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So I will start from the beginning. I do Not like hubby to cum in me because it makes my vagina smell weird for a few days after. I have asked several girlfriends about this thinking something was wrong, and they all say it happens to them too so I don't feel alone. It is a stronger smell, Not really bad per say, but not fresh either. Basically how your lady bits would smell after a day without a shower, even though you just took one. So long story short, I request it go down my throat or on me or anywhere but in there. He could care less either way. Just to clarify, of course I talked to doc and have no infection or anything, but doc said he didn't know why this would happen, but again, all my friends can't be lying to me about it. Maybe women just don't discuss with the doc? Idk So we have had a few play times. We are new, and moving slowly. We have had FMF threesomes, and I will occasional be fingered and/or ate out my the man or women we are playing with (or both if I am lucky lol) But I have noticed that every time we play with another couple, It seems like I get a infection or something. The first time, I ended up with a bacterial infection. (BV) The second time I ended up with the ''it smells off'' problem described above. The 3rd time I got a yeast infection. The 4th time I got BV AGAIN. Now here I am after time 5 and we played last night and now my vagina is smelling ''off''. No signs of infection, just off. ( Yes, I pee immediately after sex, and we are careful that everything is clean, etc. Condoms have not come into play yet because I have not been with a man yet. We always ask about STD's first. The women we have played with had good hygiene, NO I do not Douche per doc instructions) So my question is... What the heck is going on here? I can't believe that EVERY women I played with gave me a infection of some kind or transfered a yeast infection from there mouth. I almost feel like my pussy is freaking out about the new partners. I have googled and found that some women get BV or a yeast infection whenever they have a new partner. Basically, in a monogamous relationship your body becomes ''used to'' your partners germs, but if you introduce new ones, your body responds. How does this work in a swinging lifestyle where you are exposed to a lot of ''new germs''? I am horrible embarrassed to even be asking this. Telling everyone my vagina smells weird was never a goal of mine, but I don't know how to fix this. Yes I have been checked by doc and it was always what I thought it was above and was prescribed the meds to treat it. But, I can't go to my doc every other week. What am I doing wrong here? I pee after sex, I already look like the germaphobe nerd requesting everyone stop play and go wash there hands before touching me, I clean with Ivory soap and water per doc instructions. I wear cotton panties on a everyday basis ( I do dress up for play) or No panties to let it breathe. We clean up right after with wipes etc until I can get to shower. Am I missing something? Someone please tell my I am not alone and how to fix this. My vagina doesn't like new people! ALSO: This makes me wonder about the art of what to tell your playmates. Of course I would share if it was a std, but what about things like yeast infections or BV? I have only seen one of the ladies I played with after, and I mentioned having to go to doc to be treated for BV after playing, and she looked at me like I had 3 heads and pretty much ran away after telling me ''she has never had it and doesn't want it''. Well Neither do I, Neither do I. I would think this issue was just something I was getting from the women, but for it to have happened after EVERY encounter makes me think otherwise. Doc told me it was ''possible but unlikely unless we shared a sex toy'' which we did not.- 7 replies
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OK, My wife has been trying to get rid of this annoying bacteria for about two years now. She has been on antibiotics so many times but it just seems to come back a week or two later. We have been together for about 20 years and we have never had intercourse with anyone else. We only soft swap but when we play she is open to just about anything and have tried a lot. Just not full swap. We have been swinging for about four years now and the BV started out of the blue. We never play when she has it and if she has it and a bit of action starts she just keeps her pants on and tells everyone she is on her period. She has perfected her oral skills in the last couple of years, lol. The last time she took antibiotics it went away for a couple of months but the first time we went out to play, it came back. She is so bummed about it that she is starting to lose her sex drive. She feels dirty. We have tried so many things from antibiotics to natural remedies. We just can't seem to get rid of it. We noticed a similar odor on one of the girls we play with. Is it possible that they are playing ping pong with it. It seems to come back after we play with this couple. Although the last time we played with them the other girl did not have the odor and my wife got back the BV a few days after the playdate. We would really appreciate any input on this as it is really starting to affect my wife and her sex drive.
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Hi, I wondered if anyone has any idea how to handle this situation? We met a lovely couple and things were moving along nicely until my wife went down on her, but then changed position very quickly. Yep, you guessed it, smelly pussy syndrome. We like them but we're not sure if we should say anything because we don't want to upset her or just not meet up anymore.
