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I and my wife have come across a few couples, who we were not sure were swingers are not and we found it very difficult to break ice I have always wondered why no one has ever thought of a few secret signals that could convey the message, signals like that of the Masonic Lodge, which are understood only by swingers. These could be simple signals which only swingers understand. This will make things easier for both parties. Signals could be such If not understood by the other couple could simply be ignored without making anything obvious. These could be universal and could be propagated by all swinger websites
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I just recently heard that putting a pineapple flag in your yard is a way of letting other swingers know that you are also a swinger. Just wondering if this is true?
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Ok, I think most of us have a defining point where we can say that we figured out we were bisexual. BUT, looking back (gotta love hindsight) what was the first sign that you might have been attracted to the opposite sex? For me, looking back, I'd say it was the fact that I could check out other women with my guy friends and rate them, without ever feeling the least bit odd.
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I have heard before there are key points to look for to notice Hotwives/Swinging couples in public. I consider it a myth more than anything, So I will ask the more experienced here if there is any truth in it. Its rumored you can usually spot a hotwife from the color of nail polish, jewelery,ankle braclelets, preference in shoe style are all indications of a Alternative lifestyle. *I know to categorize a individual from just these simple choices is a stretch to say in the least.* But say we entertain the thought for a moment, any idea's how to spot signs on the male as well? Like anything most hobbies/activities have a simple sign to show interest in it. example: parents with kids in sports might have the football logo or whatever on their vehicle..Sure we have all seen them. Is there a global logo for swinging?lol and do you wear it publicly for the sole purpose? -
Ok, I'm going to sound like a newby, but that's because I am lol. The wife and I are going on our first cruise in a few days. It's not a "swingers cruise", but I've heard that there are usually tons of swingers on any cruise. My question is, how do we spot them? I know about the pineapple thing, but i also assume that pineapples are a pretty common thing on a Carribean cruise. We are 3 years deep in the lifestyle but, so far, we only swing with one other couple, so we have zero experience in approaching potential playmates. We are not going on the cruise to actively seek out new playmates, but would like to be ready if the opportunity arises. My questions are: 1. Is there a way to spot swingers and, if so, how? 2. Once we have determined that a couple are swingers, how do we start the conversation? 3. Is there a way that we can make ourselves visible to other couples that might be in the same boat as us? -
I'm new to this and am not really into bar scenes, so I'm not sure a club is my style. I'd like to know if there is a way to discreetly identify myself as being open to the lifestyle, and to identify others that are as well. I'm also a little submissive and know there is BDSM jewelry that indicates such, but haven't found anything for LS jewelry. HELP! -
Just noticed today that my neighbors down the street has 2 pineapple planters on their porch. The question that rises....innocent decoration or blatant swingers calling card?
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So you're in the middle of a full swap and things have gotten hot and heavy, your spouse hasn't looked at you for a long time, you think she's forgotten you're in the room... you're starting to get bothered by seeing your spouse enjoy it waaaay too much. You don't want to spoil the fun, just need your spouse to realize your still there without creating a scene, don't want the other couple to see your jealousy. Note: Don't want to stop the fun...just need your own spouse to desire you or show you some attention. How do you do it?
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Found this article. Being new to the LS, we obviously have no say in how accurate this is. However, we found it funny....and honestly, a little ridiculous. Especially the part about the garage door! Anyone care to chime in? https://nypost.com/2017/06/02/secret-signs-your-neighbor-might-be-a-swinger/
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I made my first post not quite a year ago while going thru divorce. That got final and after dating a few ladies, one captivated me. She was monogamous and that was totally fine with me. She's amazing. One of the times I picked her up for a date at her house, I laughed that she had blue flowerpots, which is a mythical "sign of swingers" in my community. I made a joke about how she must be a swinger. Well, that led to months and months of communication and discussion and reading and discussion and podcasts and more discussion until finally action was taken. We put up a profile on a site and began conversations with others. Once our state allowed restaurants to partially open, we "covid screened" another couple who had been careful in lockdown, met them for dinner, and it was on! Since then, we've had several encounters with other couples who have also been working from home and avoiding crowds. One couple took our temps at the front door as part of their protocol. We seem to be following a familiar pattern. I the male introduce the topic, we enter the LS world together with her nervous about everything, then she enjoys it a lot. And so we're in. Now we're in the process of moving in together permanently, and we will be marrying not too long after. After 10 months of knowing each other, sheltering in place together since March and working thru an entrance into the LS, we have never had a single cross word between us. We could not be happier! We look forward to learning and growing further and have enjoyed the wisdom shown on this board.
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Just thinking we should have a necklace or a ring we can wear in public so other swingers would know if they saw you out somewhere, and maybe would like to talk or maybe ask you out for a date or something LOL.
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Just wondering how to spot others in the lifestyle when you are out in the vanilla world? Thanks
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What different reactions have you gotten from you partner when things don't do as planned. Or as they change the plans and then expect you to read the signs.
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Somebody at SwingLifestyle is promoting a new Secret Symbol for swingers. Something, apparently, to seen on a button , badge or jewelry: ≥3 What do your think? -
I'm wondering if we're out socially, if there are subtle ways to tell if someone is a swinger; or if there are subtle ways we can bring up swinging without actually saying, "We are curious about swinging." That could really spread something we wouldn't be comfortable with in our area. -
Hello all, This might be a bit of an odd place for me to be as I'm not in the lifestyle although it sounds like I'd like it ;-) I'm actually hear trying to answer a question that I've had for LONG time. It is my contention that women that wear an anklet have a higher than average libido. I've researched this some and there is some indication that women in the swinging lifestyle use anklets as a way of indicating preferences. I have no idea if this is true or not and rather than propagate the conjecture I thought I'd come to where swingers hang out. I'm just an average guy that is a bit more curious than most.
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We just returned from the Splash Party in Orlando (complete hotel takeover) and noticed some hotel room doors that were left ajar by the lock closure bar. In one room in particular, we noticed quite a few different people going in and out from it at all hours of the day and some at night. Does anyone know if a propped open door at a hotel takeover means anything? I am thinking it might be a play room for those in the know? We plan to attend more hotel takeovers, and certainly other Splash Parties, so we were curious. -
Hello Everyone, I'm sorry in advance if I bore you, because I'm strictly here for advise from experienced people. I'm hoping someone has come across my feelings and understanding. First of all, I'm a 40 year old married man with my wife being 35. We currently have two children, and planning for two more in the next year or so. I've been with my wife for 10 years, and when we first started dating, she explained to me that she was bi-sexual. I was falling in love with her, and she was with me, so that never become an issue. She told me that regardless of being bi-sexual, her understanding of our love was first, and she always enjoyed making love with me over being with a woman. Well, through the years I've always suspected that maybe she did do something with me or a man...because of course, her sex drive has taken a serious drop through the years. I've stayed with a very hungry sex drive, and she has been very flat through the years....even though it was amazing our first 2 years. This is where I need to know if I'm reading the signals on our marriage. There has been time when my wife and I talk dirty, more so while she has had a few too many, that she enjoys being with 2 men at a time, basically a fantasy of it. She has told me that if she wasn't married, that she probably would have gone to swinger clubs, or been a swinger....she said that once....but then said it would never happen while she was with me...she probably couldn't handle the jealousy, as I probably couldn't handle it too...I'm Latin/Italian...and I can see myself getting too loud with someone, if something goes on too fast...or not in my control. In spite of all this...I have several fantasies when I masturbate, of us maybe soft-swinging, and really getting turned on by her reaction, and visual stimulation. Is that normal?????? When my wife was 19 yrs old...she was a phone sex operator, almost became an escort, but claimed she didn't go through it, but did admit to fucking the owner of the escort service twice. And at 17, she had some very hot sex with older men, tied to the bed, and such. Geez...when i met her, our first week, she gave me the best blowjob of my life, where she seemed like a pro, and all... to top it all off...she watched some b movie about couples doing a switch. So am I just plain stupid here...and this is her telling me that she needs to try something new...or is it me making all this up in my head because i have feelings of it too.... I don't know how I would react....but I do get lots of enjoyment in seeing my wife...my lover, at full enjoyment when we have sex.... Please help me out here....and if so...how do I approach it? thanks -
Similar topics have been posted before but I thought I might renew it. We have always wondered whether or not there are any subtle signs that another couple might be swingers. There have been posts about chameleon charms, ankle bracelets, apple tattoos etc. Other than overtly asking someone if they are a swinger or open to it, is there anything that others do which convey the message to people you might meet in a more vanilla setting?
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What are the meanings of all of these different codes contained within screen names? Some are not obvious, example, 420, which seems to mean the same as the code herb-friendly. What are some of the others?
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We would like to know if there is a way, short of hanging a sign around our neck, that identifies swingers to one another? We remember hearing many years ago about an apple with a bite out of it necklace and or earrings to signify that you were involved in the lifestyle. -
It's Monday so I thought we all could use a fun post to kick off the week. I just read a thread about "indicators or signs" about how you can identify yourself as a swinger which reminded me of a fun podcast I heard where they listed off all the ways you may be able to tell if your neighbor, co-worker, etc is a swinger. So I'll kick it off... If you see your neighbor's wife headed out the door in a trenchcoat on a Saturday night...in August...well, they just may be swingers.
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Decoder Rings & Secret Handshakes... lol
intuition897 posted a topic in Finding People to Swing With
I don't know about everyone else here on the board, but I'm feeling kinda frisky after reading all the flamethrow swinger-bashing comments from Oprah's congregation on her message board. While we feel the need to be discrete (after all, we do have kids and jobs and family, plus our sex life is really no one else's business unless we choose to make so) we are unashamed of our lifestyle. Kinda proud of it actually. So I'm ready to show my colours... discretely. Sort of like wearing a frilly black vibrating thong under a business suit Ok, so maybe a secret handshake is a little lame but is there someplace I could find some really good swingers jewelry? The bitten apple, for example? I've found a few other sites that have jewelry like a moveable penis pendant (it goes from flaccid to erect when you pull the string ). That sort of thing might be easily guessable to the vanilla crowd, but something like the bitten apple is an insider thing. It can be explained one way or another. Any ideas out there? -
Is the something like a pin out there that swingers could wear to show other swingers that they are in the lifestyle? My wife and I were talking about it and just decided to ask the question in a place where the people are nice and know what they are talking about.... thanks in advance
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