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Hi everyone, my husband and I are early 30s and fairly new to swinging. We have a night planned this weekend with a couple in their late 40s who we've met up with twice before. My husband and I recently did anal (not something we usually do) and it resulted in me developing a small hemorrhoid. I've been treating it over the past week hoping it will go away before our meeting tomorrow but as of this morning it's still there. Icky detail time (sorry): it's only visible if my ass is spread open. If I refrain from letting anyone spread my cheeks open, it won't be visible. We're faced with the decision of whether to cancel the meeting or not. A hemorrhoid is not exactly conducive to a sexy swinging environment and it's embarrassing to have anyone potentially see it. On the other hand, apart from the embarrassing nature of the subject the actual hemorrhoid itself is really small and not actually that unsightly. My husband took a photo of it for me and it just looks like a small ever-so-slightly bluish lump on the inside of my anus. If I saw it on the other woman's bum and I knew what it was, I don't think I'd care. 1. Do we cancel and tell the couple the honest reason? Or do we make up an excuse in case this is too much information to share with a swinging couple? 2. Do we tell them about it and leave the decision in their hands? They might have dealt with hemorrhoids themselves in the past and don't find it a big deal. 3. Do we continue with the meeting but don't mention it, and state that there is to be no ass play this time? Your opinions are greatly appreciated. I'm really not wanting to lie or mislead them and want to do right by everyone involved. I'm leaning towards being honest and letting them decide.
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Does anal sex cause hemorrhoids??
