As always thanks to all who have given us Sagely advice, the wife and I greatly appreciate the input and insight we get here.
So, just a story about a recent Meet and Greet I'd like to share:
The wife and I met with this couple that the wife reguarly posts in topics ( the husband like myself works a lot and doesn't have much
time for social media), and they seemed really nice and were presentable enough. So as we were discussing adventures in the LS,
the topic got around to what we ( each couple) are looking for. Well they are looking for a LTFWB situation with a lady, single or married,
and haven't had much luck. We mentioned that we were looking for a couple that we could get along with, be friends first then develop into FWB.
The lady then commented that "Darn! if only you guys were a bit more open." as she stroked my wife's arm.
Holding my glass in my hand, I said then " Darn! If only you guys had your insecurities worked out, and weren't so close minded, maybe we would be."
She turned red and we thanked them for the conversation and moved on to meeting others.
On the way home the wife and I didn't talk much about it, but i mulled it over today...
Every couple I meet always says "it's so hard, sometimes I just want to give up..." but to me, it would seem if you opened up more, you'd have more matches....
Couples who are stuck only looking for females, and striking out because their attracted to women in couples who are couple full swap, and saying their not successful...
Couples who are looking for play partners, but then limit play partners due to HWP or Race.....
It just strikes me as funny....if the LS was run like a job, with a boss /supervisor, and people were assigned to "depts" to make it work...a lot of these
things would go away.....
Oh well, if nothing else the LS has been very good for the occasional laugh and insight into the human psyche....
Have a great Holiday one and all!