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We have been on a swinger site looking to meet a like couple close but not too close to us. We have decided that Deb would go through profiles then share with me interesting people before reaching out with a message. Last night she called out to me very excited that she found an old boyfriend from before she knew me, and his wife lives about an hour from us. I have two questions: Do people ever see people they know on swinger sites and how do you deal with it? An old boyfriend? Tell me I shouldn’t care. So far I said hold off contacting. As far as appearance and profile I would normally give a 👍🏼
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Have you every meet someone that you knew at a swingers party/club, and you had no idea that they were into that. When I first started going to my local swinger club, i met an old teacher I used to have. She was there with her husband. It was quite surprising to see her there. Had no idea she was into those kinds of thing. They were fun to be with. A few years later after I got married to my husband, and we went to a club, he met an old friend with his that he used to play hockey with , when he was young. He was pretty surprising to see him there as well. -
The thread about who you'd least like to run into at a club, got me wondering - Who would you LIKE to run into? What person (or group of people) would you just "have to" swing with if you encountered them online or at a club?
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Ok, either we're not very discreet or I have a peculiar set of friends. While out last night with Mrs.DontStop and another ls couple we happened upon another set of swingers. Ok, so maybe that dancing/grinding/kissing/touching/groping that the four of us were doing didn't make it tough to point us out. But hey, we met another couple who are on Swing Lifestyle. But geez... Tonight I visit a bar that an ex-coworker of mine just opened. Cool place, we have a good time for a couple hours but we've got to leave. So the ex-coworker comes by to say goodnight to us and says "I saw your profile on Swing Lifestyle..." Funny thing is, we bumped into he and his wife last weekend. We did notice her talking to and flirting with another guy while he was a few paces behind them, talking to other friends. Mrs and I were pretty sure they were swingers because we often find ourselves in that same situation. So when we got to the bar tonight we talked suggestively and openly in his presence, but he never took the bait. And then at the end of the night he slaps us with it. Oh, the fun!
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Ok, if you've read my thread "Curious about the lifestyle" you will know that I'm working on helping my wife open up about her feelings towards other women. Per some of the advice I've received about getting a profile set up on both here and a "meet swingers" site, I did just that. I opened up a profile for us on swinglifestyle.com. Now the interesting part. I met up with an old friend from high school at the reunion a few weeks ago. Him and I are both working on houses and have planned on getting together to check each other's projects out. His wife was wearing something very low cut and you couldn't help but look at her incredible breasts. I kind of fantasized at the time that they were swingers, and hoped that my wife noticed her also. About 2 days ago, I got a reply from the profile I put up. This was a shock after all my experiences on dating sites when I was single. Anyway, it was this couple. She has started playing with women and would like to get together based on our profile. It turned out that I had called him earlier that day about meeting up that night to look at the houses. I figured out the next day that it was them for sure, but they still don't know it's us on the site. How can I broach this subject and say " hey, you know that profile you mailed... Guess what, it's us!" I'm a bit concerned that if I wait too long they'll think I'm stringing them along. But I also don't want to go too far yet as my wife, although fantasizing about this, still has not opened up about it. I also worry that they aren't exactly my wife's type. What should I do? I never expected to actually get a response from a profile. -
We live in the same town as my Mother and not that my mother would be in a swingers club, but some of her friend might. Who would you hate to run into in a swingers club? -
Long story short I am the PTA VP and I was in the school store today getting ready for school to start on Tuesday when the principal came in and wanted to introduce the new teacher (who is also going to be my daughter's teacher). I turned around and came face to face with a man whom I have played with at a few house parties in the past. I am that parent that is always in the classroom and helping around the school and classroom. I know if I ask they will move my daughter but I'm not sure if I should? I just don't know what to do. My husband is no help he finds it funny and told me to do what I wanted. Mind you we are supposed to be at a house party this weekend with this man and his wife too.
