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Hi my husband and I met a couple that we think would be great to play with. Lots of sexy communication between all of us for a week. Had a meet n greet, laid out ground rules and all things were a go. During meet n greet the other guy say next to me rubbing my leg, placed my hand on his dick for a quick touch under the table. My husband asked the wife if he could touch her leg under the table and she freaked out on him. Saying no pda no pda. Mind you this is the same woman who was telling him during the week how she wanted to suck his dick etc. This is the same woman who invited us to meet them at a Halloween party the next night and after we were supposed to go to their house to play. Party night arrives, we got there first. They show up and sit with us for about 15 minutes then get up to mingle. Well they pretty much ignored us the rest of the night so we started mingling too. We were having a blast meeting new people and out the corner of my eye I see them leaving with no good bye, they stiffed us on our play date The next day I texted them asking what was up. The husband tells me that my hubby reminded her of her ex husband and if she were to kiss him it would be like being with her ex. He told me they both wanted and liked me and were both attractive me. I'm like WTF? It's not like she didn't know what he looked like before all this and we did meet each other. So my question is were we played out? -
So we had the first stand up ever. Been playing for about a year, and for the first time we got stood up. I know we have been lucky and have met some great couples out there so this one just perplexes me. Tell me what you think. So we meet on SLS, and toss a few e-mails, phone numbers, and pics. About two days later, the girls talk on the phone, it was a great talk, about two hours. The girls talk a few more times during the week, all long conversations, and both are very excited, and arrange a meet and greet at a local bar. While this is going on, the guys are tossing emails back and forth, along with lots of current photos. They too, are excited about the meet and greet, and even share some private info, like last names and places of occupation. All seems well. On the way to the meet, we toss texts back and forth all the way there (about an hour), - yeah that is “local” for us. Upon arriving, we walked in and texted, “we just walked in” and told then what we were wearing. We scoped the place out really good, it was small, and there was no-one there that even looked close to the photos or descriptions. We finally got a text, saying that they went to the restaurant next door, because the bar was crowded. - strange but OK. We went over there. The doors were about 20 feet apart. We walked in and scoped it out as well, and nothing… there was no-one there. We texted, “where are you” - no response… we again texted a few more times and nothing. We did text a couple of warm, friendly messages later that night, saying that whatever went wrong it was ok, just to let us know if they still wanted to meet. There was no response. We have not attempted any further communication with these guys, even though we have both cell numbers and the home number and all e-mail addresses. Nor do we intend to. But it still is a question in our minds. Did they get cold feet? Did they change their minds? I find it really hard to believe that they could have seen us and then felt different. - besides we look just like our pictures, they are only a couple weeks old. Is there some cool “standing-up” tactic in play here I don’t know about? At any rate, we both went out to dinner, and had a great time. Planning a trip to the club for next weekend. Let us know what you think all hypnotically, outlandish, crazy theories welcome.
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I posted earlier last week about how we weren't looking for a single for a MFM but that one kinda fell in our lap, and we decided to enjoy the situation. We both thought he was quite respectful and understood the "lifestyle". Apparently we were wrong. Friday the 13th we had our date all planned, dinner at 7, drinks, hotel room. We made the reservation, he had claimed to make a reservation for his own room. Friday afternoon, I am getting ready; going through the whole "get really pretty" process. Hair done, nails done, shaved and trimmed properly, blah blah. As we are walking out the door, my cell phone rings. It is him canceling plans. Under some circumstances I would understand it. Life does get in the way sometimes. His excuse "The Cardinals are playing Saturday and I am going up to St. Louis tonight with a friend to a pre-game party." I wanted to scream "HELLO, are you really like that? You make plans with one person and then blow em off last minute when something better comes along?" Is it me or was this just plain rude? I have made plans with people, had something that sounded better come up, and kept my original plans, because I told them I would be there. Did I miss out on some fun stuff? Maybe, but ya know, I sleep well at night knowing I didn't go out of my way to hurt someone. Anyway, that night hubby and I went out anyway for dinner drinks and did some Christmas shopping for the kids since they were at Granny's for the night. No sense in sitting home and moping and not taking advantage of no kids for the night. Three days later he writes me this email apologizing for leaving us hanging. I sent him one back saying "thanks for the apology, but it turns out we may not be compatible after all. I wish you all the best." He sends one back saying "Just like a damn woman, always playing a game." So my question, did I play a game and not realize it? Should I feel bad about changing my mind?
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Yesterday my wife spent most of the day cleaning the house and getting ready to entertain her new friend while I was at work. After a confirmation phone call around 3 pm she did all the "girl stuff" that they do before going out. At 7 we left home to meet him at the agreed place with her dressed to kill and me just short of cardiac arrest from looking at her. Since we had already had a brief meet and greet the week prior we grabbed a spot at the bar, ordered drinks and waited. When he hadn't arrived by 8 she called his cell and was sent directly to his voice mail. We ordered another drink and waited more. At 8:30 we decided that we had been stood up again and ordered dinner. When he hadn't arrived by 9:30 (two hours late) we returned home. While she and I still had a great time I could tell she was upset. She had that "What's wrong with me?" look and was forcing herself to smile. If this had been the first time it would be easier but this is the third straight single male to put us through the hassle of getting a sitter, renting a hotel (not this time but twice in the past), dressing, driving, etc. and not even bothered to call with a b/s excuse. I need your learned advice on two questions: 1) Does everyone else get stood up most of the time or is there really something the guys don't like about us? 2) How do I get my wife over being rejected?
