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Hello to all members that read this message and sorry for my english. Me and my wife are a young married couple for 10 years (Been together almost 15). We are happily married and our sexual life is great every year more. A year ago I came out with the idea of watch my wife being fuck from another men. At that time she reply to me with a big NO but when having sex I tend to mention how good will be if other guy were there fucking her and notice she get even more wet when I mentioned that. To short the story... Last month we finally agreed to visit a swinger Club. As newbies, we were nervous and I did not expect to do more than simply watch and enjoy that time. We agreed to go to the playroom were everybody was naked and we ended up fucking each other and having a blast. When we got home we continue two more times as we were super excited. We went one more time after a week to the club but only enjoying ourselves. Two days ago we went again to the club and she seems more relaxed, I told her that day was for couples and single males (always there will be more single males off course), and I proposed her if the opportunity came and she feel good, we could try the fantasy I have of watching here being fucked by another guy. She told me that it might happen. That turned me on a lot! When we got there we got a couple of drinks, not too much, and then we were straight to the action area. Most of the crowd were too old for us, we are in our 32 (me) 31 (she). I spotted a young guy, older than me but he looks good and clean, and commented to her and she said he was OK. The guy seems to be with his partner (which I knew she was not, later I figure out and his partner confess me they were only friends with benefits). The guy started looking at my wife several times and we notice it. I started to talk to my wife to be relaxed and enjoy the moment. After a short while I told my wife I will go to the bar to get us some drink so she relax a little more and in the meantime I suggest her to approach the couple and start talking a little bit. It took like 10 minutes for me to get the drink due to the lines. When I returned, my wife was not in the same place I left her. I started to look for her and when I found her I was shocked. She was seated in a couch with the guy in front of her sucking his dick. I went there and did not wanted to screw the moment. The guy asked me to fuck his partner which I did not want because I did not find her attractive, I just touched her a little bit and told her I just want to watch my wife being fucked by her partner and be happy. After a while of my wife sucking his dick we all were to a open room where he fucked her in doggy position, that turned me on so much that I went in front of her and she began to make me oral. After a while my wife told the guy to continue with his girl but the guy wanted more and more. She just stepped in and told him that was all. Out of the room I asked her if she enjoyed the moment and she reply yes. But then she noticed I was not feeling ok and asked me what happened? I could not control myself and told her the truth, I was not feeling right the way things happened. I explained her that I did not find correct she started without me, which I think was disrespectful from the guy too. That I should be present at the moment all begin. She told me that the guy just walked towards her and open the towel to show his dick to her and she ASKED his partner if she was ok and then started to suck the guy's dick. So she asked for permission. Would it be wise to wait for me and also asked me if I feel comfortable with her doing oral to that guy (also without condom) a guy we don't know? She told me she was sorry and she did not think about that in that moment because she lets her go by the hot situation. Well that ended up screwing my night and I feel bad because I would not act the same way if the situation was the other way, me doing something without she present. I told her it was fine and all that happened because we did not communicate enough on the limits. But I don't think that limit have to be explained to her, it is just common sense. Now I feel terrible, because even I enjoy watching her, I can't her out of my mind the scene of getting there and see her doing that without my consent. Thanks everybody for reading all this and I hope to find any advice on how to overcome this thing that makes me feel bad even to have sex now with her. -
Hi Y'all, Here we go again. I went to a party Saturday night. Laurie couldn't be with me. She had family obligations out of state. With both our schedules being so busy this is a problem we have faced before. If one of us can't be home for the party weekend, AND it's an crowd we know and trust, AND we both agree before hand, then we're free to go have fun. Having satisfied those requirements I went by myself. At the party was a couple we've known since we've been in the lifestyle. I've never had the chance to play with the lady. She's had some nusance health troubles and hasn't gotten naked at a party in a long time. Her husband has taken Laurie up to a play room a time or two though. I didn't go up there with them. They were within earshot and I trusted him so I didn't feel the need to supervise. As Saturday evening got going really good I went upstairs with her, her husband, and another lady. It started with the two girls playing and us guys taking pictures. (Great pics by the way.) After a while the other guy put the camera away and started playing with the other lady. I got busy with the other guy's wife. She didn't object. She made happy noises as it was going on. She cheerfully co-operated with my requests to change positions and such. It seemed to me that everybody was having a good time. I get a call from the guy today telling me that I need to apologize to her. She is upset. They have a rule that they only play with couples and since Laurie wasn't there that means I was a single and therefore out of bounds. I AM going to apologize to her. If she's not happy about what happened then I'm not happy about it either. This is supposed to be fun, not upsetting. I mentioned to the husband that if she'd given even the slightest sign that she wasn't happy with the situation I would have stopped immediately. I'm no rapist. A woman does not even need to tell me no. An apathetic response will send me looking for someone who is more interested in my attention. He said she won't say no. It's his job to enforce their agreed upon rules. I'm completely at a loss as to how I was supposed to know that she was not ok with this. I have considered them friends for a while. We've spent time with them in a non-sexual context. While I was laid up from my big surgery she was one of the internet chat buddies who kept me company. We've joked about me dragging her off into the bushes. I've even played with her in a soft swing kind of way from time to time. It never went any further than that until Saturday because of external circumstances. The first time I was recovering from major abdominal surgery and wasn't capable of anything vigorous. The second time we were about to have intercourse but someone came into the playroom that Laurie found so objectionable that she threw me the "We're leaving NOW" hand signal. Am I missing some warning sign that I should have seen? Is this odd? Can I expect this sort of drama on a regular basis? Laurie and I both just want to have fun but lately we feel like we're trapped in a soap opera. My first reaction to how to deal with this is to give her the apology she wants and be politely distant toward them in the future. Decline all invitations to spend time with either of them be it in a sexual or non-sexual context. I just don't want to do something like that out of ill temper over it though. What do you think?