweeter to me.

Hello My name is Leah, also known as PSULioness an alumna of Pennsylvania State University where I belonged to a sorority I will not name. A little over 8 years ago I attended a football game with friends I knew from school that ended up a snowy day and a day that changed my life. I know some here think I was bullied and quit posting because of an individual saying nasty things to me which I only wish was the reason. I will now try to clear up any thoughts or questions on what happened in my life. If you are uninterested please skip my what may be lengthy history. First I want to thank a few friends who supported me through some trying times the last few years. I never thought I would seek guidance from older than me strangers who I found to be wiser. To continue, on that snowy day, a friend and guy friend convinced me to stay with them instead of driving in the snow. The 3 of us shared a bed in a local hotel which I agreed to innocently. At the time I was living with my future husband and was monogamous. You don’t need to be a scholar to figure what happened that night. To this day I don’t know how things went from innocent to much more. My girlfriend who was in the middle put her arm around me while I was sleeping then went further. How or why I didn’t stop her I can’t say. I never had any sexual desire for any girl in my life. I’ve told this story so many times I wonder how much is memory or how much is how I remember it. That night I became non-monogamous and had my first of many bi-sexual encounters. I’m not sure what bothered me more, the girlfriend or having sex with a guy I didn’t know. It was around that time I found out some of my sorority sisters were bi. That’s all background to me getting married, my husband getting to enjoy my friend’s openly sexual parties, me sharing my friends with him and me coming close with my husband’s best friend. Details aren’t important but his friend became my best friend when my husband traveled for business. My husband encouraged me, I didn’t do anything that he didn’t approve. My narrative turns now. At that point we decided to start a family and I became pregnant, something we were very happy about. That is when darkness set in, I had a feeling that his friend was the father. Stupidly I continued to be with our friend after stopping birth control. Call it bad timing, it had to be our friend. That is when my lies started, I had the pregnancy terminated, telling everyone I had a miscarriage. Dark days led to fights and a divorce. Darker days were ahead. I met a man who took me in. Older than me, he was a swinger and used me as an entree to parties. Things got worse after we moved to New England. He started to have friends come over just for sex. I swear he was a pimp, the men were nasty. I should have run away but had nowhere to go, I couldn’t admit what I was doing to my parents in NY. The sex also took a turn, he started being into sadism, spanking. The men he invited wanted to spank a young girl. He made me dress in school girl clothes for the men. I just couldn’t do it anymore and called a friend who saved me and moved me back to NJ. That is the reason I stopped posting, not because of nasty comments, I only wish that was the cause. I’m doing better now, moving on with my life with the help of good caring friends. Thank you to the friends I made here who check up on me and my well being. As my Dad would say “Peace”☮️

I'm going to follow this up just in case anyone feels like they got left hanging. We did eventually get together with my friend and his wife. They are vanilla, but my wife says there has always been flirtation and chemistry, so when we got together my wife and I were committed to testing the waters with them. As is always advised, my wife took the lead. She dressed sexy and made sure there was a lot of subtle touching between her and my friend's wife. Long story short, the two ladies did make out with each other much to the delight of both husbands (and the ladies too), but nothing more... until next time!

I just wanted to take a moment and appreciate the amazing, good fortune I have, being married to a beautiful, caring, intelligent, and adventurous woman, and how much this lifestyle has changed our lives for the better. Our tight 4some group recently added a single woman, and while us guys were all in favor, the women took a little time to make sure it was right. Only 2 encounters with her so far, but they've been mind blowing for all. I'm amazed at how different we all can be. My wife is thin, attractive, has big boobs...the other two women have completely different shapes, and are very attractive in their own way. My wife is a squirter, the newest addition has creamy orgasms. The other man in the equation is a gentleman, classy, caring and handsome. We're both straight, but neither one is afraid of, or makes it awkward when there's touching between us, and I have been a recent convert to cum play and "sloppy seconds" - A few years ago, most of these were fantasies for me, jerking off, watching porn when my wife wasn't home. Now it's a reality and I feel so blessed. My wife's horizons have been expanded to not only being bi, but leaning into the fantasies of our women partners. One has a panty fetish, wanting other women to wear her panties out to dinner or parties. The other has to receive oral in order to orgasm. My wife, who used to be closed off whenever the topic of conversation got too hot, is now openly talking about all sorts of fantasies and new experiences with me, and goes shopping and to drinks with her 2 new friends. I don't know what my point is with this post, except only to show appreciation. Feel free to share what makes you happy about your S/O and the lifestyle, or just appreciate the post for what it is. Peace

Do others talk to the other wives you have played with? We are still new to swinging and learning how to communicate with others during and after meeting others. There are a few on here that have reached out to me privately giving advice on how to proceed meeting others. When reading the public and private messages I take into account the ages and wisdom that comes with age and take the advice seriously. One gentleman wrote that we should not rush to meet so many so quickly, we should enjoy making relationships with like minded people. Another wrote that I should enjoy my new found sexuality, but warned me about users and crazies. She also recommended building relationships. I was also warned of STI and worse. What I love is most writers are my parents age or older and are still active. I also enjoy the opportunity to share our limited experiences and my feelings which I do as if they were my age. This weekend we took a step back with someone we met for sex the weekend before. We met them for three hours with sex as the only reason, we needed to get home to our children. Our time with them was great for us and Timmy and I both thought we wanted to meet them again. Problem is we both have younger children that need sitters. With trying to build a friendship we decided that the families could spend a purely platonic family day together. Children are precious and no sex would be discussed. We met their family for Putt Putt golf and pizza. The kids had a great time together which led to extending the day to include a fair about an hour away. With two cars, the men drove the kids, I got to drive with my new friend alone for that hour. It was the first time other than the first couple we met on our vacation that I got to have an honest open exchange with a wife my age. It was funny how alike we are sexually and physically. They are way more experienced than we are but almost all the meetings are with a type. She opened that not all meetings were fun and not once did anyone want to meet socially. She was amazed about my life and virgin bride status. She asked if I was sorry I did that, I shrugged. We had plenty of laughs about sex and family life. I needed this, time to ask questions and make a friend who I hope I can trust. Night ended with the kids, now friends, having fun at the fair with more junk food and rides. Nobody got sick. I know this is all so quick and will change over time, do others ever get to make friends they can open up to with inner feelings. Maybe I scared her away and she thinks I’m nuts with all the questions, if not I look forward to a broad relationship with them.

Thank you all for your kind words.

Thank you all for advice, guidance and help setting up our first meeting of someone for sex. We had previously set up to attend a party that we drove hours to get to then decided not to join. Our first swing was terrific with vacationers at an adult only resort. No planning it happened in a very fun meeting. Since coming home we wondered what meeting others would be. With help we used a profile to search for a long distance meeting. We had plenty of fun looking and wondering, we also had plenty of frustration. We weren’t in a rush to meet others knowing the longer we waited the more difficult it would be for me. My husband did most of the searching and I would read the profiles he chose. We found an attractive younger non married couple. I thought too much younger and I posted my thoughts here. The advice we were given was they weren’t that much younger and age is a number. Some of you stated that you met others 20 years older. More advice, meet at a neutral site to see if we liked them stipulating no sex on first date. It worked we liked them, we felt they liked us. We set up a “date” for the next night if we could get someone to watch our kids. Next night was our first swinger meeting. It went well, even great. The best part is I know that I can swing. I can meet others for sexual pleasure without guilt. I felt this was my only opportunity, if it didn’t work out I most likely would go back to a quiet life.

You are right, we read the signs and flags as negatives as we knew it was a “sex party”, the hostess could have been a very willing participant and she wanted everyone to know she wanted to F*ck Biden. I don’t know how we misread her intentions.

There was a couple my wife and I occasionally swing with that had trouble in their marriage. They were a good looking couple, in their late 30s, and they already had 3 kids, when we first starting swinging with them. At the time, my wife and I had no idea they were going through trouble, we just assumed they were just ordinary newbies. After 2 years of swinging with them, they actually opened up about their marital problems they had before, but now they're a happy couple again. Now, long story short about their marital problem was, the husband and wife weren't spending a lot of time together, the husband focused a lot of time in his work, the wife focused on their kids and work, vacation became rare for them, and their sex life was "meh". One very sad moment in their life was when it was their anniversary, and they did nothing to celebrate it at all. When they began swinging with me and my wife, they started spending more time together, like going out to dinner more, taking time off work more to be with family, or even just going on a hike together as a couple. And of course, they even told us that their sex life gotten way better since they started swinging with us. Now, would y'all be surprised if y'all accidentally saved a marriage through swinging? Because my wife and I were pretty surprised, but very happy for them.

Thank you for kind words. I never left “here”, I would check in from time to time holding off posting. Without contributing I was able to read posts from a different perspective wondering what was real and what was fantasy. I am pretty sure I know. There are a number of members who have given me support, I have even allowed myself to open up to one very special couple. Several years ago we met them, they knew about my original problem and gave me full support. I just found it easier to talk to an older woman, about 20 years older telling her things I had a hard time explaining to my friends. It is her who said I should come back here to post my thoughts. She understands that I need to clear my head without direct contact, a healthy way to express my thoughts even though I do see a professional. I am finally feeling healthy enough to regain my life and enjoy that life again. Thank you for your support.

Update We got back on the horse and tried again. We had a guy come over to our house this time. Everything started and everyone was involved. I was struggling again to get hard, but I took everyone‘s advice and persevered. I supported my wife through everything and she was incredible in making sure I never felt left out. we had gone in with the thought that she would definitely perform oral on the guy but we didn’t put any pressure on ourselves to go the whole way. After 45 mins of kissing, fingering and my wife sucking his dick I was still struggling to get hard. But then something just clicked. I relaxed a little and my wife was being absolutely incredible. I got rock hard and once my wife saw she wanted me to fuck her. I fucked her so hard and I was totally engrossed in the whole thing and actually started to take control of the whole situation. I fucked my wife some more while she sucked his dick and then I was actually the one to hand the guy a condom so he could fuck her. I watched him do it and I loved it and even though it didn’t last anywhere near as long as either of us wanted it to it was still amazing We are closer now than ever before and our relationship feels so much stronger. Thank you all so much for the advice

The first time you try something like this, the unexpected often happens. Yeah, it happened this time. But just because it did one time doesn't mean it'll happen again. First, get out of the back seat of the car. You aren't in high school anymore. Find a place where you can lay down, be comfortable. You know, a hotel room, a bedroom. Secondly, take an ED med. Yeah, that'll help. Thirdly, just enjoy the situation. You'll be amazed at how hard you can get while enjoying the sight of your wife and another man. And finally, and most important, stop fighting about it! You encouraged her to do this, now that she's given in, you're upset about it? Relax, take it easy, let the good times roll. Best of luck to you.

Today makes 30 years for us being Married!

So sorry to hear of the sad events that occurred in your life. Glad things have turned around for you. Open sexuality can be light and fun, but in the wrong hands it can be destructive. I always enjoyed your posts and I am happy to hear that you have moved past bad situations and I wish you future happiness and fulfillment.

Earlier this week my wife said something to me after returning from a quickie with one of our play couples. As we were going to bed, she came on to me. I thought, as I always do when she does this, that she is being generous in offering herself to me. I said that we don't have to. Daniela said, "Regardless of what I've done earlier, I'm not satisfied until we screw." I was surprised and touched.

Firstly, finding swing partners at a non-swinging resort is a very low probability event. (Except for single males, they're everywhere.) But more importantly, if your wife isn't enthusiastic about it, it shouldn't happen. Pushing her into a LifeStyle encounter is likely to damage your relationship.

We said hello and opened our pictures for another couple. The other male wrote back that he was interested in my wife (duh, everyone is), but his wife said she thinks that I look too old. I am 3 years older than her husband if their profile is truthful and I guarantee you that her husband looks older than me. A workplace colleague once told me I have a baby face and I would never look old. I was going to be mean and say your husband looks older than me. But my wife said be nice, it’s a small community. So I said “ok, that’s fine, enjoy your adventures.” Lo and behold, literally the next day it turned out that both couples registered for a vanilla restaurant event for swingers. The husband sheepishly wrote to me that maybe he can convince his wife to be interested in me. I wrote back “ We are looking forward to the event and meeting new people.” My takeaway: Say you’re not a match and leave it at that. No need to hurt people’s feelings. We have played with many couples who we would not picked by their pictures or profile. And we had a great time.

Our first LS experience was an MFM 3sum and, while it's very common for men to have erection problems at first, I had the opposite problem. I got too excited and finished in about 30 seconds. The terms of the 3sum were that my wife (then girlfriend) would only perform oral on him, but my lackluster performance caused us to change plans. It takes me a while to recover, so I spent the remainder of that encounter watching the other guy expertly fuck my wife to orgasm. That was a bit of a mindfuck but we still enjoyed the experience enough to continue and I didn't experience erection issues until our first MFMF experience a couple months later during our first visit to a swing club 😀 It doesn't always play out the way you hope but hang in there!

Years ago in college I spent a night with a new girl I just met. She was really hot if I remember doing everything I dreamed up and every position she thought up. With her on top I was watching her face and then she started calling Jesus, then Oh Jesus, the screaming Fucking Jesus as we both came. Afterwards we were cuddling in afterglow I laughed and asked her, Aren’t you Jewish? I’ve told this story many times in my life each time I picture her face as she was screaming.

Do her a favor. Leave. She can not change her past. You are not ready to handle it.

I was always adamant on enjoying a partner privately in a separate room away from my husband and others watching. My feelings go back to our original, and still my favorite swap partner. Normally we meet our friends for vacations, cruises, and occasionally at their home. This past weekend they came to the Jersey shore with several other couples who were interested in going to our clothing optional beach. Swapping for us started on a cruise and a visit to a nude beach about 10 years ago. Those who know Gunnisons beach know there isn’t many hotels on the beach, our friends rented a shore house a half hour away. Also you need to get to this area early if you want to get a parking spot. We met them on the beach and being the locals we brought the best bagels, lox, cream cheese and a Jersey specialty, Pork Roll. No fights, Taylor Ham. Meeting on a nude beach is the best, no problems later being naked. Back at the rental things went perfectly as all was done in a huge family room. No pairing off for private play as I usually do, it was just fun for fun’s sake. Mr S2P and I were the newbies to most of them and became the attention of those who wanted to welcome us to their fun. This is not the first time we were with a party group, I always felt uncomfortable in front of a crowd. I enjoy staying with one partner so I needed to change my attitude and let go.

Leah, I'm glad you're back and glad you're doing better despite a fair amount of tragedy in your life. I'm sure your caring friends would agree when I say please don't beat yourself up over what transpired. Honestly, it sounds to me like the men who should have supported and respected you didn't. Having been in the LS 26 years, my wife and I are aware of some of its pitfalls. Regarding the pregnancy risk, we have had close calls. As the husband I have always accepted full responsibility in the event something went wrong. Had it been an accidental pregnancy I made it clear from the outset I would support my wife through whatever outcome she chose - including the prospect of raising the child as our own. It sounds like your confusion and lying was the result of being afraid and feeling unsupported by your husband. It shouldn't have been a burden you felt like you had to carry alone. Forgive my conjecture, but I feel like the destructive relationship with the older swinger gentleman may have been the result of undeserved guilt and self-loathing resulting from the messy divorce etc you suffered through. None of this should be your burden to bear alone. The men in your life didn't support you. I feel like if your husband could have been more supportive your story would be very different. I'm sure he enjoyed the threesomes he shared with you, but when the very real repercussions came home to roost he let you down. Welcome back! As you know, we in the LS are supportive and non-judgemental. I am happy to have you back among us!

Back in the nineties, when married to the sequel, We took out an ad in "Alabama Tennessee Georgia Swingers" mag. Black and white cropped pics included. Got a lot of responses. met only 2 over the years. Fast forward 10 years.....at a house party as a single male. Host pulls out a mag he recently picked up at a gas station. There is our ad from 10 years earlier, pics and all. And people say the internet is forever.......

I think one of the perks of the Lifestyle is the freedom to experiment with people and situations outside your norm. Be adventurous. Push your boundaries. Usually you find there was nothing to be afraid of. Was the movie "Poor Things"?

I'm still around. Surprised anyone still remembers me. I might not post as much as I used to, but I do read the forums occasionally.

The couple has a right to have sex with whomever they want and even make porn. No one is trying to put them in jail for it. Their employer has a right to decide they don't want open pornographers working for them. Free speech means the government does not put you in jail. It does not mean you are free from the consequences of your actions.

An elderly couple planned to get married. They were discussing joint bank accounts, bed size, etc. The man asked the woman how often she wanted to have sex. She said infrequently. He said is that one word or two?

William , before I respond to your question, I must ask ,Your profile says Glasgow , is that UK or somewhere in the US? We started later than some of the others. We were in our 60's. We married later in life, and it was not until then that the last of our children had moved on. We had always been of the mindset of there being a time for every purpose and up until that point the purpose was seeing them off into the world. We had always maintained an active sex life between us and had , early on, gotten into the habit of reserving time for just the two of us to do things together outside of the home. We realized that having offspring around was only a temporary thing. When we had the empty nest the questions were : What's next? Why not? There were some personal elements for me as well, but I have addressed them in other posts. For the two of us it was adventure. Because of our longer time together, right around 30 years, and our ages we did not have many of the issues some face. We knew each other and had a bedrock surety in our relationship.

I had what is now called a hotwife in my twenties, participated very briefly in foursome activities in my thirties, and my 2nd wife and I enthusiastically took up swinging in our early 50's through our sixties. The best time to be swinging: Now! If you (and your significant other, if you have one,) are excited about sharing yourself with other people, then you'll have fun no matter what age you are. Can you do stuff longer and more acrobaticly when you're young? Of course! On the other hand, as you age your experience allows you to appreciate what you're into more and more.

Something that has gotten me extra excited in the past, and more so recently, is while I am watching my wife Daniela have intercourse with someone else, is when the man cups and manipulates her breast or breasts. Watching my dear wife fucking another guy is nice, I am glad she's having fun, but it seems just normal to me. But regardless of their position: missionary, doggy or cowgirl, when his hand(s) reach for and grasps her breast(s), it awakens something in me and takes it to another level. Especially doggy when her breasts are swaying and he reaches around her body and under to hold them. Anyone the same or can psychoanalize me?

One couple my wife and I enjoy swinging with was a Christian couple we met several years back, and still swinging with to this day. They were in their late 30s, and were consistent churchgoers. Long story short, we actually met them a swingers club. Whenever they invite us over for sex, they would usually ask us to come over for "bible study", of course my wife and I knew what that meant. Now they have kids, just like us, so they obviously had to drop them off at one of their relatives or friends place, before we do the "bible study". Yes, we did read and study some parts of the bible at their place, but it wasn't very long. What we liked about it was that we were always nude when studying with them. After studying, we finally get to having sex with them. Personally, I found it sexy when the Christian wife was praying quietly in my ear while I was penetrating her. If it was a Saturday, we spend the night with them, and they invite us to go to church with them the next morning.

That's a wonderful opportunity you had! And I'm so glad you have the opportunity to talk with her one on one, without the distraction of sex getting in the way. Our first couple experiences were happenstance, and total strangers - before and after our night in bed with them. We then went to a swingers club, which was nerve wracking and scary, but ended up being fun. Now we are fortunate to have found another couple who we play with exclusively, and have become very close friends with. We still have not mixed them in with our "vanilla" friends, but it's nice to know I can call her up and go shopping, or just talk over coffee or whatever. Those types of friendships are very important to me, but when we first started down this path, I thought I would have a very hard time talking over coffee with someone I went down on the night before, and whose husband has seen and felt every part of me, inside and out : ) But somehow, life is life, and sex is sex!

I tend to think if the wives can get along socially then a lasting FWB friendship is possible. I don't mean to generalize, but it has always seemed the men get along easily but the women - not as easily.

Bringing my play-partners to ecstasy is what I find more enjoyable in the lifestyle; I have never had any problems handling male orgasms in my mouth, cum is a reward for a well-done job.

This topic sounds familiar, I was chastised for bringing politics into a discussion. I checked and 6 years ago I stated that I was uncomfortable with a man who was very vocal in his political preference. 10 years ago political talk was civil if brought up, the area we live in was solidly in agreement on the topic. When politics was brought up at this one party by someone I never met before it made me angry, it took away from the reason we were there, sex. I certainly didn’t want to think about politics, I use baseball scores to help me delay. @Half MT I understand your reluctance to mix sex and politics. Your first party is hard enough without outside reasons that could ruin your first, it could affect how you will approach future meetings

I didn’t literally “cry”, we did just travel 5 hours to meet at a party because we wanted to out what our vacation friends told us about swinging. Differing politics was never an issue with our family, nobody wore their political views on their heads. The only political signs growing up was during election season, and as my father said both sides want what’s best in different ways. An American flag was patriotic. I am reminded that nobody denied elections, wanted overthrow Congress, or take away my rights as a woman. I don’t need sex with others, so I will continue to choose compatible partners who I would want to be friends with when I do decide to explore.

You probably shouldn’t swing together if one of you has no problem continuing fucking someone while their own spouse is drunk, by themselves and vomiting.

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Queen. I was asked to write about this. I mostly leave this for my husband. I do not write much so forgive me. I have always enjoyed cum from a man. I do not know why. As a teenager I think it was fascination. Maybe a little about I made him do that. My husband was the first to give me an orgasm. Other guys made me feel good but it was always a groping of fingers poking before they pushed into me. I was very lucky those days because my first few experiences were without a rubber. He was the first that used a condom. Just lucky I guess. He was also my first bigger guy that kind of scared me some but it was nice. I didn’t know those things come in sizes. I went on the pill and we have been together from 1976. He was very sexual and would have me most every morning and every night sometimes more. I let him have me when he wanted. So all my life with him I have always had his cum in me Lots of it. The many times he would have me twice at night the second time was a little nicer more wet and slippery. Then when we turned forty things changed. He was the same but my horniness went crazy. And my fantasies started to be very wild. So after some talk we started to explore. And I tried everything I wanted. I have had many gangbangs and many men at parties. These parties condoms were used or if we knew them well no condom but they had to pull out and cum on me or in my mouth. But what I loved was having my boyfriends and husband share me. I had three boyfriends long term. One for seven years so I would have husband and boyfriend threesomes one to three times a week. Sometimes my husband and all three boyfriends at once. They all would cum for me where I wanted on me in my mouth or in me. I liked it most inside me. They shared me all afternoon. It does get very messy and they would wipe me down with warm wet facecloths. I had three special events. Three special male friends, my three boyfriends and my husband. Except for a few breaks and clean ups it was an all afternoon and evening sex. They cum in my mouth or inside me. I was very messy. Cum turns to foam with that much and that many fucking you. We would have a round I would make all seven men cum. Would have coffee and a snack and go again. I always felt them in me as a slippery squishy pressure. Regular size and bigger three hubby and two friends are bigger than my shoe size (8) but I felt all of them. I didn’t feel them cum after I was soaked just got wetter. My butt and crotch was slimy and soaked. We thanked the sweets each time. Then take a break and go again. I went three times around with all of them. At some point I sneezed and what a mess. I felt special. I pleased all these men and they wanted me more I felt really good. I had to wear a wash cloth between my legs on the ride home. I was a little achie but could still take my husband the next night. What I loved most was having a man cum in my mouth at the same time as one cumming inside me. I loved that the most but harder to do unless you are with lovers that know what you like and give it to you. I hope this is good enough what you wanted.

We're still in negotiations :) My hubby is still a little apprehensive about another man's cum. On our first experience, the other man unloaded on my boobs, and hubby licked it off while f**ng me, but he said it was a heat of the moment thing. He knows how much I enjoyed that, and enjoy the idea of cum play in general, so he'll get there, he's just not sure - go second and enjoy the results of the first, or go first and be less "in the heat of the moment" I do want to make sure of one thing though - making sure the other woman doesn't feel left out

My posting took a strange direction. NO RAPE FANTASY!!! I wasn’t looking for anything close to be called rape, real or fantasy. Don’t be offended, I looked for a hard fuck, a different fuck, an exciting experience with a new man and going further outside my real me with a woman. In the movie she was a prostitute having random sex. I’m not a prostitute I just wanted random exciting sex. My husband is wonderful talking about how we can go outside our norms. Our meeting is for sex not for friendship. I was attracted to a look that is not a look I usually am attracted to. Last night things went fast with very little getting to know time. I was not the usual me, I didn’t care. Fifteen minutes after meeting I was ready. I was open telling him I wanted hard and aggressive. My husband and the wife wanted watch both nude. He lived up to my wants not my expectations. I wanted to howl like in the movies, I didn’t. He kept going about 10 minutes of very hard thrusting, I enjoyed up to the time he ran out of steam. I can tell he sensed I was completely satisfied, asking if I enjoyed. Then the lookers got busy my husband slightly more aggressive from our normal. I am not a voyeur or an exhibitionist, it is still normalizing the new lifestyle. Step 2, I wanted her to take me orally as they did in the movie. She got me. I felt I needed to reciprocate. I felt like I did it right by the way she responded. Rest time, small talk and one more time. This time, all four of us on the bed with Ladies Up. Cowgirls, this time I was the controller and this time very satisfied. Hard aggressive was fun if not great, it was different, something that we all wanted. Every person is different, the reason for us to meet others.

Poor Things with Emma Stone Worried adds excitement to the unknown every time we meet anyone new. We are still getting used to initial flutters, our first time having sex, just getting naked took time adding to the excitement. I figure most people looking on a swingers site are more hardcore, we are still newbies, our first was only months ago. I want restrained aggressiveness, not painful, pleasurably aggressive. We are married six years with half during the pandemic, plenty of role play. We had many laughs about the Amazon delivery knew about packages. My husband can be aggressive sexually and very satisfying in a predictable way. That sounds bad, it’s not. He is also an avid gym goer who looks at asses on the elliptical and enjoys telling me about it. He also tells me about some real gym rats that would “fuck me good”. We are open about wants and sexy talk, he knows because I told him about my feelings with the few we met. The excitement of newness and the unknown. FaceTime with the woman has gotten me even more wanting to meet. I think she won’t be afraid that something extra I want. Please have the reality meet the anticipation.

I have a simple solution to this, it's one I use. As soon as I cum I roll over on my back and she will hop on top of me and we 69 . For me it prepares me the best for a round 2 by letting me smell and taste her and receive the enjoyment of her oral.

Early on we met a Lesbian couple that were friends of friends. At first I thought it strange that lesbians still wanted to play with men then I thought deeper and thought why wouldn’t they. The women are married, have a great marriage from what I see and are fun to be with. At a recent house party they were the life of the party, very open about their sexuality and let it be know they were there for penis. I thought they would want to play with women too and then one in a nice way said she just wanted penis and reminded me she has pussy all the time. It wasn’t a negative comment it was funny when she joked she only wanted to borrow Rocky cocky for a half hour On our way home Rocky said that both of women were some of the most fun people we have met and I had to agree.

There are posts here about couples who have a "No Kissing" rule. I've realized that I enjoy seeing kissing, as deep as they want. Any others? Kissing isn't sex, but it makes it more intense and passionate, something I like doing and seeing.

Hi. I typed a reply, but it seems to have disappeared. 😂. It was very much a group effort. Not a threesome. We had discussed where we could cum early in the encounter. From start to finish, it was about 30ish minutes. Not super long, but super fun! it was the neighbors wife that gave me a BJ, while my wife and her husband danced and made out. The girls each came twice. Then it was the boys turn. I came in my wife, while the neighbor was giving her husband oral, and she was rubbing my balls. I came in my wife, while the neighbor stroked it out of her husband on my wife’s chest. there are ZERO regrets. We sat and talked and drank for 2 hours afterwards. This morning, my wife and I agreed that it was a lot of fun!!

Repeat the mantra, "women run the LS". They make all of the decisions and have absolute veto power.

A woman wearing her wedding ring while playing with someone other than her husband 🥵

In short, my answer is no. I have a friend from High School that I used to be close to, then we grew apart and recently resumed a relationship with (albeit somewhat superficial). Apparently he is in the LS and has had a number of experiences with his ex-wife. He's asked me to help set him and his current GF up with some of our friends but I've resisted completely. Who you refer is a reflection on you and, despite liking him, I know he and his GF are headcases, super jealous and a bit reckless. It would probably be fine, but my wife is temperamental about the LS as is and the last thing I want is to create issues with the friends we actually still have a relationship going with.

I saw an article in the NY Times today written by the daughter of Ronald Reagan about Sandra Day O'Connor. A few paragraphs went into the struggle that Justice Day had with her husband John's Alzheimer's dementia and how she faced it. Quoting: "Sandra Day O’Connor Told a Truth About Marriage That Few Others Dared To By Patti Davis My father [Ronald Reagan] had died two years before, and during the decade of his illness, I paid close attention to what other people chose to share about Alzheimer’s. There was a notable silence about placing a family member in a facility designed to provide safe, appropriate care. I so admired Sandra Day O’Connor’s openness, and I imagined the thousands of people in similar situations who felt gratitude that someone was shining a light on a dilemma that so many suffer through in the shadows. In 2007, she went even further, allowing her son Scott to disclose that John had fallen in love with a resident at the facility — and that he did so with the former justice’s blessing. In an interview with KPNX-TV, a Phoenix station, Scott described how his mother would watch John and his new partner sitting on a bench together, clearly smitten with each other. “Mom was thrilled that Dad was relaxed and happy and comfortable living here.” She continued to visit him, though he no longer recognized her. People with Alzheimer’s lose connections, memories become frayed threads, but the desire for companionship runs deep — deeper than the disease. It’s fairly common for patients to develop new romantic, even sexual, relationships. But it’s something that few people feel comfortable talking about." This makes me proud to say that I am polyamorous. Although it was very late in life, this showed a wife's genuine love for her husband. It would have been so easy for her to do what everyone would have expected, pulled him out out of the facility and raised a lot of fuss and drama. But she didn't, she responded with love.