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We have been to a number of parties and clubs but are still new and learning. We have been suprised at the number of people that are only into fem/fem play. Maybe we were nieve but we thought swinging was going to be lot about swapping and group sex involving everyone but what we have been seeing is mostly women on women with the guys just watching. Recently we had an experience where my wife had some nasty comments made about her to her face and behind her back because she was not bi enough. We were at a house party and when she wouldn't play with the other women people acted like we did not belong there in the first place. Even some guys made some snide comments. My wife is beautiful and in the beginning we were afraid that guys would always be hitting on her and trying to get her in bed but what is actually happening is guys are ignoring her and women are hitting on her and then people get nasty when she won't play with girls. I thought guys would want her to play with them but instead we get sneared at when she won't play with women. I am not knocking other peoples preferences at all but how common is this? Is there a way to tell if a couple is only interested in girl/girl before spending too much time with them to only be rejected? Are there any venues that are less girl/girl oriented and that heterosexual encounters are the norm? Why is girl/girl only such a big thing? Is it that people are afraid of guys and women are less threatening? I am not a bad looking guy and I am very polite and considerate and I am not agressive towards women at all and it kind of bugs me that women seem to be afraid of me and would rather play with other women. Is it the norm that women play with women for awhile and then when everyone is comfortable with that then the men become involved or is it as it appears and much of swinging is about just women playing with women? I am sorry for so many questions but we are just trying to understand what we need to do and where we fit in. My wife doesn't mind some female contact but she is mostly interested in guys and we want to play with other couples together not just the women.
