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I cannot figure out why bad breath is such a common problem at swing clubs. The part that baffles me the most is that we know a few men whose breath have hang time. I mean it's so bad that I have a problem talking to them. I like them so much but I cannot handle the smell. My question is why don't their partners tell them? Or, like I often do, offer them a mint? One of these couples both husband and wife are dentists! Thoughts?
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I realized when i went down of my first woman partner, her vagina and anus was stinking in a same way. Is it normal?
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I was thinking about how it's pretty much commonplace to see shaved (or at least very well trimmed) genitalia in both women and men in the lifestyle. I can't tell you the last time I saw a hairy bush (probably mine 15 years ago?). That got me thinking, did you shave prior to swinging? would you still shave if you weren't swinging? For that matter, why do you shave? I can't recall if I started shaving before or after I started swinging. I know the first time was when I was dating my now hubby (over 15 years ago) he shaved me as part of play one night. It was also the first time he ever went down on me (as the pubic hair was a huge turn-off for him towards the idea of "eating out"). I believe that after that I did at least start keeping it well trimmed, but I'm not sure I started shaving it right away. Over the years I've continued to keep it shaved just because now I hate the feeling when there is hair down there.
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Hi Everyone, Here's a question for you girls...... Anal.... for those of you that do... I'm asking this more because I would love to try DP, the only thing that holds me back (besides finding the right extra man for the job) lol Is the mess that could encounter, with my hubby, this dosn't bother me, but with another man it does.... Do you do anything special to prep for this, & make sure that its as clean of an experience as possible.... ?? """You know what I mean";) """
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The only swing club I've ever been to was back when I was married, and we went to the green door in Las Vegas. FF a few years and a divorce, and I'm having a conversation with my now GF about swing clubs, and she's freaked out at the idea of going in the hot tub at a swingers club. I didn't think twice about it then, but now that she brings it up, how sanitary is that? I remember a health club I went to and the manager told me to avoid the hot tub late nights bc stuff goes on in there you don't want to know about! I'm guessing the same thing is true and more so at a club?
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At a recent party, witnessed and even participated in lots of copulation in a swimming pool. Now I'm wondering. What might the probable or potential consequences of sex in the pool be? Can viable spermatozoa "swim" in pool water? Are pool chemicals harmful to a woman when that are "pushed" up a vaginal canal? One woman, on her way to an orgasm, definitely released pee into the pool. Geezy Pete! Might all of the activity clog the pool's filter? ~Michael, The Curious
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We both enjoy anal play but sometimes it can be messy. Can you offer any tips to help avoid these unwanted moments.
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In reading other threads I often see people say that because of the lifestyle they take better care of their bodies, go to greater extent to stay in shape, etc. Whenever I see this I can't help but think "why didn't you do that for your spouse? or for yourself?" Why did it take swinging to make you want to take better care of your body? And what is it about swinging that makes you want to do so? I think it's fairly common that people take better care of themselves when they are single and therefore trying to attract potential partners. Too often when we get comfortable in a relationship we take those things for granted... as women we may stop butting so much effort into making sure we have makeup on before we leave the house or for all of us making sure our clothes are just right. So I can see how we get to the point that we don't do what we should to present ourselves, but what is about swinging that changes that? And beyond that, if your partner is one of those that has started making more of an effort to present themselves since you've started pursuing swinging, how does that make you feel? Do you ever feel jealous that they didn't make that effort for you but now they are willing to for others?
