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Hello I’m after other peoples thoughts on a topic I have, me and my wife are happily married for 7 years both in our 30s and have great sex together. Now while we have sex we have a bit of fantasy type dirty talk and it’s great now it gets saucy and she says she would fuck someone else and she would even go bareback with them, now some my think I’m crazy but that thought drives my dick wild! Now the other bit of this is when we don’t get in that sexy moment it never gets mentioned, and I honestly think she wouldn’t do it. A little part of me thinks what if she did and how hot it would be seen her do it, now from others experience do you think that it’s just the heat of the moment talk or is it something she does secretly have on her mind?- 67 replies
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My wife is conservative, we are 10 years together. Our sex life is just OK. Due to children and busy life, we don’t have sex often. I asked her if she wants me to buy a dildo for her. She said she would like the dildo. When I asked her how she will use it she said that she would like to have the dildo in her pussy while sucking my cock. Ladies what do you think, does that means that she is into 3some? I know that most of the replies would be .. go and ask her but I would love a different reply. I forgot to mention that we don’t have any experience in SL P.S sorry for my bad English
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Hi out there. I’m married and in an evolving relationship. Last year I did a burlesque photo shoot for him as a gift. He loved the way it turned out but asked if I’d be willing to do something more risqué in the future. I got a reference from the original photographer (female) and told my husband the new photographer would be a male. Being the protective husband he is we both requested a meeting over a cup of coffee. We met which was great and made things all the more comfortable. I loved what I saw from his book and my husband did as well. We had the shoot and the pictures came out great. He got really turned on by knowing another guy was doing the pictures. I was shocked. I asked him if he’d consider doing a couples shoot with me and he said he’d try but was reluctant. Pretty soon after he agreed and we were off again. Prior to the shoot my husband and the photographer talked about his career. My husband, who’s faithful, shocked me a bit with his envy and open talk about what the photographer experienced. I’m extremely open and joined in the conversation. Both of us felt like we were conversing with someone we really liked and knew a lot longer than we actually did. Unfortunately my husband had difficulties getting hard which is completely out of the ordinary. The photographer said it happened a lot and just to relax. Surprisingly at my husband's request he asked for me to do a POV shoot the photographer showed us in his book. Basically it’s the photographer including himself in various ways while taking the pictures. As we started taking the pictures I liked being touched by the photographer even though it wasn’t active foreplay or sex. It really was strictly for the pictures themselves. During the pictures my husband quickly got hard and watched. Eventually the photographer asked him if he was going to get involved. The rest of the shoot went as we planned. Afterwards we all sat around and talked and went through the pictures. Some time passed again and we talked a lot about the fun we had with it. My husband admitted he liked watching the photographer touch me and if not for that he may have been to nervous to get hard. I really want this to develop further but I’m apprehensive because it’s a major change in life obviously. I’m also not sure about how I feel about seeing him with someone else. When I say I’m not sure I mean most likely not. I don’t even really think he wants to. I almost feel like if I bring that up it will be too much too fast. Multiple times when having sex we’ve dirty talked about me doing another shoot and giving myself up. I’d feel more comfortable to actually do it than talk about it. I feel like my husband has opened a door that I want to walk into. Am I reading it wrong? Is it best for me to just set something else up and let it work itself the way it will? Based on our interactions I have no doubt the photographer would be into it also. Would I be going to far given our relationship if I reached out to the him and told him how I feel, how my husband feels, and confirm he’d say yes?
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So my wife and I have been dirty talking a MMF 3way for a bit now. She desperately wants to be penetrated while she gives oral, but she strongly thinks that as a married couple it should only be us. She can't help but twerk her ass when she's on her knees sucking me and we both get super turned on when talking about another guy sharing her. I've talked her into getting a thrusting dildo and seeing how that goes. Any tips on how to get it to go further? I'd love to share my wife with another man and eventually experiment with other aspects of swinging.
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We’ve talked about sharing on and off over the years - I have a recurring fantasy of watching her with someone else (yeah another one of those guys ) - but it’s always been a hard no in her part. That’s fine, it’s a fantasy, and I’m not pushing it. She’s not one to share her fantasies, she claims she doesn’t have any, but on a rare occasion she’ll drop a shocker on me - like where did that come from? The latest, more surprising than shocking, was about wanting to go to a club where there are sexy dancers to watch - “like a strip club?” I asked? “No, No just sexy not trashy - think gogo not stripper”. Ok, but she goes on and describes that the club also has private back rooms where the couple can get intimate with each other. “I think you just described a swingers club”. “Eww no, not that, just a place to dance sensually with each other then have sex” - “you can do exactly that at a swingers club, you don’t need to swing” - “hmmm....” Further discussions had mixed results depending on state of arousal but any mention of swinging is met with “eww, no!”. I know I shouldn’t be asking an Internet forum what my wife is thinking but can any of you relate to this (from either end) and offer any advice or thoughts? I know the main advice will to talk to her but I don’t want to press it hard or seem obsessed. Her philosophy with the kids is raise an issue or drop an idea then give them time to process and come around rather than force it and risk them shutting down. It usually works with her too...
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Ok, I know the "I want to but she doesn't: How do I talk her into it?" has been beat to death on the forums. I'm afraid I come from something of a traditional upbringing, and I'm still trying to get my mind around everything. With my wife, I was trying to be very respectful, and then she said "So, when are we going to have sex?" That's just to show you how clueless I can be. We were talking about fantasies, and she asked me "Would you be comfortable seeing me making out with someone else?" She is the first one I've played with toys with, and we've had great results. (Thank you AngleKin and Julie, BTW.) I'll be the first to admit I have a lot to learn, but I'm trying to get my mind around reaching outside the box. A little background: My first wife was a preacher's daughter who said "Sex is for the man." I know I'll have a lot of you laughing hysterically, but I'm still moving past that way of thinking. I followed AngleKin's advice on use of light bondage and a vibrator to tease her, and she loved that. We're playing with toys now, and I think she's having to instruct me. Any advice on how to respond to her inquiry? (Yes, I'm willing to change my name to "CluelessGuy1964!")
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Hi, I try to get her into the swinging scene.. talk about threesomes.. but never happned.. I found she watching porn movies.. most of them DP and group sex.. and or Old man and a young girl.. sometimes when we having sex we put porn on side.. and she is telling me to put DP movies.. we had same patner same room sex while ago.. but that was it.. do you think this is bad or she has interest in swinging?
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We attended a swing club twice to dance and watch other couples play. Me and wife played together. I wanted to bring another man to our play just for her. I mentioned this to her, and her response is the thought of it turned her off. Every time I bring this topic I always got the same response. Until lately the response changed to "are you trying to give me away?" (as a joke). Her latest one is "help me lose weight first then I will start looking around. You know I'm always hot if I am not a little heavy." Folks, do you think my wife is ready? If you think she is tell me how we get started.
