victoria'dreams

That's really sweet thanks!

You're one of the person that truly helped us thinking at the beginning of our journey so big thanks to you!

Years are passing by and it seems the pleasure of sharing my wife doesn't get old. Same from her side, she loves it a lot. I still need from time to time a nice FMF and also love it so much. It seems to really working for us as a "threesome" couple. We have rare and poor experience with other couples and we're not as excited by it. Maybe it would change if we find the right couple, right atmosphere. Who knows?

I love your story and they seems like good people and we similar to them

That is definitely a good rule.

Hey Chris! Good luck for tonight I'm sure you'll have a great time sharing your wife and enjoying the threesome. Details tomorrow about how it went please

This post is not the original post. Title was "hey", nothing after. Text stopped after "I'm strictly straight and find it difficult to find people online" there was no "all the sites I go on seem to be people aged 45+." We did answer to this. Now and didn't know you could still edit after people answered, it was edited. Probably because the OP didn't like the answers he got. This is very annoying and such a waist of time.

As Padoc said there are a huge amount of similar guys as you on the internet. It doesn't mean that some aren't more interesting than others. You really do have to make yourself more attractive by making effort in writing like something personal where the couple can feel it is not a copy/paste and you spent time. Take time to make beautiful pictures of yourself. Don't be pushy and try to get what the couple is looking for exactly. As couples are so much in demand, you do have to make steps towards them and they don't have to make much effort. If someone write us something not so interesting and too much missing information, no photos or only cocks photos, we're not going to reply to that guy with questions or pulling things out of him, we will just delete the message and move to another of the hundreds other guys writing us. Let say you go to a party where there are hundreds of guys trying to seduce the only girl. Unless you are a rock star, you need to work hard.

lol very well said Padoc.

Thanks a lot guys Nakedal, we'll check Celection for sure

Not sure why but the pics do not show on recently updated album when someone click "Pictures" in the menu (I don't mean the feed). But the album is there on our profile and passed moderation check: victoria'dreams's Albums

GoldCoCouple, cplnuswing, we are posting some photos now no pressure right? Over the years we kind of moved to more "artistic" photos. We spend time choosing the good place, good light, for shooting photos, apply some filters etc. Some would prefer a more realistic raw photos directly out of the camera. It's a choice. I"m totally amateur of course as a photographer. My wife posing for me less of an amateur as she did model quite a lot professionally and that helps a lot for the result, I think

Dear Cplnusswing I hope I am not getting too much on your nerve lately... What you say is right and I should have point out that we could tell there was a big effort from the website to make the pictures system better and to bring more people to post and comments. I believe the visitors here maybe aren't much interested as me on posting/commenting for example? Maybe I am totally wrong and perhaps no one like our photos and I should realize it hahaha

I believe that in the past because of no internet and the difficulty to access other swingers, the swinger community was very important to bring people together and the key to the lifestyle. Today it is more individualist and because of the internet you can do almost any sexual experience you want without the need to enter a community; Embracing or not the rules of the lifestyle will still give you an access key. Probably it is the same amount of people doing these experiences; greater access to find others; no more THE lifestyle and THE community but each individual/couple making their own route and recipe. I would say younger people now do swing but the community core stay an older generation.

We've been posting for years. You could do a Tumblr, Flickr account as suggested but it would take long and a huge amount of work to get followers, comments etc you'll get frustrated and stop before that. I love SwingersBoard as a forum but let's face it is absolutely TERRIBLE for one enjoying posting pictures and receiving comments. We deleted all pictures we posted here because you get the feeling nobody really cares. No offense to the people here but they don't come here to watch pictures. I would suggest to try ZOIG - Free homemade porn, amateur sex photos & videos! first and see if it's working for you guys or not. It used to be really good but didn't check it for a while. You can always PM us if you need more direction