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We are going to a swingers club tonight for the first time. We are both very excited, but not sure what to expect. Any advice or tips would be much appreciated. -
Hi there everyone, We've just joined swingersboard which is both interesting and informative. Here is a little bit about us by way of an introduction together with a question for your kind consideration and comments. We look forward to hearing from you.xxx My wife and I are very happily married (15 yrs, mid/late 40's, male-straight, female bi-curious) and are now very secure with each other having both been a little jealous/insecure - we were both extemely jealous and over the top on occasions. We are now both very secure. Quite a significant change of mindset for us both. We have a lot of really great sex with each other. We have never tried a threesome -just talked about it. We have both been faithful during all our years together. We both want to have threesomes - she with another woman and me, and me with another man and her, but we would both go with any threesome mix with the right person. We would also probably do a swing swap in the same room so we could watch each other having sex with another person which we both find a turn on, but this is the least exciting scenario to us but still of interest. One question WHY? Interestingly enough the larger part of our interest is not about our individual personal desire to have sex with a different partner,(which I would have thought would have been the case, although this obviously has great appeal), but more about an erotica and powerful sexual arousal brought about by, in my case watching my wife having sex with another man and me fully taking part sexing her as part of the threesome. I want her to really get into the excitement and enjoy the incredible intensity and satisfaction of being looked after by two competent men. I want the sex acts to be as exciting as possible with particular attention to oral sex performed on her and the vista of her being penetrated in turn by both her sex partners. My wife has the same reciprocal interest in a threesome with me and another girl, obviously she wants to watch me penetrate another woman. We have both discussed this in great depth and now agree that our new thinking is that we can find other people sexually attractive but we seem to want each other's approval otherwise our interest in the 3rd party disappears. Before we embark on such a relatively radical activity we should like to understand the psychology of these desires so we can be sure our marriage is improved and not harmed by our own hand! Look forward to hearing from you.xxx