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I am attracted to other women and my bf would love a 3some but my anxiety goes haywire and I have all kinds of worries and emotions about it. I am willing but feel handicapped at the same time. So frustrated right now.- 12 replies
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I wrote earlier about heading to a swing club with my GF for the first time. She suggested and I said definitely Yes. She is a gorgeous 30 yo Latin. I am much older but we have a lot of fun. My problem is that she told me that if there are any single guys at the club that she is attracted to, she would like to be one on one with him in a private room. I want her to have fun but this through me for a loop. I guess I'll just go with the flow but would really want to be there when she gets fucked. What's it like to see your partner go off alone to a private room with another guy?
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27 yo female. New to the site and completely new to swinging. Not sure quite how to express my feelings at the moment but I'll do my best. My husband (26 M) came to me about a month ago asking to open our relationship to others. I know with 100% certainty that he has our marriage's best interest in mind and if this turns out not to be for us, he would drop it without thinking twice. A little back story -- We have been together for 5 years, relationship is solid and we have always been happy. Since our first discussion, we have talked, a lot, and communicated every angle and concern. We even went to a marriage counselor once to make sure there is nothing we are missing before "diving in". She suggested going to a Swingers Club to observe first, which we are going to tomorrow night. Before the session with the counselor, we have done a soft swap with a male friend of ours, with which we were all very drunk and inhibitions we're obviously down. That actually turned out to be a great time. On another occasion, however, simply watching my husband make out with another woman in front of me was like a knife in my side. As I mentioned earlier, I'm not quite sure how to express my feelings but my question is how? How do you get past those uneasy feelings? How do you become comfortable with the idea of your SO being with someone else? What can I do to get past all this uncertainty? Any advice is very appreciated. Thank you!
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Ok. So we are very new to this LS, only a couple of months. After chatting, texting, emailing etc. we are to meet another couple tomorrow night. We have meet in public before and had drinks and hit it off. We both have a nervous excitement about the whole experience. Hubby and I even had a long chat about it yesterday to make sure we are on the same page. The thing is for me that I'm not sure the other male is. Call me paranoid but I'm getting mixed signals. We have been texting/sexting non-stop since before our meet but in the last couple of days have heard VERY little from him? We are to meet at their home tomorrow night. Even last night he said we should just take our time, no rush. I'm nervous that he will not be interested in me I guess. I have put on weight (trying to lose it is not that easy) and he is a very attractive man who takes good care of himself. I guess I just don't want to get hurt. I do plan on going and being myself. Anyway that's my rant. Any advice for us is more than welcome!
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Hey all! This probably isn't the first time that someone has mentioned this, but my wife and I have met a couple and we're on for a second date with them, and it looks like it might take off. However, I'm nervous like crazy. For starters, I've never been with another woman in any capacity EVER except for my wife, so being with another woman that isn't my wife seems crazy and scary, but I'm also excited about it. Honestly, I don't know what to expect the first time around, and I'm almost afraid that I'll be so nervous that I won't be able to "perform" as well as I usually do. Overall, I need some tips on how to handle this situation. What was your first time like when you've never been with anyone else before, ever? P.S. My wife has been with another man before, so she definitely doesn't seem as nervous about it than me! Any help would be appreciated!
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I am wondering if there are men out there that are afraid of premature ejaculation when they swing for the first time????? I am also wondering if the men are afraid of their performance with the other woman?????
