Search the Community
Showing results for tags 'private affair club'.
Found 9 results
-
Hi all! Married couple from PA here, somewhat new to this sort of thing! I'm 38, and my wife here is 35. Something we have both wanted to try for a long time is a gloryhole. She really likes the anonymity of it. Does anyone have any idea where in Pennsylvania we might actually find one? Would love some advice!
- 12 replies
-
- 1
-
-
- glory hole
- maryland
- (and 1 more)
-
We have had quite a few experiences in the short time we have been participating in the LS. One couple we have been with a few times, the husband hangs back and watches for the most part, some participation but mostly seems to enjoy watching things play out (which I can understand, I find watching my wife an incredible turn on, but I like to play too) But they are about on the same ground as us. Slow moving and each time takes some warm up and talk before we dive in. The other couple is very experienced, the husband usually has my wife's attention within a few minutes, and has her undivided attention in just a few more, I love seeing this ,however I am more shy (while clothed) and will sit next to his wife and place a hand on her knee, or just sit close to her, I have given her a back rub to start things off. I don't really know where I am at after 14 years with the same woman. It feels like trying to date again, without the objective of a full relationship . I brought this up the third time they came over, apologized to his wife for being shy. LOL, she said, "hun, you're anything but shy". Her husband said "When you have been swinging for a while, you get a feeling for what people are looking for, and when to do what" Does this seem normal to those in the lifestyle for a while? I can turn on the charm no problem and I am good at making people feel at ease, but that is mostly talking. Maybe it is just because I have been with the same number of people since 2004 until early this month, and am still really new to working my way up. Any thoughts, suggestions? Mr. Dazed
- 20 replies
-
- 2
-
-
- approaching others
- private affair club
- (and 2 more)
-
.thumb.gif.e6b4a934769c6ba3f820c89320841345.gif)
Does anyone know or go to this club? Maryland about 40 miles from Baltimore? Sounds very interesting. -
So we live in an area that's fairly rural with the closest club being about an hour and a half away. We haven't had any experiences but honestly we have not been looking intently (real life taking precedent). My question is about first experiences. Would you recommend clubs or online (SLS/SDC/etc) and why? It seems that we will have to invest money with either scenario - hotel/entry fee for club / membership for online sites.
-
My wife and I are looking to go to a club in MD and wanted some feedback about a club named A private affair in MD. Can anyone help? Thanks
-
Well, the longest week in a long time is almost over. Headed out for our first experience tomorrow night. We are both nervous as hell. Wish us luck...
- 16 replies
-
- 1
-
-
- maryland
- private affair club
- (and 1 more)
-
Hello everybody. My wife and I are from New York City, and new to swinging. In fact, we haven't tried yet, but are eager to. Except this looks like a complicated world I tried to google "swingers clubs in NYC", but I found myself instantly buried under a ton of information, jargon, websites with tiny writing and hundreds of pics of people who seem to have been doing this all their life, themed parties with wild costumes, even morbid stuff... I mean, I have no judgement at all on anything, and I understand that at some point, swingers become part of an underground culture with its own codes, rules, terminology, etc. But for now, WE KNOW NOTHING We just want a kind, non-agressive introduction to this new world. Can someone gently take us by the hand ? Concretely: we're looking for a club in New York (hopefully Brooklyn, but we can travel) where we'd feel comfortable, chill to nice music, have drinks, and observe some action, without pressure to participate -- but with room to, if we want. Any suggestion would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!!
-
Probably a long shot, but does anyone know of any clubs that do not allow smoking indoors. We're both very sensitive to cigarette smoke and it takes the fun out of going to club when your eyes are burning out of their sockets. We appreciate any recommendations. We are located near the Harrisburg area, so we would be looking the central/east portion of PA or Northern Maryland.
-
Hi, we are an older couple, 60 and 58 married a few years and both in good shape. While I was active in the lifestyle in my forties my wife has no experience other than going to a club with her former husband also in her forties. We want to move our bedroom fantasies to reality by exploring the lifestyle but are really not sure if we are now "too old" to go to clubs. I know there are several good clubs in Manhattan but we hold back from going because we really don't want to look or feel out of place. Any thought or suggestions would be appreciated. Thanks.
