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At first, I'd like to apologize for a little bit of a long post. I am a 30 year old male and my wife is 25 year old. We have been married for almost 7 years. She is Muslim and was quite conservative from the beginning. On the other hand, I always had different types of sexual fantasies that I have shared with her. Over the past few years, she has tried to become a little bit more adventurous in terms of talking dirty or some other things. While having sex, we talk about her friends who I'd like to have sex with & my friends who she would like to have sex with. She enjoys sharing those fantasies these days. So, safe to say that over the past few years, we both have adapted to each other quite a bit. We both are from a conservative country and being a Muslim didn't actually help our cause. Recently, like a year or so ago, we have moved to Europe. Since being here, she has become just a little bit more adventurous person I would say. She has always wanted to wear different things that she could not wear back in our country. Since being here, I'm proud of her that she has already pulled off mini skirts albeit with stockings. She's also going to parties with friends and I always encourage her to go to those events. Recently, she had been to a party with one of her friends and she was looking really gorgeous in her black mini skirt with a short top. In that party, she had some experiences that she has shared with me and also showed me some pictures from the party. Over there she met some guys from her study programme & she showed me the pictures she took over there with some of guys. The pictures with those guys were pretty normal by any usual standard, but for her the experience was a new one. Like in some of them, she was hugging some other guys that she met over there and in another one, a guy photobombed her picture by grabbing her from behind. She didn't mind those things at all I suppose. After the party she has shared some of the other experiences that she encountered over there too. The suggestions or advices that I'm looking for are regarding those experiences. When someone she newly met touched or kissed her cheek, although she told me that she enjoyed those, yet became a little bit uncomfortable. The particular situation that she mentioned to me were that while dancing with a guy, she felt his hands near her ass and boobs. She said that she didn't follow through with those and immediately stopped dancing with that guy. She has shared those in details with me and as always I get a little bit of sexual arousal from these experiences. Although she hasn't asked me what to do, I think for her the biggest surprise was that like the stories we used to share, she actually enjoyed quite a bit of the party experiences. As always, I'm really cool with that and I would like her to explore her sexuality even more. But, I think, she's been in a little bit of a pickle as she would like to continue, yet she is a little bit shy still. Next week she has some sort of a new year party that She really wants to go and she seemed pretty excited about the dress she's gonna wear over there. To be honest, it's pretty revealing by her standards. The thing is that she's still thinking back and forth about what to do over there because of their earlier experience. It's not like that she disliked her experience over there, rather like stepping into an Uncharted territory. So, what should be my advice to her?- 16 replies
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Hi my husband and I met a couple that we think would be great to play with. Lots of sexy communication between all of us for a week. Had a meet n greet, laid out ground rules and all things were a go. During meet n greet the other guy say next to me rubbing my leg, placed my hand on his dick for a quick touch under the table. My husband asked the wife if he could touch her leg under the table and she freaked out on him. Saying no pda no pda. Mind you this is the same woman who was telling him during the week how she wanted to suck his dick etc. This is the same woman who invited us to meet them at a Halloween party the next night and after we were supposed to go to their house to play. Party night arrives, we got there first. They show up and sit with us for about 15 minutes then get up to mingle. Well they pretty much ignored us the rest of the night so we started mingling too. We were having a blast meeting new people and out the corner of my eye I see them leaving with no good bye, they stiffed us on our play date The next day I texted them asking what was up. The husband tells me that my hubby reminded her of her ex husband and if she were to kiss him it would be like being with her ex. He told me they both wanted and liked me and were both attractive me. I'm like WTF? It's not like she didn't know what he looked like before all this and we did meet each other. So my question is were we played out? -
Hi, I am new here. I need some advice from the group. Me and my wife have been in an open marriage for 10 years. Everything has always been good. We have good communication, sex, etc. In the beginning we decided that each of us should have one long-term friend who we are attracted to. OK. She has now had a long-term friend going on 5 years and I am cool with it. They hang out sometimes, text, talk on the phone, and sometimes chill. But when I meet someone who I find attractive and try the same things, I always get a bad vibe from my wife. Or, she brings up that we have issues building up and that I need to focus more on her. But as long as I do not have a friend, our world is perfect. Guys...Could you help me figure out if I am reading to much into this? Or does my wife really not want me to have a friend?
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My gf had a friend she had hooked up with multiple times. There were times where the friend made out with me (me as in the bf) and my gf and then the girls would go at it and let me watch and then get involved and have sex with them. Both would let me kiss their breasts and touch them, but then during the middle of one hook up session the girl stopped being interested. She stopped kissing me and my gf would kiss her but the girl wouldn't really kiss back. Everyone was completely naked and the girl wouldn't let us finger her or anything! It was just weird because of the other times she was really cool with it, but this time she just stopped. It was sad cause she was pretty hot but I think she was just wanted to try it out and that was the final experience for her (or someone probably said something and she did not approve?)
