VegasLee

Yes, it can happen. There are lots of things that will set a women off and get them over the top. Just enjoy, don't question the fun.

Sad as it is this has been going on since the Internet started in all aspects of life and business. You have people putting up reviews of their self. You have clubs that will make "fake" names to make good reviews and also bad reviews of other businesses. I know a couple that has six profiles that have owned a couple of clubs in the past. They made great reviews for their places and would slam other clubs, some that they had never been too. I also see people that go to other clubs that have never been to any other club slamming other clubs on line. Sad that people feel the need to do any of this. Honesty seems to be something that is not so common in life or this Lifestyle these days.

Swinging in the beginning was defined as "Recreational sex between consenting adults." Today many try to define it in many different ways. We prefer to keep it simple and stay with the "Recreational sex between consenting adults."

Honestly I don't any place that lets people in just to look around. Especially here in Vegas that is all we would be doing, give free tours to hundreds of people each night sight seeing. Since our office is connected our membership manager can tell people the exact number of bodies on the premisses and he does often when people ask. I also tell them on the phone what is the "norm", that can be off on any night though. I have had good nights be slow and slow nights turn into the biggest nights we have ever had. Now saying that I believe hosts should be more honest about "what is in there" when they talk to people at the door.

In 40 years we have never been asked and I have not asked anyone else either.

You need to sit him down over coffee and tell him just what you posted here. You also need to think about maybe going to a counselor to work on this. I am a big one on being open and honest in a relationship. He needs to take a step back and really be honest about if he is willing to toss your relationship in the trash over getting some strange once in a while. Don't go along to get along. That will blow up in your face and his at some point. Only you can make decisions that are going to effect the rest of your life. No one here can do it for you. My personal view of this is he is being the one that is being selfish about all of this. I would stop playing at all with anyone until you have this matter settled one way or the other. Might not be something the two of you need to be involved in any longer. You have to do what works for you. No one else. It is YOUR life. Good luck to you. Hope it works out the right way.

We tend to be very outgoing so we don't end up with problems like this often. There have been a few parties when we traveled though that we really did not feel we fit in. At clubs we have found those that tend to stay by their self end up by their self though. As a host we try to talk to everyone and introduce people to others but when we see someone go off and sit by their self we feel they want to be left that way. We have also noticed that those that go off by their self tend to be the ones that leave the parties early and also the ones that will tend to leave bad reviews about parties on line. It may be different for you guys but we pay attention to things like this. This is how it has been for us.

We don't invite people we don't know well to our home. We won't even meet for dinner or drinks. We tell people that contact us that we will meet them at the club. (even before we owned a club) Has been that way for about 20 years now. Got tired of being stood up for drinks and dinner and also don't like sitting through dinners with people we don't like. By meeting at a club if you hit it off, you can play. If you don't hit it off there are many more for all to enjoy. We keep it simple.

Laura plays with who she wants. If I ever tried to tell her who should could or could not play with she would hit me with a stick.

Yes, but we are a crowd that don't kiss and tell.

It is common to see porn stars and other main stream celebrities at some of the clubs in Vegas. Good thing is the Vegas people are used to it so they don't make anyone uncomfortable in most cases.

Time shall tell. So far we have determined we have some of the greatest people in the Lifestyle making for some fantastic parties. That is what it is all about.

Ya, where did you hear that..... The only gambling is Laura and I opening it. Sorry, if someone has told you that they are misinformed.

The Truth will set you free! Ok, had to do it. Those that think they won't be found out over time are kidding themselves. We always felt it better the kids found out from us rather they others telling them they saw their folks on T.V. or in the newspaper. We have never understood how people could have a hobby they have to lie about to those most important in their lives.

Age wise you will find it runs a bit younger but there are also some older folks at New Temptations. The avg. age in the Lifestyle is 43 and getting older so you are looking about that. The set up is completely different but there is a couples only lounge but no dress/undress requirements of any kind. Always best to know your limits and what you are looking for. Easier to find a place that works for you. If you can give me an idea what you are looking for besides age I can give you a better idea if it will work for you.