How We Started Out

Turning 60 this year, I decided it was as good a time as any to document the experiences of my now deceased wife and myself in what is today called the lifestyle. I’ve outlined eight or ten experiences that I think are interesting. If there is interest, after you read this story, I will do my best to write them out. When we began thirty-plus years ago, it was called swapping or group sex or key clubs, but it was the same as it is now for the most part.

I’m Doc. Marty, my wife of more than thirty years, passed away six years ago from lung cancer. I have remarried, but no longer participate in the lifestyle because my current wife has a different view on sex and love than Marty and I shared. There are still many in the Midwest that will remember some good times with Doc and Marty over the years.

Let me give you a short personal history to give you some background. I was a Navy corpsman in Vietnam. When I returned, I worked in the Naval Hospital in San Diego. Hence, the nickname I got back then, Doc, stuck with me to this day. Marty’s father was a Senior Chief Petty Officer in the Navy and I met Marty when her father brought her to the hospital for some minor ailment. I was enchanted with this beautiful girl and her exotic looks. Let me explain. Her father was Philippine and about five foot five. Her mother was a White Russian refugee, about five foot ten, who escaped from China at the beginning of World War II only to be captured and imprisoned in the Philippines where she met her husband. Marty was as tall as her mother with the same great figure and had a dark complexion like her father. We hit it off, dated, and got married a couple years after we met, when I got out of the Navy. Marty and I moved to the Midwest where I attended pharmacy school and began my career. While still in school, we had our first daughter, Cara. Our second daughter, Maria, was born about two and a half years later after I graduated and started my career with a large drug chain. I guess you could say that moving and pregnancy led us toward the path of sex with others.

Here’s the story of our first experience with another couple. Due to the fact that she was 2500 miles from her family and quite lonely, Marty put on more than sixty pounds with the first pregnancy. After Cara’s birth, Marty was upset with her figure and decided to go to the YWCA for exercise class to get back in shape. It was there she met and became good friends with Janie. Physically, they were very different. Marty was five foot ten barefooted, eventually got down to a weight of 125 pounds. I don’t know for sure but I suspect her measurements were something like 34” C-cup, 20” waist and 31” butt. Quite honestly, Marty had hardly any butt and was very slim hipped. Janie was barely five foot two. For most of the years I’ve known her, she has weighed between 150 and 180 pounds. She has always battled a weight problem. Measurements were about 36” DD cup, 30” waist and 39” hips. She was a dark haired fireplug with an engaging smile and a spirited personality. As they say, to know her was to love her.

Janie, her husband Tom, and their two kids became regulars at our house. We often had them over for a cookout and we went to their place quite often also. When we got the bigger house with a pool just after Maria was born, our house became the place to be most of the time. I was working a lot of hours then because of a promotion I had earned, so Marty wasn’t getting the quality or quantity of sex she was used to getting. I got home late on a Friday night after the kids were in bed. Marty, Janie and Tom were all in the pool, skinny-dipping. Not aware of this, I went in and put on my swim trunks and fixed myself a tall drink. Setting my drink on the table by the pool, I leaped into the water, my eyes open, I realized that the others were without suits. Surprised, I broke the surface and looking at Marty saw her smile. When I asked why no swimwear, she just smiled more and said something about them being too cumbersome. About that moment, someone and had swam up behind me, tugged my trunks down and as I turned, grabbed my penis. Janie surprised me when her head broke the water surface and she was smiling up at me. Marty had moved over beside us and whispered in my ear that there were more surprises in store for me and she hoped I was in a good mood. So began my night to remember forever.

Apparently because I had been working so much for the past several months, Marty had been spending most of her time with Janie and Tom. Needless to say, sex had not been a high priority with me and Marty had not been happy with that. She had let me know a couple times, but I had ignored her pleas. She had voiced her unhappiness to Janie and Janie introduced her to the vibrating dildo. That didn’t satisfy Marty for long. She likes the touching part of sex. So she and Janie had began physically satisfying each other by touching and using the dildo on the other. Not oblivious to everything, I had noticed that over the past few months Marty and Janie seemed to be a lot more physical in their relationship with a lot of touching and patting. Like a typical man, I didn’t put much thought into it. And from what I learned later, Tom didn’t notice as much as I had.

Somewhere during this time, their relationship and activities began to be very intense. They were not only using the dildo but were orally satisfying each other. One night a few days before the swim party, Tom came home early from his softball game and found them in bed in a 69 position hungrily and passionately lapping each other’s pussies. The kids were in bed and Tom didn’t want to make a big scene and wake them, so he dropped his clothes in the hallway and marched into the bedroom with a big erection. Knowing they were caught and it could be trouble all around; the girls were ready to play along with whatever Tom wanted them to do. He told me he just couldn’t help himself; he had to bury his cock in Marty’s pussy. Marty didn’t object and apparently had several orgasms before Tom shot his load on her stomach. Janie had been sucking her tits all this time and kissing her passionately. They didn’t give him much time to recuperate before Janie climbed on his half-staff cock and Marty placed her pussy over his face. I was out of town at a company meeting so Marty and the kids spent the night there and Tom did his best to keep up with the girls into the wee hours of the morning.

Marty, Janie and Tom had a long discussion about how they would tell me about their little escapade. That was when they came up with the idea of a skinny dip and Janie coming on to me. Marty knew that I was not aware of what was going on between her and Janie. She also was not sure how I would react because we had never really talked that much about sex. We just did it. And we were good together. We had done some experimentation with positions and such, but nothing else. I didn’t need porn to turn me on. I had Marty. What I didn’t realize was that Marty really enjoyed sex more than I knew and when I wasn’t providing it, she got desperate.

With Janie holding on to my penis underwater, I began to get an erection. Apparently I had a stunned, deer-in-the-headlights look on my face. Marty wrapped her arms around me from behind and said that the three of them had something to discuss with me and they hoped I wouldn’t be mad. Not sure what she meant, but somewhat eager to find out what this was all about, I sort of smiled and said I could never be too mad at her. Tom had been hanging back up to this time and now he sort of closed in on our group of three. Sheepishly, he stuttered something about maybe the girls should tell me everything. So they did. And as the story unfolded and Janie continued to hold my penis in her hands, it got as hard as it had been in a long time. My immediate reaction to the story was that you couldn’t change history and I loved my wife very much. If this was what she needed to be happy in our relationship, so be it.

Janie suggested we get out of the pool and go in the house because she wanted my cock in her pussy in a bad way and she didn’t want to wait any more. So, we got out of the pool, hurriedly dried off and when we entered the family room, Janie pushed me back on the couch, dropped between my legs and began to suck my cock like a Hong Kong whore. She had me to the point that I couldn’t hold it much longer when she stood up and climbed into my lap adjusting my cock so that it slid into her super slick pussy. She bounced on me for a minute or two and began to make noises that let me know she was having an orgasm. I couldn’t hold back any longer and shot a load into her very hot pussy. Janie rolled off me and settled on the couch next to me. She then told Marty that I had filled her with my cum and that Marty better get over to her and suck it out. Marty leaped up out of the chair where she had been sitting and watching.

On her knees between Janie’s legs, she began to lick, suck and slurp the pussy I had just fucked. Every couple of seconds her eyes would look up at me to gage my reaction. When I smiled and said it was okay with me, she attacked Janie with gusto. While all this was going on, Tom had gone to the kitchen for a beer and made cocktails for the rest of us. I hadn’t really noticed, but I think he had been standing behind the couch when Janie reached her orgasm. As I was watching the girls, he handed me the fresh drink and asked me what I thought of them. I had seen pictures in magazines and watched a few porno flicks in the Navy with two women, but I had never witnessed this kind of activity in person. I realized that it really turned me on. Tom suggested that I get behind Marty and slide my very hard cock into her while she finished Janie. He then sat on the couch beside his wife and proceeded to fondle, kiss and suck her huge tits. As I fucked Marty from behind, I saw her hand go over and grab Tom’s cock. Soon, she had finished with Janie and was inching her way over to in front of Tom as I tried to keep my cock in her juiciness. Lost in the moment, I was aware that Marty was having an orgasm.

I still wasn’t quite there so I continued to pound away as I watched Marty’s head bouncing up and down in Tom’s lap. I couldn’t actually see his cock in her mouth, but I knew that was what was happening. As Marty began her second orgasm, I was ready and I shot a good size load into her. Still on my knees, I crawled toward Janie and watched as my wife devoured another man’s cock. This was the kind of thing she had only done for me in the past. I knew she enjoyed it {unusual I am told}. {She told me later she enjoyed sucking cock and getting the juices from it because she knew that cock would bring her a lot of pleasure when it was hard again.} I was lost in the physical pleasure and erotic stimulation of what was going on around me. Never had a thought of jealousy or envy until later the next day.

Marty and I talked for hours after Tom and Janie went home. We reaffirmed our love for each other. Marty didn’t apologize for what had transpired and the way it did, but she did ask for my understanding. She told me that I was the only man she loved and she loved having sex with me when I was around. She just needed it more than I had been able to offer it in the recent past. I told Marty that I loved her more than anything else and that I was sorry I had not been there to satisfy her sexual needs. I understood what had happened and I was okay with it as far as it had gone. I guess I was glad she wasn’t out in some bar looking for it from a stranger. She told me that had never crossed her mind. She said that if Janie hadn’t been such a willing participant, things probably would never have gone past Marty complaining. Marty said she couldn’t explain it, but she felt like she wanted sex every day and wouldn’t mind it two or three times a day if it didn’t get in the way of taking care of the girls. She said she knew that was an impossibility, but it was something she just felt she wanted.

After that first night with Janie and Tom, the frequency of our sex improved to three or four times a week. Regardless what time I got home, regardless how tired I was, if I could get it up, I tried my best to satisfy Marty’s cravings. We averaged two weekends a month with Janie and Tom. Marty and Janie continued to play together once or twice a week with my and Tom’s knowledge and approval. At least we knew where the girls were getting their loving. The four of us attended some key parties with five or six other couples that we had come to know. Janie really loved the big parties where she could have all the men and women she wanted.