A Great First Experience

David and I had our first real swinging experience! It was just incredible; even way better than I expected in several ways. We were with Jacob and Hilda, who are a great couple of people. They were wonderful in pretty much every way.

First I should give a little background: I'm Ilene. My husband's name is David. We're close to 40, have been together for almost fifteen years, and married for just under a decade. We're a loving, mostly boring couple who never even talked about swinging until about three months ago. After a lot of discussion and reading things on this board, we posted an ad on Swing Lifestyle. A few meetings with different couples and one false start later, we wrote to Jacob and Hilda. We had been out with a few couples prior to this and been to one private party, but our play had been limited to a little girl-on-girl kissing for me. We were really itching to have some play with a couple, but wanted to make sure we did it the right way.

Jacob and Hilda weren't the usual kind of couple we'd be interested in, but something in his smile spoke to me and made me want to know him. His profile said some very sweet things about his wife, which is always a good sign. David and I had agreed that our first swap would be a soft swap. Well, actually, David said he wanted to hold it to soft swap to ensure we didn't rush ourselves. Of course I agreed, even though I knew I would want more once we started playing.

We met Jacob and Hilda at a neighborhood restaurant for dinner. Unfortunately for us, there was a huge St. Patrick's Day party all over the neighborhood, and so the place was crowded, smoky and loud. We were having a hard time getting service and hearing each other, which made it difficult to get acquainted. In an email the day before, Jacob had mentioned that as a last resort, we could all go back to their place and get in their hot tub. We shrugged this idea off, since we were only meeting them for dinner and didn't intend to play. So when the neighborhood restaurant got to be uninhabitable, we decided to leave there and go to an Applebee's so we could get something to eat. However, when we got there, the doors were locked -- and it was only 9:30. We decided to try a nearby Bennigan's, but surprisingly, they had a band and it was at least as loud as where we had started out. At this point we agreed that the gods were telling us we should pick up a pizza and go back to their place.

By this point, David and I were ready to go to their house with them and maybe do a soft swap, since we found ourselves attracted to them. They were very straightforward, warm, and funny. Jacob was much more appealing in person than he was in his pictures. Hilda hadn't taken much trouble in getting ready--her face was shiny and the long, lush brunette hair we'd seen in her pictures was pulled back unflatteringly. But after a few minutes of talking, it was apparent that these two were well worth knowing. Hilda started flirting a little with David, who was a bit too nervous to respond very much. Jacob was being very charming and warm without being sleazy. It was obvious that what I was seeing was his real personality. Their love for each other was also on display. When she got up to go pay the tab at the neighborhood bar, her tight little body was on display as well. She is petite and very pert. I could see David looking at her and appreciating her. I am a little taller and curvy, and thought it would be nice for David to be with someone who had a different kind of body than I have.

I was having trouble relaxing to the situation; I mean, it had been fifteen years since I had even kissed another man...and now we were going back to these strangers' house to mess around with them? It seemed surreal. I was worried that David would not deal well with what was about to happen. I was fairly sure I'd be okay, but I also knew that it's impossible to guess how any person will react until they are actually in the thick of things, so to speak.

Jacob was quite nice about encouraging me to relax, smiling the whole time we were talking. I just loved how accepting he was of what I was feeling, and how warm they both were. We got to their house and ate the pizza {thank goodness, because both Hilda and I were starving}. David and I wanted to put on bathing suits to get in the hot tub, which Jacob didn't seem to be used to. I just didn't feel comfortable simply dropping all clothes so abruptly. Even when David and I make love at home, there is usually some buildup to getting naked together. It is part of the seduction. They put on suits too, even though Jacob didn't look thrilled about it.

So we all got in the hot tub. We hadn't talked about ground rules yet. Jacob and Hilda had been used to playing with just one couple who had been their good friends, but had moved away. I think they weren't used to new couples and so just assumed that we were like them-- full swap, and furthermore, that we'd go without condoms. At some point I just kind of blurted out that we were going to be soft swap, because it seemed to be up to me to even bring it up. I wasn't exactly smooth about it, but I got the job done.

We were sitting there and just talking, when at the first opportunity Jacob announced, 'Tops off!' Of course I wanted to take my top off and have him look at me, but I'd felt shy about just discarding it. So I turned my back to him, inviting him to undo my top for me. He complained mightily about the knot I'd tied in it...but he managed, and the top came off. {My hands had been trembling a bit when I attempted to tie a bow in my suit top, and it had ended up in a knot.} Then I kind of floated over and got on his lap, again with my back to him, and he let his hands roam quickly from my stomach up to my breasts.

Although I had agreed with David that we'd do soft swap the first time time out, I knew that once I was in that situation, I wouldn't want to stop. Once a man touches my breasts, I ache to have him inside me. I wouldn't break the rules, I was resolved. No way was I going to jeopardize our foray into swinging by doing something stupid. But when Jacob squeezed my nipple in a way I'd never felt, I felt an electric jolt fly from where he was touching me directly to my pussy and then throughout my whole body. I sucked in my breath with a cry-- there was just something about the way he did it, and suddenly my whole body was begging for sex. We started kissing and caressing each other. Although he's ten years older than I am, he has a nice body...solid smooth shoulders, muscular arms, and a nice amount of fur on his chest. It wasn't long before he murmured, 'Touch me, sweetheart', which just turned me to jelly. My husband doesn't use endearments in bed, and I can't remember him ever having called me 'sweetheart' at all. I didn't know how it would make my head buzz.

I knew approximately what was between his legs, because they had had a cock shot on their profile. It wasn't the most flattering picture of his body, and his cock wasn't even hard in it...I'm not sure why it was on their profile. {It's not there anymore.} David and I had agreed in jest that it was supposed to be a warning, because even soft, it looked around 7' or 8' long. I found out later that Hilda had started stroking David's cock after about 30 seconds of kissing, so I'm sure Jacob was used to this and thought I needed encouragement. I remembered later that I'd heard and read that longer or bigger cocks need more stimulation to stay hard, which fits with this experience. So, I reached down between his legs and couldn't suppress a few giggles of pure shock...I had seen the picture of course, but that didn't prepare me for actually touching it...a long, hard, thin curvy snake that must have been ten inches long. I couldn't get over how it felt in my hand, combined with simply touching another man's cock after all that time.

I let out a couple of more mini-exclamations of half-belief, and he wanted to know why I was making those noises. I couldn't think of anything to say without sounding trite, so I said something, well, trite. Oh man...just the feel of it, and the pleasure it was giving him, and his appreciation of it...it was a moment to savor. I wanted to feel it on my lips and tongue, and felt a strange urge to dive under the water and get it, as if I could breathe through it. But I controlled this silly feeling and asked him to sit on the edge of the tub. I love giving blow jobs...I am not a Catholic, but it seems a little like a communion to me. Just feeling a man's cock with my face, tongue and lips...feeling the texture of it, feeling it swell in my mouth, and finding out what makes him take in his breath with pleasure. Holding a man's cock in my mouth makes me feel so close to him physically, and sort of in control but like an instrument of pleasure at the same time.

After a few minutes, he trembled and swelled and said he needed to slow down, in case he got us to change our minds about being soft swap. He knew I wanted to, and was saying gentle things to try to convince me. Somehow, I wasn't offended by this...I think it was the way he said things, together with the knowledge that I wouldn't do anything I didn't talk to David about, combined with the warm pleasure of being desired. At some point, he motioned to David and Hilda at the other side of the tub and said, 'Look.' I looked over there, and was stunned: David was sitting on the edge of the hot tub, and Hilda had his cock in her mouth. The sight just hit me like lightning. It was so erotic; he was looking at me and smiling, the skin on his chest and flat stomach was dripping, and she was moving her head towards him and away, and also had her hand on him. I loved how it looked, and how much he was enjoying it, and as far as I could tell, she was too. The lights were off so that the neighbors wouldn't see, but to me it was as if there was a bright spotlight on them. I had had no idea how that sight would affect me. Later, he told me that it was a great moment when, in her sweet petite little voice, she had said to him, 'Why don't you sit on the edge of the tub so I can suck your cock?'

After I don't know how many seconds of staring agape at them, I turned my attention back to Jacob. He is so nice to be with, I was enjoying myself so much, and just wanted to keep kissing and fondling; then he put me on the edge of the tub too. So David and I were looking at each other across the tub, each of us getting oral sex from our partners...it was surreal, and I was bucking and jerking with pleasure and with the occasional too-firm touch.

After that, more kissing...and I got to see my husband give Hilda an orgasm by giving her oral. At some point Jacob and I talked, and when he asked I said yes, I wanted to have sex with him. Then to my surprise {but again, amazingly, not to my annoyance} he acted like we were just going to do it right then. I cleared that up by telling him yes, I wanted to, but I needed to talk to David first. So I 'swam' over to David, and we talked about going full swap. I was concerned that I would pressure him into it and we'd regret it later, if he wasn't ready. But he thought about it, decided he'd be okay with it, and reaffirmed that decision when I asked him again. So we all moved inside, after another awkward discussion, this one about using condoms.

They pulled out a sleeper sofa in their living room, and found condoms. We were lucky they had some, because David had shrugged off my suggestion of bringing some when we'd left for our date. After a little more oral play on the bed, I told Jacob how much I wanted him inside me. I forget what he said, but it was something sweet.

So he put the condom on, and as he was putting it on, I said to David, 'This is your last chance to say no, honey.' Then Jacob knelt over me. Just as I thought it was about to happen, Hilda and David appeared over my shoulder. David was smiling and started sucking my breast, and Hilda's smiling face appeared right next to mine. I reached up and kissed her. She is so soft, it was a whole new sensation kissing her. She whispered to me, 'It's all about you', which was so sweet and made me feel selfish, and unable to absorb it all, and so adored.

I don't even remember if I was touching Jacob with my hands as he entered me, or whether my hands were still around Hilda's neck, or even whether I could even see Jacob's face, but the sensation was so good, it's all I remember. David and Hilda left me to concentrate on each other, and me to concentrate on being fucked by this other man. It felt new and natural at the same time, and so incredible. Throughout the whole time, I was crying out, moaning, pushing against him, grabbing at his back and ass, and repeating 'It feels so good', over and over...and over. I couldn't stop saying it and at some point laughed at myself for it.

Jacob was so sweet, and sensual, and we moved together well. He is so long that he had to be careful not to hurt me. It did hurt a little at times, but oh what a feeling. I told him he's beautiful, and he kept saying sweet things to me too: 'Sweetheart', and 'That's my girl', which I loved, amazingly.

We took a break, looked around and saw David and Hilda patiently watching us, when Hilda announced that we were going to make David's fantasy of two women come true. She said he wanted to fuck me while she sat on his face. Jacob was quite gracious about this, being the giving person he is, and backed off. Happy to comply with David's request, I hopped on and she got on facing me. She and I started kissing again, and I felt the skin on her arms, her back, her hips...she is smooth and creamy, and has an incredible, tight little body. It seems a miracle, since she has at least three kids and doesn't work out. Her breasts, after presumably breastfeeding her kids, are pert and firm. They seemed tiny next to mine, maybe A- or B- cup breasts. Her nipples were a pretty pink color, and boy do they stand out! I enjoyed caressing her breasts and licking them for a few minutes. I thought about doing more, but didn't feel ready...Jacob wanted to join in, and at some point I was riding David, he was licking Hilda, and Hilda and Jacob each had one of my breasts in their mouth. That was amazing.

But what was even more amazing was that when David finally put a condom on and started penetrating Hilda, and I looked over to their side of the bed, the sight was so exciting and beautiful that it just floored me. There was my beloved husband, having sex with this little goddess, and they were both so beautiful that it made my heart soar. I have to say that Hilda, while she looked good in her pictures and had a nice smile, she hadn't primped to meet us. And of course everyone's hair was messy from the hot tub. But underneath David, she couldn't have looked any more beautiful to me. The effect this sight had on me was a complete surprise. Later, he told me she'd had two orgasms while they were having sex. I felt great about that.

We were all on the bed now, having sex. My leg was touching either David or Hilda, I'm not sure which. Jacob and I did it doggie style for a few minutes, which I enjoyed but I'm not sure he did. He turned me back over again {I love it when a man takes charge!}, and we proceeded to have some more really great and increasingly raw sex, with my moaning getting louder and more crazy. I got pretty close to an orgasm, but then it faded...with all the noise I was making, he thought I'd come, but I didn't lie to him when he asked. I didn't want to get hung up on it. After going at it for some time more, he came and let out a big yell right into my ear. It was loud, but I didn't mind at all.

Then I made a mistake in wanting him to stay inside of me for a few minutes. I didn't think about the condom, because I wasn't used to using them. When he pulled out, it was nowhere to be found. Jacob and Hilda have kids that were with someone else's house that night, and no one wanted them to come home to a condom on the living room rug or in the couch cushions. It turned out that we had lost it inside me, which I didn't know for sure until after David and I had gotten home. I tried to find it inside me before we left, but couldn't. Finding it later and writing an email to them about it was pretty funny. At that point what was done was done. I'm on the pill, so I wasn't afraid of getting pregnant, but I certainly learned my lesson about when the man needs to pull out.

One of the biggest surprises about this whole experience is the unmitigated positive feelings that David and I both have about it. I didn't have so much as the slightest twinge of jealousy. David and I know we will be together for the long run, so we didn't feel threatened at all. He said he enjoyed seeing me enjoying myself with Jacob. We have been with them again since then, and the second time was even better. We intend to keep seeing them for some time to come.