Hi everyone. Semi-Newbie couple here, however been reading this site for a year now. Thought I would ask some advice if possible. Kind of a new couple at swinging, (limited experience, a few full swaps, couples only, etc) and have plans made for this weekend with another couple. Here is the issue. Not sure if we want to play with them or not. We have made and paid for reservations, etc. (rather expensive ones at that) and been talking with this couple a lot. Everything seems to click right now, but for some reason, I (the Mr.) and not feeling too much towards the other (the other Mrs.) but everyone else is. We are meeting for dinner first, but we got a big two room suite and I know after a few drinks anything is bound to happen. My question is, should I even attempt to go when I already have a preconceived bad feeling about this one? or maybe go and tell them at dinner we can do things with our own partners or what? Any advice would be great. I hate to just up an cancel at the last minute because so many plans have been made, but I really don't want to end up taking one for the team. I am sure however my wife would have a great time and I do like the other Mr. personality, (which is rare, as we usually end up with pushy couples) but I am just not feeling it. The closer it gets the more I learn about her, the worse it gets. Anyone ran into this before? Thanks for reading my long question...