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On the Board here, people discuss their more elaborate sexual practices and memorable experiences. But earlier today because of the press of other weekend responsibilities, Red and I had a quick one. Afterward in the car feeling somewhat satisfied and somewhat unsatisfied, it got me to thinking: I wonder how the other Swing Boarders feel about the subject. Please vote and comment.
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Question for you guys and out there (ladies feel free to chime in too!). My wife and I recently experienced our 6th MFM experience. All have been extremely hot and satisfying not only for us, but for the single too. I have noticed that 3 of the 4 single males that we have played with had some incredible stamina (or I guess what I consider incredible), meaning they were able to fuck for at least one hour without their first orgasm . Is this normal for most guys? I can honestly say that the longest I have been able to hold out with my beautiful wife has been between 20-25 minutes . Is there a measurement out there that defines what is normal, abnormal, and what is premature? Don't get me wrong, I loved the fact that these guys could go for so long with my wife. They made her cum three or four times before they each had their first orgasm. The first couple of times I felt kind of jealous in the fact that these guys could satisfy my wife so many times, but I am completely over that (hell, it has made our lovemaking a lot more exciting and to watch her in the throes of passion gets me going anyway). I just want to know how is it possible for these guys to last this long?? Thanks!
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On Friday we had our first MFM experience. Overall it was really hot, and very exciting. We met the guy off of SLS and he had some experience and we were as new as we could be. After about 40 minutes, we were done, but the guy we invited said he was not even close to cumming. My wife said when she first started to suck his cock, she smelled something 'Mediciney" and when they started fucking, he had his condom on and kept pouring tons of lube. My wife was extremely wet, so I was surprised he used so much lube. He used almost all of a brand new bottle. In the end, my wife said she was done. She tried to finish him off with her mouth and hand, but he said it was going to take a lot longer. Is this normal or was it possible that he used numbing cream, the condom, viagra and a ton of lube to not cum? My wife feels bad, and now thinks he was not attracted to her or she was not good.
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Here are two questions, the first for the guys, the second for everyone. I wondered how many times do you guys generally get off during a swinging encounter - Once? Twice? Even more? Also, how long do your swinging encounters usually last - A few hours? An evening? An entire weekend? Just curious.
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Random thoughts this morning.... I've often heard from other women, not just here, that they're looking for someone who's hung like a horse and can fuck for hours. Seriously? That scares me. Maybe it's my age and I've experienced a lot of different sized men and have gone for minutes to hours. The hour stuff was mostly in my youth when I could get a handle on it. I'm not sure why some women prefer the well hung male. Anything over 7 inches is scary to me. It's painful. Literally. I've been with males hung like a hamster to hung like a horse. I like the in-betweens. They're "comfortable". They just fit. Plus, it's no secret I'm a girth girl. I do love girth. Some men are more gifted than others, but I wouldn't trade a single play date I've had. It's all been fun in one way or another. Now, I got an email from a sweet, single gentleman yesterday who said he could go for hours. That's also scary to me. Is it just my old body screaming "NO!!", but realistically, 20-30 minutes of constant penetration and friction is too much. I can go for several sessions that last for hours, but not hours on end all at once. I love sex, I really do. If I didn't, I doubt I'd be swinging with my sweet husband. But am I the only one who isn't after someone hung like a horse that can last for hours? I hope not. I hope I'm not some anomaly who thinks this way. I've noticed that most letters we get from single males share this same thought... they can go for hours. Do they think that's what we need to hear? What we want to hear? I'm not sure. What are your thoughts, girl on the board. Men, I'm curious what you think, too. Thoughts anyone?
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At the regular on-premise club we attend, their is a single male in his mid twenties who has established a reputation for being able to go a long time. He will regularly pump away for 45 minutes and has been known to go on for as much as 2 hours. We were recently having lunch with some swinger friends and the subject came up of how long is too long. It seems that some people have the belief that longer is better. But the consensus among the three women at lunch was that they would much rather have a guy who had an orgasm after ten or fifteen minutes and then came back later for seconds than someone who pumped away for 30 minutes or more. So, my question is, excluding foreplay, from the time of actual insertion, how long is the optimum time before reaching climax? -
We have no experience with this at all, so I have a question. Let's say that you and your partner are going to meet up with another couple and have sex. How long would you expect to actually have sex? How many times would you expect the guys to cum? Is this something that would be typically discussed with the other couple beforehand? Thanks
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It has been quite sometime since we were single & we haven't been swinging full swap very long. The thing I worry about is not lasting as long as I used to. I am 50 now & I worry about satisfying my swing female partner. I guess I do ok for a middle-aged man but I still worry if I am performing time wise as expected. Ladies, what do you find a normal time frame is for "intercourse" from your male swing partner? Especially those middle-aged partners... 50ish. With or without Viagra, Cialis, etc. Sometimes I use it sometimes I don't. Just intercourse... not foreplay, oral etc. 5 minutes 10 minutes 20 minutes or longer... how long?
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We've been in the lifestyle for quite a few years and I see a lot of e-mails and posts from men who claim that they can go for hours on end before they cum. I've had a lot of sex partners and I think the longest term of continuous thrusting may have been 30 minutes. My best partner usually cums in less time than that but it's enough to give me a great orgasm. Actually my favorite thing is foreplay, kissing, oral and fucking and changing positions. But I usually don't watch the clock. I just try to enjoy the experience.
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I just found this interesting little tidbit in Fitness magazine... I know the Spoos will find it interesting anyway (and maybe they can even confirm it). According to Run For Life by Sam Murphy, 40% of women who ran for exercise reported greater sexual arousal. 31% had sex more often and 25% found orgasm easier to achieve. Sounds like a good reason to take up running, if you ask me.
