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Just finished watching a YouTube video about the O and P shot, I had never heard of this. This is for middle aged men and women where a doctor uses a vial of your own blood,spins it and takes the platelets to inject back into the clitoris or the penis to improve blood flow. The doctor who did the video said she gets this treatment about every 9 months. She recommends this for people having problems with ED problems or orgasm difficulties. So, have you heard of this or have you had this treatment?
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This probably shouldn't bother me. The input from other readers would interest me. When my wife and I have sex she cums. Mildly would be a good word. When she has sex with other guys, she cums loudly, with spasms and shaking. These are wild orgasms. She has squirted with others, but never with me. (I have tried.) I don't think its about technique. I do understand the process, watched the videos, taken suggestions from the guys who made her squirt, etc. She says she doesn't get into squirting all that much, but she really seems to like it when it's happening. I suspect she doesn't want to hurt my feelings. She says that sex with me is the best, but I seriously doubt that. Now, I'm really not worried that she'll leave me for another guy. We've been together for a long time and have been very happy. So my question is: Am I making something out of nothing or should I be concerned? Thanks for your thoughts.
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I am so jealous of men. (for the most part) They can relax and have fun during sex because orgasm is inevitable. I envy that. I crave that. For me achieving orgasm feels like work. I don't orgasm unless my clitoris is stimulated. It is very frustrating. The only no hands approach there is for me is oral. It doesn't matter what position I am in I have to use a vibe or my hands. Mostly the vibe because manual stimulation with fingers isn't successful very often. I just want to have sex and it happen. For me, my biggest fantasy is just to have sex with my husband (hands free, battery free) and have a no work orgasm. For me the best orgasms are while being penetrated because that fullness inside just adds to the pleasure. But on the flipside when I can't just lay back enjoy, it takes away from it. Sometimes it takes me over 20 minutes to get there. For the most part (if I have an orgasm) it is just that one. Sometimes I get to squeeze out two. I know this has an effect on my husband as well. Men gain a little confidence off getting their wives off. Husbands with wives who achieve multiple orgasms get a little kick to the ego. I don't think a lot of those husbands know how lucky they are. It's not always their skill but the physical ability of their wives to achieve said orgasms. That doesn't really matter though, the effect is a positive one for both. Just like the effect of not achieving one can be negative even though neither is really at fault. I am not really looking for advice on what position to try or anything like that. I guess I just need to vent. How do you make this not matter? How do you not worry about it? Here I am contemplating buying a new "toy" (We Vibe). Toys and such are suppose to be an added pleasure, not a necessity. Ugh!!
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Hello all. I am a 32f. Husband is 35m. We are interested in trying swinging but something is giving me pause. I am not an easy lady to bring to orgasm. Completely alone with my own hand I can come in 5 minutes. Oral by my husband on me, takes maybe 30 minutes (if it works at all). Vibrators don't do much (not even the Hitachi, but sometimes they do. It's a crapshoot). And I don't orgasm vaginally. I am nervous that my inability to orgasm will turn playmates off. How would you react if the wife of the other couple could not orgasm? Would it be off putting if I were to try to bring a vibrator into bed? Would it make you less likely to swing with us again? I do enjoy sex and the excitement of the whole adventure, my biology and mind is just such that orgasm is hard for me around other people.
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I (actually none of us in our three-woman, two-man poly family) have any powered toys. The reason for me is that when I was growing up (early teens) my older sister started using a vibrator, while I used my fingers. When my started fucking guys, she told me that while fucking a guy was more satisfying, it wasn't as intense as her vibrator. After a while, she couldn't orgasm just with a guy having his penis in her vagina anymore, she always had to finish off with her vibrator or a vigorous licking. So I never ventured in the powered toy direction, only using my fingers and sometimes a small dildo when I am away on a business trip. So pardon my getting off on a tangent, but those of you that are users of powered vibrators: does their use make it harder for you to cum when you are just fucking? Thank you. -
Which would you prefer? For the ladies: If you are having sex with a guy, would you rather he came too quick or that he couldn't come at all and therefore you never recieved the pleasure of seeing him in orgasm... and ended up chaffed and sore from too much sex. For the men: Would you rather come too fast and have the opp. to possibly go again, or would you rather be hard as a rock and unable to blow your load. -
What does it mean to be multi-orgasmic? Is when you come many times in a row O-O-O-O, non-stop. Or is just that you can actually have several really good O's in one night?
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The question goes out to all the ladies out there: How do you typically orgasm during intercourse? Last night Kermit noted that I usually "take matters into my own hands" so to speak when having sex. He has the idea that it's more manly to be able to get himself and the women he is with off all at the same time. His suggestion was that I not do this some of the time so that he can practice running the whole show. We've noticed that other women he has been have a tendency to sit back and let him do all the work (which is very different from my tactic). Hopefully I have made my question clear. Please comment below.
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Having recently ran into an old flame I got to thinking about the sex we use to have. It was pretty good and one thing that was unique about it was that she could orgasm just from nipple play, it would take some time but it would happen quite regularly. My present spouse doesn't have very sensitve nipples and doesn't really enjoy having them sucked. My question is how many of the women out there can orgasm from nipple play and how many of you don't really enjoy having your breasts/nipples played with. Thanks Burton P.S. if this was an old topic somewhere in the archieves and I missed it I offer my most humble apology. B
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My wife can have an orgasm just by stimulating her nipples. It is a wonderful option for me as I am very much a breast man. I am curious as to how many other women can have an orgasm this way? I read somewhere that about 10% of women can have an orgasm this way and am wondering if the numbers will hold up here. The logical side of me was also curious as to whether breastfeeding played into this as both of our children were breastfed. Ladies, we would love to hear from you on this matter!
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I have a question for my SB family. I'm the type of woman that's constantly moist. I can think about sex and get wet, like for instance right now, I'm writing this and I can feel myself getting wet. I'm known for leaving big wet spots in the middle of the bed, so much to where a towel is needed to cover it. My question is, is it possible for a woman to cum too much or is it a normal thing?
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We are a newly married couple in the Triad area of North Carolina. We are new to the lifestyle. Our question is, what sex act is the easiest was for you to orgasm?
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Ok, I have seen the post about a great number of orgasms in one night, day, or whatever....I know that there are some women who are not able to orgasm through some medical reason. I really wonder about this though...have they just not found that right person, or position. I have seen specials on Discovery Health, etc. My question is this how many of you women are able to have an orgasm through intercourse with a man and a man only...no help from toys, fingers, etc.? The poll is limited to two answers, but feel free to elaborate in your post. Thanks! -
In her poll, Julie asked about faking orgasms and MagicEnigma brought up the idea of "exaggerating" orgasms...wondering what the numbers would be for that. Interesting, I thought. So, that's the question...for both men and women...have you ever exaggerated an orgasm?
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If you males encounter a female that doesn't "cum" at the drop of a hat, that you actually have to work at to figure out what makes her tick - do you see that as a challenge or a waste of time? I'm obviously in this category, in over 18months only two males (apart from hubby) have given me an orgasm. I have a ball playing, am very active and the males always leave satisfied and hubby always makes sure I'm satisfied either during or afterwards, he almost always brings the visiting female to orgasm. The only successful males have been those that have been frequent playmates. I wonder if the others just saw it as a waste of time after the first attempt? -
I was wondering how would the man in a couple feel if another man makes his wife have more orgasms than he has and they were also more intense than anything she has ever felt before from sex?. Do you think this will cause a break in the marriage or will it make it better? I ask this because I know some techniques that can do exactly what I described but I don't want to cause a rift in a relationship. When I do it with a single woman I don't have to worry about her significant other getting mad at her constantly thinking about the orgasms I gave her but if it's a couple I don't know if this is the same case. The techniques I use require a lot of exercises on my part to build strength and can't be accomplished in a week and some men might not even feel like doing the work and I'm worried the women might try to cheat with me to get these orgasms and I'm not into that. I really want to try some group sex with this knowledge because I love to see a woman in total ecstasy but I don't know if it's a wise thing to do. Can anyone help me out?
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to me. I have finally achieved an orgasm with a playmate. They are regulars at the house party we fequent and we both have been wanting to get with for a while. Last night if happened and it was great. I guess we have seen them enough and know that they really do play and we both felt very comfortable with them. Not to mention that they both were orally gifted, knew how to please a playmate, and we liked the same things when it came to sex. He was what I was into and she was into what my SO was into. Worked out for the both of us. Guess later was better than never.
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My husband and I are weighing the pros and cons of swinging. we have not yet done it. I have a BIG question. One of the reasons we want to try it, is for sexual satisfaction. I want to have an orgasm. I haven't in 10 years. Maybe if I'm with someone else I could? Is this ok? Our idea is a MFM threesome. Will this put people off?
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I have been having sex for over 30 years, my problem is I can't cum when he goes down on me. I have no problem when he penetrates me. I would so love to cum during oral sex. What could be my problem?
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I just found this interesting little tidbit in Fitness magazine... I know the Spoos will find it interesting anyway (and maybe they can even confirm it). According to Run For Life by Sam Murphy, 40% of women who ran for exercise reported greater sexual arousal. 31% had sex more often and 25% found orgasm easier to achieve. Sounds like a good reason to take up running, if you ask me.
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Can any woman out there actual achieve an orgasm by intercourse alone? If so what position works for you?
