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Turned on by the thought of having sex with another man's wife
Numex posted a topic in Swingers Talk
Lots of the guys here like to talk about how much they like watching their wife get fucked by another man, either in a threesome or swapping, but they like to see it. These guys give two reasons; they like to see their wife enjoying herself, and they like to watch the action themselves...it gets them hot knowing some other guy is doing his wife. Most of the other time it's the other way around for me. Sure, I like it that my wife is having a good time, we wouldn't do this otherwise, and it is hot watching her in action. For me though, it is way way hotter looking down and thinking, whoa, that's another man's wife that I AM fucking. When I blow my load in her that is what is in my mind, it's another man's wife taking it. I don't say anything to a wife, but seeing her wedding ring while fucking her gets me hot. The one where I really lost it though was when this couple we swapped with had just got engaged, and she only had an engagement ring. While we were screwing I saw the ring and stated thinking how I was fucking his girl he promised to marry, and although I usually have good control, I blew my load right then, way too early. Any other guys like this?? -
My wife has recently fallen in love with the BDSM world. She wants to be dominated by an alpha man. She tells me she cannot have her husband be that type of Dom, because of our day-to-day relationship. She was craving a true DOM who she could visit at his place/hotel and be his bitch. She found a guy on Tinder and met with him for drinks. He ordered for her, told her where and how to sit. He took total control during the date night and eventually "told her" that she was going to his place. She was thrilled and obliged. He was groping her on the way to his place and told her the rules about addressing him as Sir and she was his bitch. She belonged to him until she left. She was thrilled and sent me a few texts summarizing much of this. When they got to his place, he grabbed her the moment the door closed, he ripped up her dress (literally), and told her she had been a bad girl. She asked to be punished. He grabbed her by the hair, told her that he will go to his bedroom and she is to follow him on all fours. She obliged, crawling behind him naked (thong and heels still on). He then tapped the bed and told her to get on and stay on all fours. He emerged few minutes later with his "tools." She pointed to a whip, he got the hint and worked that whip on her ass for good 5 to 10 minutes. she loved the pain and pleasure. After that, he came around and shoved his dick in her mouth. She sucked on it for a few and then asked him to fuck her. He went around, she was still on all fours, he started fucking her doggystyle. She begged him for more, he gave it to her. He kept calling her filthy names, cunt, whore, what kind of married woman fucks stranger, how she's a slut...and so forth. She loved every bit of it. When he was done, he did not come inside her, he took off the condom and sprayed all over her face. She licked her lips. She cleaned his cock, he then ordered her to get up, clean up, and make the bed before she leaves, she did. Her dress was ripped up, he gave her a sweater that she could pretend was a dress. He did not allow her to shower there, I had asked her to not shower, she came home with dried cum all over her face, disheveled makeup and so forth all around. She called me as soon as she got in the car. I was dying with excitement and asked her to start talking while I was stroking my dick. She said it was everything we had fantasized about. She started to tell me piece by piece. She told me how she told him about my "mediocre" performance and how she needed to be fucked by someone like him. She said she loved every bit of it. Needless to say, she got his number and plans to call him time-to-time. I could taste his condom on her pussy and his cum on her face. I loved hearing how he was about a foot taller and his dick was an inch longer and much thicker and how he made her feel so full. -
I have seen this 'BULL' term tossed around in a few places. Is this just a twist to make some of these couples feel more comfortable when dealing with a Dom, with separation from BDSM? I've yet to find someone who knows what the slang means.
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The first couple we were involved with used the terms top and bottom to describe themselves. At the time, I thought that top and bottom were terms that were exclusive to the gay community. Not so... Basically, the dominant partner is the top - and the submissive is the bottom... I know - I know - "duh, Spoomonkey. What's your point?" Well - I am curious... Who is the more dominant in your relationship? Or - if you are single - do you see yourself as a "top" or "bottom"? In our marriage, I am usually the dominant one. Occassionally I enjoy letting Mrs Spoomonkey wrestle for control, only to take it from her as the activities progress. And she is more than happy to let me be the dominant one. I have a fantasy about being "dominated", but it is not something that I could get into all the time. I am definitely an "alpha-monkey". So - I am going to try my very first poll... The question is - which are you?
