VegasLee

Yes, it can happen. There are lots of things that will set a women off and get them over the top. Just enjoy, don't question the fun.

Sad as it is this has been going on since the Internet started in all aspects of life and business. You have people putting up reviews of their self. You have clubs that will make "fake" names to make good reviews and also bad reviews of other businesses. I know a couple that has six profiles that have owned a couple of clubs in the past. They made great reviews for their places and would slam other clubs, some that they had never been too. I also see people that go to other clubs that have never been to any other club slamming other clubs on line. Sad that people feel the need to do any of this. Honesty seems to be something that is not so common in life or this Lifestyle these days.

Swinging in the beginning was defined as "Recreational sex between consenting adults." Today many try to define it in many different ways. We prefer to keep it simple and stay with the "Recreational sex between consenting adults."

Honestly I don't any place that lets people in just to look around. Especially here in Vegas that is all we would be doing, give free tours to hundreds of people each night sight seeing. Since our office is connected our membership manager can tell people the exact number of bodies on the premisses and he does often when people ask. I also tell them on the phone what is the "norm", that can be off on any night though. I have had good nights be slow and slow nights turn into the biggest nights we have ever had. Now saying that I believe hosts should be more honest about "what is in there" when they talk to people at the door.

In 40 years we have never been asked and I have not asked anyone else either.

Ok, have a better idea why you were there. Good deal. You went to the right place it sounds like but did not follow through with your plan. That happens. We have hosted 1000's of parties over 20+ years. We try to get across to people. IF there is any type of problem, tell us at the time. We can not fix it later or when we see you post about it on line. The deed is done and the offender is gone. Most of us hosts don't want the problem children. We really don't. Many think we only host parties with single guys for the money and in most cases that is NOT TRUE. There are many, many couples and others that love to party with single guys. Most of the parties with the most action has single guys. We pretty much do what our guests want us to do and we want EVERYONE comfortable. By not telling us at the time you are doing but yourself, other guests and us a disservice. You are the party! We believe that. The parties are all about you. They can only be made better when you are an active part of making them better. If you like what the place has to offer, go back. No real reason to spill your guts to the host now, nothing they can do about it unless you have names of the offenders. IF it happens again, stop what you are doing and go calmly tell the host the problem. If they are a REAL HOST that believes the parties are about the people they will do something about it. If they are just in it for the money,you are pretty much screwed and I would find another party to go to. We tell people to NEVER confront them directly. You are there to have fun, the host is there to deal with the problems. Let's all do our jobs. Hope things go better for you in the future.

Grabbing by anyone should not happen. People need to be playing by the same rules all the time at any club. My question would be though if you don't play with single men why go to a club that has a lot of them? Most folks that go to clubs that have a lot of single men play with them, that is the reason it is set up that way. I am not excusing their actions but I think that is an honest & fair question. After all these years I have found that the couples that tend to voice concern about single men or have problems with them are the ones that don't play with them. We don't go to couples only clubs for the same reason, we don't tend to play with couples only.

You need to sit him down over coffee and tell him just what you posted here. You also need to think about maybe going to a counselor to work on this. I am a big one on being open and honest in a relationship. He needs to take a step back and really be honest about if he is willing to toss your relationship in the trash over getting some strange once in a while. Don't go along to get along. That will blow up in your face and his at some point. Only you can make decisions that are going to effect the rest of your life. No one here can do it for you. My personal view of this is he is being the one that is being selfish about all of this. I would stop playing at all with anyone until you have this matter settled one way or the other. Might not be something the two of you need to be involved in any longer. You have to do what works for you. No one else. It is YOUR life. Good luck to you. Hope it works out the right way.

We tend to be very outgoing so we don't end up with problems like this often. There have been a few parties when we traveled though that we really did not feel we fit in. At clubs we have found those that tend to stay by their self end up by their self though. As a host we try to talk to everyone and introduce people to others but when we see someone go off and sit by their self we feel they want to be left that way. We have also noticed that those that go off by their self tend to be the ones that leave the parties early and also the ones that will tend to leave bad reviews about parties on line. It may be different for you guys but we pay attention to things like this. This is how it has been for us.

We don't invite people we don't know well to our home. We won't even meet for dinner or drinks. We tell people that contact us that we will meet them at the club. (even before we owned a club) Has been that way for about 20 years now. Got tired of being stood up for drinks and dinner and also don't like sitting through dinners with people we don't like. By meeting at a club if you hit it off, you can play. If you don't hit it off there are many more for all to enjoy. We keep it simple.

Laura plays with who she wants. If I ever tried to tell her who should could or could not play with she would hit me with a stick.

Yes, but we are a crowd that don't kiss and tell.

It is common to see porn stars and other main stream celebrities at some of the clubs in Vegas. Good thing is the Vegas people are used to it so they don't make anyone uncomfortable in most cases.

Time shall tell. So far we have determined we have some of the greatest people in the Lifestyle making for some fantastic parties. That is what it is all about.

Ya, where did you hear that..... The only gambling is Laura and I opening it. Sorry, if someone has told you that they are misinformed.