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I'm curious as to how many men that started the lifestyle stating that they were straight but have since changed to bi-curious or or bi? Is this something that happens often? If you have changed from straight to bi, what caused the change? How long were you swinging when you decided to change? I can't speak for every man out there, but many that I know have a desire to watch their wife with another woman. Do woman ever think of their husband with another man? -
ok first off...WOW this forum and especially this sub-forum have opened so much up to me, I don't feel like such a head case or outcast, it is really great to know that there are others like us out there. So thank you all for your knowledge and judgment free attitudes. So here's the deal...and sorry in advance for the long-winded post. I absolutely LOVE cum, well actually both the GF and I do. The taste and feel of it, the way it looks when it's on a beautiful woman's skin, the way it looks on my GF's lips and tongue. The fantasy started about W years ago when we first started dating. I had been thinking that the idea was hot for a while and one night during sex I stopped right before orgasm and just came a little giving her just a little on her lips and tongue to 'play with' then we continued making love as we fantasized that it was someone else's cum that we were sharing. We both felt as though it was one of the hottest things that either of us had ever done and it became a semi-regular role play thing for us. I actually got really good at having more than one orgasm so we could kiss and play with cum, all the while pretending it was from another guy. We even bought an ejaculating dildo and experimented with homemade recipes...haha So that was fun and hot and we learned what we wanted. We decided together that the next step was to play with cum from another guy. We found a guy who wasn't freaked out by the idea and we had our fun...it was the most sensual thing I have ever done up until that point, and to this day, almost a year later, I still regularly get myself off thinking of that encounter. We managed to pull it off again a few months later with the same guy but this time she actually spat it into my mouth and I proceeded to clean all of it from her lips and face with my tongue while we made very passionate and sweet love...god it was so incredibly sexy that I get hard every time I think about it. So how common is this? I know guys like to taste their own but do 'straight' guys ever want to try this? Let me first say that I am 99.9% certain that I am 100% straight haha. I am not attracted to men at all, don't want to find guys on my own, have no desire for anything considered traditionally gay, am not turned on at all by gay or bi porn, etc. I love the term used on another thread in this forum "situationally heteroflexible" and feel that it most describes me. For instance, seeing a cock in my GF's mouth is so sexy it drives me crazy. I want to help guide it in, and I want to put mine in with his (and we have ). The thought of double vag and his hard cock rubbing against mine inside of my GF drives both of us crazy. But that's pretty much where it ends. I have zero desire to be with a guy by myself, in fact oral, penetration, pretty much anything touching other than our cocks and specifically inside her, is a turn-off for me. I know I'm a huge perv, and I love it. I don't like labels and don't give a shit what people think about our sex life but just curious how others feel about this. Is it hot or is it weird? And please use this thread share your cum sharing thoughts, fantasies and stories with me! and I loved this quote from another thread:
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OK, I’m not really ‘Bi’, but I am curious and it says so in my profile. I even go so far as to explain that it’s situational, and I am really wanting to see what it’s like to handle, fondle, and suck another guy in front of my wife. She wants to see it too. We are looking for someone to experience that with. It may turn out that I hate it, and will never do it again. I doubt it though. It’s far too intriguing to me to be a one time thing. But every single person that has contacted us has labeled himself ‘straight’. Some even say ‘very straight’. Then why are you contacting me/us? If you’re curious, at least say so in the e-mail. Does this happen to everyone? Or just me/us?
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Do any other swinger guys like to suck cock besides me?
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My girlfriend and I like watching each other playing with the opposite sex and also with the same sex. Girls eating each others pussy and the guys sucking each others cocks. We also like sharing a guy's cock between us. I love it when she puts a guys hard-on in my mouth or I get to lick her pussy as she is being penetrated. I enjoy being a "fluffer" when he pulls out from between her legs, allowing me to lick her juices off his dick. Then I get to grab his hard-on and place its flared slippery head back at the entrance to her love canal, crawl back under them as they are enjoying each other on all fours and lick his shaft and balls as he is thrusting back and forth fucking her. My favorite position is laying underneath them in a 69 position, her sucking my cock as I am looking up watching her getting fucked, hoping he will pull out every now and then, letting his cock drop down to my waiting mouth. After a while of me orally pleasuring him, I again grab hold of his member and place it back in her pussy so he can finish giving her the creampie that drips his spent load from her sloppy wet kitty lips, all over my face.- 146 replies
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Guys, What's your favorite thing/things about having same sex fun? Are there things you enjoy more with a man than a woman? For me, oral has always been something I enjoy more with a man. Giving and receiving. Also, from a simplicity stand point, I can sometimes share a few emails with a guy, meet up, chat for minimal time and if things click, we can usually be naked within minutes. And after we're done, the conversation is usually... "Hey that was fun, hit me up again this week when you're horny and have time"- 33 replies
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It would be a real turn on for me to see Ronny do it with another guy, but he gets the 'I'm not gay' thing going. When we talk about fantisies, he says that he would like to eat me while I was getting fucked, which he admits would mean eating the other man's cum, and licking his dick. He's even said he would suck his cock if I wanted him to, which I would like to see. I'd really like to watch someone fuck him. Do couples do this, or is this outside the lines? -
Hi! My husband and I have been reading a lot of the posts regarding bi couples and bi-male/female experiences and it's something new we'd like to try with another bi-couple. Any suggestions and/or experiences that you'd like to share that might make it a better experience for us -- or help us avoid mistakes? The whole idea is extremely hot to us, but finding the right couple seems to be difficult as well. Thanks!
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My wife knows. I don't know how you can keep it quiet!
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And what did you think when you found out? My wife found out about my bisexuality when I told her I sucked a dick once and wanted her to watch me do it again. She was all for it and hoped to join in.- 31 replies
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Hello everyone! So a few weeks ago I came out to my wife as bi. She took it great it turned her on. Now we are looking to do a bi 3way. We looked on Grindr and all the guys are just creepy. My question is where is the best place to find a partner for us? Thank you in advance.
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Hello everybody. Married MW couple for 18 years today. We have been out of the LS for 5 years but prior to that we where in the life style for about 10 years and had a great time. We are in our mid forties and going on the bliss cruise in November. This will be our first swinger cruise. The question is, How is mm bisexual play seen in the LS community on this Cruise? In our past experience it was always accepted FF bi play but MM was pretty frowned upon. My husband and I have had a couple MMF in the past and had a great time. We are hopping to find that again. There is something that I just love watching him get it from another guy and sharing the other guy orally together. Any and all comments greatly appreciated and recommendations encouraged. -
I was asked by "herbob" on a different thread how did I go from being an orally bi guy to topping other men from time to time. I thought it was a good question and would be interested in hearing from others how they got to the point of either topping or bottoming, which I personally don't like but whatever. The first time I ever topped another guy was during a swingers party my ex-wife and I had hosted at our home. My wife and I hosted a 'holiday' party where clothing was optional and sex was almost mandatory. LOL At the time we where playing full time with a bi guy who pretty much lived with us and who never wore any clothing while home. Which was ok by me because he was a shower, unlike me who is a grower, and I and the wife loved to watch it swing and sway as he walked or when he laid down or sat in the chair he would lift it up and lay it across his leg. God I loved looking at his cock and loved sucking it even more so! Despite his beautiful cock he had a really tight small waist and firm ass that if you didn't know it was a man's ass you'd swear he was a girl from behind. After the party I was still ready for sex but the wife had already had more than her share and as many of you ladies know she was sore and wouldn't go for any more but was open to "HIM" going down on her leaving me with full nuts and horny as hell. Despite my pleading she denied me again however while "HE" knelt between her creamy thighs licking her "HE" wagged his ass and said the words I'll never forget, "My ass hasn't been used yet so I'm nice and tight!" to which I looked at her, who was sporting a wide happy grin and his tight little brown hole and before you knew it I was lubing his asshole and then slowly guided the head of my dick into his ass. Just as I sank deep into him my wife looked at me and said, "Are you really fucking his ass?" and when I said "yes" she grunted and groaned the loudest I had ever heard her and she forced "HIS" harder against her pussy and she began to start to cum. It didn't take long before I emptied my own load deep in "HIS" ass. In a nutshell, pardon the pun, that was how I fucked another mans ass for the first time! I, and I'm sure others, would love to hear how any other guys got into topping or even bottoming.
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Question for couples with straight guys...would you agree to swing with a couple knowing the male was bi? We have had an offer, but turned it down because I would not be comfortable with a bi guy in the mix.
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One thing I like about this forum is that people talk about what happens between guys sometimes. I used to worry about it, but now it's not a problem. So I want to ask what you have done with another guy beyond just accidental touching? Sex with a woman is still what I want, but sometimes now I will do these things too if a guy wants while we are having fun with the girls.
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Greetings! I am a novice to swinging, but am most anxious to get started. My first question is this...are couples open to married males or does swinging always involve couples only or single males with couples? My second question concerns bi-sexuality. Do women get turned on watching other men suck their husband's/parnter's cock? I am most interested in performing oral sex on a male, but find few bi-curious men at the Swingers Board. How can I convince my desires without sounding like I am a flamer or blatant homosexual? I simply want to taste and swallow a man's load of cum. -
Good, bad or meh? If a couple, how did your wife react?- 54 replies
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Swingers are open minded about sex. It is about excitement, thrill, new experiences, and fun. A given. Among women, a lot of wives are bi and enjoy dick and pussy too. Here comes that question, a spin-off of Tia Vampire's thread. You, your bi wife, and her bi female friend go to a nude beach. The girls began to play around and soon are masturbating each other, disregarding the dozen who pass by, some stopping to watch before walking on. You're half hard watching. A guy stops to watch the show the girls are putting on. He starts to get hard and after a few minutes you recognize you are getting a little too turned on and you decide to go for a walk up the beach to cool off. The guy stays to watch but a minute later walks on too. He soon catches up to you and you walk and talk till out of sight of anyone. You eventually stop and sit down on the sand to rest and the conversation has been about the girl/girl play your wife and friend were having and both of you, as guys do thinking about such things, start to get hard. Your conversation has made both of you really horny and both of you begin to occasionally stroke yourselves. The conversation evolves to the fact women can enjoy the fun of a dick AND pussy while the guy only gets pussy. You say that by simple math, guys are missing half the sex compared to girls. There is no fear your wife enjoying another woman's hot wet pussy, as you do, would make her or you think of her as a lesbian. Yet guys come with the mentality that any m/m contact is gay, without merit. You are both horny, slowly jacking yourselves off while talking. (I am writing this thread so it is mandatory that you magically know he is of no threat, and he is clean and STD free.) You are enjoying his company and conversation. He suddenly stands up and before you can react, steps forward and his dick is in your face. He puts his hand softly on your head and when you open your mouth to ask him....he slips his dick in your mouth. Your instinct is to pull away, but his hand is gently encouraging you not to, not forcing you. There is no one to see, you will never see him again, no one will ever know. His dick is already in your mouth. It is what a dick is, firm, fleshy soft and warm. Not an unpleasant sensation, and a first new something you have experienced since the first time you ate pussy. Would you, as an open-minded swinger who likes that his wife is bi ... 1. Be angry 2. Pull away and say I'm not into that. 3. Let it continue. 4. If you enjoyed the experience, think you would do it again sometime. 5. Think 'Done That' and not do bi again. -
I thought I would start this thread because of so much going on about the subject. Like, if you meet a couple from a different venue. Like a club or meet and greet. Some where, you didn't see on their profile the male is Bi. Then you find out face to face the male half of a couple is bisexual. What happens? You know, the talking... or turning down... Anyone have this happen? I don't see allot of how people handle this situation. What they have done or not done. Would do, or should do... What about the Bi men, do you keep it quiet? How or when, would you offer this fact? If so, how did things turn out?
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Okay this poll is prompted by EBF's poll on tolerance of bisexual activity. In order to make sense of what people think we have decided to make a more narrow poll. As a swinger, how tolerant are you of male-male bisexual activity? Please post your comments/justification. -
I'm as straight as an arrow and never even looked at another man in a sexual way. We play as a couple and have had regular 3somes (mfm) which she thoroughly enjoy. The focus is always on her, giving her pleasure and making sure she is having fun. Recently we were in a 3some with this gent and while we were playing (foreplay) he asked me whether I have ever been touched by or touch another man myself. The answer was no. He then dared me to touch him, which I then proceeded to do. Funny enough, it was not so weird as I thought it would be and although it felt strange, at the same time it felt familiar. I then proceeded to keep his dick in my hand and point it towards her mouth while she was blowing him. He did the same with me while she was blowing me later. Suddenly it was not strange anymore and I even guided his cock into her pussy later on. It all felt so natural in the situation. Fun was had by all 3 of us and it did not gross me out or even the wife. We (me and wife) had a discussion afterwards and she said she found it actually very kinky and she would like to see me in a male-male experience. Ever since it has been playing in my head and I don't know what to think. Touching is one thing, but actually going down on someone is something totally different (or is it not?) Although I still don't look at men in a sexual way, I found myself thinking about this a lot. A part of me says don't do it, you don't find men sexually attractive, but a part of my tell me to not to knock it and try it at least once and then make up my mind. The wife said that she became bisexual by also experimenting and only later become attracted to females as she became accustomed to the situation. Do you think I should proceed and experiment? I don't think I have the guts to take a cock in my mouth and suck it, but a part of me tells me I have the guts and should go ahead. I know it would be big visual turn-on for the wife and I would do anything to turn her on...just not sure about sucking a cock to turn her on. LOL To be honest, I'm very nervous.
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You know, a lot of men would love to see their wife with another lady. And, I know some wives feel the same way about their husband with another man. So, would you wives like to see your husband with a guy? And, guys, would you like for your wife to be there when you're with a guy?
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We are a Bi/Bi couple and have been on a couple of websites in the past but it seems the face of the swinger scene has changed. We have a lifetime membership on one site but it is not nearly what it used to be. I was wondering if there are more Bi/Bi friendly sites out there now. Any suggestions? Thanks
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My girl and I are both bi. Now I am really into women, and would take woman any day over a guy, but I do like guys--well, cocks actually. My first actual sexual encounter was with my best friend when I was 12 & 13 and we were just discovering sex. We'd steal nude girlie mags and whack off together, which progressed to each of us taking turns playing the girl as we lubed up and pumped between each other's legs and ass. No actual penetration. Then we heard about blow jobs so we tried it out on each other. This lasted for about a year until we read an article on homosexuality. We were appalled. Neither one of us wanted to be queer, so that stopped. Fast forward a dozen years and I was married, in grad school in NYC and my wife and I became close friends with a gay guy-very nice looking, classy, with money and great sense of humor. My wife was a natural fag hag, and they became close friends. About a year into the friendship, she took off one weekend and left us to fend for ourselves. We had a bottle of scotch and wound up blowing each other. That started a relationship that lasted for almost a year until he got a real boyfriend, who got jealous and turned me in to my wife. I don't know why, but she didn't leave me. In any case, that was my first adult bi experience, and I was liking it, but again it stopped. About 6 years ago, mired in a sexless marriage, and getting internet savvy, I started hooking up with other a few net tramps (tramp being a good word and bi guys. I was amazed at how many bi guys there were. Finally, out of the marriage. I was introduced to my current girl. She had been into the lifestyle with her husband. She was bi. As the relationship progressed, I confessed that I was bi, too. She was curious how that would go and suggested a 3 way with another bi guy. I loved the idea and set it up. Since then, we've invited numerous bi guys to join us. She digs having two men take care of her and apparently gets turned on by the guys playing and blowing each other. So after this very lengthy introduction, I'm wondering how many couples like us are out there? How women feel about men doing each other and how many guys have done bi or are curious, and just general reactions to what I've written. There seems to be no problem with the girls getting it on, and I'm wondering if there really is no problem with the boys getting it on also?
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Newbie here. Recently, my wife and I met a couple. We had been with them once before and hooked up again. Nice people, good times. seemed perfect for us. Anyway, we got together and things quickly got naked. Me and his were 69, with her on top. My wife was knealt on the floor sucking both me and him. After a while, his wife got off of me and I looked down and saw that he was sucking my dick. Don't know how long he had been doing it, but my wife was holding my dick and he was going at it. It was startling. I'm not gay and have no interest in men. Luckily, as I sat up, he quit and started kissing her. From there on out, nothing else like that happened, I just couldn't get the image of him sucking me out of my head, and it was kind of a turn off for the rest of the evening. Problem. Afterwards, my wife told me over and over how hot it made her to watch another man sucking my cock. I would do anything to please her, but that is just not for me. She has a gay friend and he flirts with me on occasion, but I don't reciprocate so I'm sure he knows it's going nowhere. I'm polite to him, but have made it clear I like women. Anyway, she has said she would like to have her gay friend join us. I enjoy watching her with other men and women, but I don't think I could even fake interest in another man to please her. I told her I am not turned on by men. She asked if it felt good when the other man was sucking my dick. I said yes, but I thought it was her. She also says that her friend would be happy just to suck my dick if that's all I wanted to do. Well, if that's the case, what the heck else is he going to do the rest of the evening? I don't want to suck or fuck him and don't want him to fuck me and it just doesn't excite me to see a man sucking my dick. She says it is no different from when she first went down on a woman. Well, I'm sorry. It is. I know from the way she talked before that she had always fantasized about it. But to me, a man with a man just doesn't flip my pickle. She says she is not going to pressure me, but thinks I would enjoy myself and she also wants to get back together with our new couple again. I love fucking her and watching him fuck my wife, but this guy/guy thing is not cutting it.
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Hello, I'm new to this forum but I have some questions about swinging currently and how I can help myself enjoy my time. I came out as Bi years ago before Covid-19. I had a few empty experiences solo but I find myself wanting more. I eventually met my partner (31F) and been happy. We decided to open up to swinging just as Covid was just starting. But currently we have not had sex outside of the relationship and I have been striking out on Grindr. From more experience swingers I ask, should we just pause all together? Keep trying Grindr for my needs? How likely would I find a male playmate under normal circumstances?
